There is an old saying in the countryside that "it is a big mistake for my sister to send her sister, and it is poor for several generations, and my sister-in-law to send her aunt". Does this make sen

There is an old saying in the countryside that "it is a big mistake for my sister to send her sister, and it is poor for several generations, and my sister-in-law to send her aunt". Does this make sense? To be honest, this sentence really confuses me. Maybe many people, like me, have never heard of this sentence in the countryside.

Big sister sent little sister, poor generations, sister-in-law sent aunt, make a scene.

It should mean backpacking, which is very common in rural areas. People in the city may not know. In fact, young people in rural areas don't know much about it now. Of course, our Chinese characters are extensive and profound, and the same Chinese characters will have their specific meanings when used in different sentences. Sister-in-law's sending her sister-in-law means that the benefits of her sending her sister-in-law are many, many. We can understand it as an agricultural tool for loading things in the countryside.

So how do you understand this sentence?

According to our current observation, now that the whole family has married their daughters in the countryside, we are not so concerned. Of course, I remember when my sister got married, my parents didn't leave and waited at home. That is to say, when I married my daughter, my parents didn't go out. Of course, there is no such pressure in rural areas now.

Then why did you say I was poor for generations? I think this sentence has some truth in the former countryside, but I have heard a similar sentence, that is, as long as there are boys at home, rural people will become richer even if they are poor. And if there are only girls at home, they may be rich now, but in fact they are getting poorer and poorer.

Why do you say that? As we all know, in the past, rural areas preferred boys to girls. They think that although boys also spend money, such as spending money to marry a daughter-in-law, build a house and have children and so on. The money they spend is also in their own homes, or it can be said that they buy real estate, and will be more and more in the future. And if there are only girls in the family, everything in the family will become someone else's because of the woman's marriage. This is what the chef told me when I was a chef. It sounded reasonable at that time.

Understand this, then the sentence that my sister sent her sister to be poor for generations can be understood. There should be only two sisters at home, no boys. Sister should have found a door-to-door son-in-law, otherwise she is not going to get married, and the only sister is also married. At this time, it is even more obvious that this family is weak, so it is very difficult to turn over.

In other words, my sister-in-law sent her aunt away and made a scene.

Sister and sister are sisters naturally. But the eldest sister-in-law and the younger sister-in-law are not United, and even often quarrel. In general, sister-in-law has a higher family status than sister-in-law, or sister-in-law is afraid of sister-in-law. When my sister-in-law gets married, she becomes the real master of the family, or she has one less object to quarrel with. Such examples are also common in rural areas. All sisters-in-law are looking forward to getting married early.

Obviously, three women live alone, and my sister-in-law sent her away. This family must be much more at leisure. There is a saying that when everything is prosperous at home and the family is harmonious, financial resources will naturally come, so this is a good sign.

Of course, this proverb is rarely heard now, which is also determined by the economic conditions at that time. This phenomenon is rare now. Even if the sister-in-law is unmarried, she will live separately. The most important daughter is also a descendant, both male and female.

My mother always said that menstruation wouldn't come with me, but menstruation didn't agree. Do you still have this phenomenon there?