What are the pains of confinement that you only know after experiencing?

Confinement is a woman's "nightmare". Many pregnant women think that they can enjoy life happily after giving birth, but they didn't expect more desperate things to happen during confinement. Anyone who has been in confinement knows that carelessness will leave many unhealthy problems for later life.

Do you feel the same way about the most painful thing in recent months?

1, knife-edge pain

This varies from person to person, mainly depending on the tolerance to pain. New mothers who give birth naturally may face lateral incision during delivery. Although there is no pain during childbirth, lateral incision should not be underestimated. Caesarean section will leave obvious scars on your abdomen. After the operation, the anesthetic will disappear and the pain will be very obvious.

2, the bad habit of confinement

Puerperal sweat glands are very active, and it is easy to sweat a lot, and there is lochia in the lower body. The sanitary conditions of the body are very poor. If the body is not clean, it is easy to breed bacteria and cause puerperal infection. I sweated a lot when I was locked up. I've been sweating all the time, even though I didn't do anything. A month later, I naturally recovered.

Now the family environment is relatively good, with solar water heater, yuba and hair dryer, which can completely avoid the occurrence of cold infection after bathing, and I feel better after bathing. So I took a bath with trepidation. Can you imagine what it's like not to wash your hair for half a month? Like a pile of grass on your head, all kinds of insects are moving in the grass.

3. Spit while eating during the moon meal.

N meals a day, all kinds of soups and water are vomited, thinking that they are all for children, just eat them! However, the more terrible moon meal is yet to come! Forget the eggs, there are all kinds of brown sugar food! ! Finally, there is pork belly soup!

4. Milk production

During confinement, the breasts swell to a certain extent, and the milk is like rain every day. You have to use a milking machine to squeeze out the excess milk, and it hurts when you squeeze it. Thinking about confinement is really a collapse.

5. It has no complete meaning.

Since confinement, I have to breast-feed my baby on time every day, especially at night, and my child has to breast-feed several times. Once I even fell asleep with my children. I'm afraid to think about it now. I don't know if the baby choked on milk. Dare not think. I was so sleepy at that time that I couldn't sleep well when I was pregnant. I thought after giving birth, I could return to my normal life. I didn't expect it to start.

6, the whole body aches

I don't know if other mothers have had this situation. I often feel weak in my waist and knees, especially in my waist. The kind of pain I can't stand. Until many years have passed, this problem still exists.

7. being accused by others for no reason

It's just that giving birth is uncomfortable, and it's the same as not being able to sleep at night. But someone still accused me. I remember when my husband's aunt came to see us, she said that my milk was not good, which was really annoying. You said you didn't need help, but don't make trouble. It's really annoying

8. There are differences in parenting concepts.

. Elders have experience in raising children, and many places have merits. The younger generation of modern people follow the scientific method more, so no one can understand who is arguing endlessly. My mother-in-law and I argued endlessly about it. Until now, I still remember that the child fell asleep in the second month, and her mother-in-law just didn't go to the hospital for examination, saying that the child was fine in the first month. Later, I resolutely went to the hospital to check the unbalanced nutrition and low sodium of the moon meal!

9. Sudden sense of loss

I always cry during confinement, which is very puzzling. I want to cry when there is nothing. I cried until my eyes hurt and my temper was very big. Later, I learned that women who are confinement are prone to depression after childbirth.

Although confinement lasted only one month, it gave me the feeling that it was too bitter to persist for several years. Only those who have experienced it know the bitterness and tiredness inside.