How much harm does the quarrel between husband and wife do to children?

It is said that the daughter is a mother's intimate little cotton-padded jacket. Wei weicai 1 1 year old. She hates her father very much, because in a frustrated marriage, she became the object of her mother's talk. Her mother poured out her inner pain to her daughter, complained and was angry with her husband, and exposed her husband's "infidelity" to her daughter. In the child's mind, her mother became the image of the weak, while her father became the devil. However, Wei Wei can't change anything in her parents' relationship, but has added a lot of psychological burden beyond her actual age. Analysis: There are endless contradictions between husband and wife in the family, and it is difficult for children to stay out of it. When they live in fear, they are worried and uneasy. Words like "Mom is angry" and "Dad is unhappy" even make them afraid. Emotionally, I have never felt the warmth of my family since I was a child, and my long-term depression has become quiet and withdrawn. Emotional barriers between parents will also affect children, making them extremely indifferent to others and society, lacking enthusiasm and responsibility. Even some children turn from disappointment to disgust and hatred for their parents, which in turn leads to anti-social behavior; In terms of emotions, affected by the contradiction between parents, some children's emotions change dramatically, and negative emotions are often more than positive emotions, showing moodiness, pessimism, irritability, etc. In terms of interpersonal relationships, families with frequent conflicts between parents make children lack experience in getting along with their families, so they don't believe that people can have friendly and intimate relationships. In interpersonal communication, it is characterized by poor sociability and obvious aggressive behavior. Husband and wife quarrel is inevitable. It's best not to quarrel in front of the children. If the child is unfortunately seen and heard, remember that your opinion will affect the child's view of gender and attitude towards interpersonal relationships in the future. Let your children learn from you the respect for different sexes and the truth of facing contradictions, so as to ensure their mental health. Don't complain to the children. Some parents will tell their children how their parents are after quarreling. This practice makes children face the troubles of the adult world prematurely and adds a lot of burden to the young mind. Children are simple, and this burden may lead children to involuntarily want to make up for their regrets from work, spouse or other interpersonal relationships when they grow up. This unhealthy mentality may also create another unhealthy family. Therefore, try to find your own friends to complain and leave a simple sky for your children. Don't judge each other in front of children. After you adjust your mood, you can tell your children about your quarrel. Remember: only talk about things! Simply tell your child the reason for the quarrel and try not to add your own point of view. You can try saying, "What are Mom and Dad arguing about?"