How difficult is it to get married again?

Second marriage is indeed difficult, and generally it is not happier than first marriage. If the first marriage can be maintained, do your best to maintain it, and don't think about obtaining happiness through a second marriage. Interesting comment: Although there are no second marriages, when you see your relatives and friends who are secondly married, you can find that second marriages are really not easy. First of all, second-married couples will be on guard against each other and will not dig into each other like first-married couples; secondly, it will be more difficult if one or both of the second-married couples live with children; thirdly, second-married couples will have The other person's relationship with his ex remains on guard. The above three points are just observations and summaries of interesting comments. In fact, there are many difficulties in second marriage.

First, second-married couples will be wary of each other and will not be as innocent as they were during their first marriage. Often when they get married for the first time, both parties are brought together because of love and both hope to grow old together. No matter what the reason is for ending your first marriage, you will lose your illusions about marriage and return to the most basic elements of daily necessities. Therefore, second marriages are often not about love, but about getting together for life.

Since they are getting together for life, both parties in the second marriage will not be as innocent as they were in the first marriage, but will be on guard against each other. Interesting comment: Although I have not been married for a second time, I have been in love with a divorced woman. When it comes time to talk about marriage, a divorced woman will be very realistic and put forward many material requirements, such as monthly living expenses, a house with her name on it, acceptance of her son, etc. Qu Ceng is also a relatively realistic person who did not get carried away by love and ended the relationship decisively.

Secondly, it will be more difficult for second-married couples to live with each other’s children. Under normal circumstances, after two people divorce, the boy will stay with his father, and the girl will stay with her mother. For second-married couples, if the other party or their own children are added to the marriage, the difficulty can be imagined. Qu Ping's uncle's wife died when he was young, leaving his eldest cousin behind. After the current fifth aunt came, there were a lot of family conflicts because of the eldest cousin's affairs. More importantly, the fifth uncle and fifth aunt are old, and the subsequent pension issues are also very troublesome.

As for stepchildren, no matter how good they are, they are never as close as biological children. If you supervise your stepchildren too much, you may be seen as treating your stepchildren harshly; if you supervise them too little, you may be considered as having no affection for your stepchildren. When you retire in the future, you will have more troubles.

Third, second-married couples easily become suspicious. It is not uncommon for second-married couples to have exes, and it is not uncommon for their relationship to rekindle. This is also a difficulty for second-married couples to get along. Comments suggest that if it is not absolutely necessary, one should remain single or marry an unmarried man or woman. After experiencing a marriage, your view of marriage will become very realistic, instead of prioritizing love. Although marriage will eventually become a reality, it still needs the nourishment of love.

We welcome everyone to discuss. Do you think there is really a big difference between first marriage and second marriage? If you were single, would you choose second marriage as your marriage partner?