What if life insights

If’s life insights 1

If you want to live a more emotional life, please get closer to poetry.

If you want to live more rationally, please think closer.

If you want to live more elegantly, please get closer to culture.

If you want to live a more vivid life, please get closer to art.

If you want to live a more free and easy life, please be closer to tolerance.

If you want to live a deeper life, please get closer to wisdom.

If you want to live a richer life, please get closer to knowledge.

If you want to live a simpler life, please get closer to confusion.

If you want to live more confidently, please get closer to your abilities.

If you want to live a happier life, please work harder.

If you want to live a more peaceful life, please get closer to your conscience.

If you want to live a softer life, please get closer to your feelings.

If you want to live a stronger life, please get closer to your responsibilities.

If you want to live a warmer life, please be closer to friendliness.

If you want to live a noble life, please be closer to respect. If's Life Insights 2

If I had never loved you with all my heart, the moment I look back, my tears would not be so disappointing;

If I had never loved you with all my heart, no matter how beautiful the life would be without you, Fireworks are also desolate;

If I have never loved you with my heart, every time I am alone, loneliness will not haunt me;

If I have never loved you with my heart, why is your figure always there? It cannot be erased;

If I had not loved you with my heart, my name would not be written all over the paper;

If I had not loved you with my heart, why would the blessings in my heart have been left to you? You;

If I had never loved you with all my heart, I would not have stared at your photo until dawn;

If I had never loved you with all my heart, how could I have revisited our *** friendship? The footsteps I have walked;

I am Yuting Last Night

If I have never loved you with my heart, why is your face always so clear;

If I have never loved you You, why write these words here, why write your name on my heart;

If I never loved you, why did I give you all my care?

If If I have never loved you, why do I shed tears for you until dawn;

If I have never loved you, why do I always think about the laughter and laughter of the past;

Tell me the answer to this complicated riddle, it’s just I want to know why there was that separation;

Carrying a heavy emotional debt and leaving hurt, I have gone far, tired and desolate;

If I had never loved you , how could I regard the lies you told me as absolutely true;

If I had never loved you, I would not lie quietly on the bed at night and tell my longing for you;

If I had never loved you, I would not forgive you quietly in my heart;

If I had never loved you, I would not close my eyes when I heard the stinging music;

If I had never loved you, I would not have known that the pain of charm has always been in my heart... If you have life insights 3

1. Because you have parents in your life, it is beautiful

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Look, what is that? The parents are calling their young son. The son gently runs to the side of the parents and pulls the corners of his parents' clothes. The father holds his son with a rare smile on his face. .

The son’s little hand patted gently, and the father’s big hand gently squeezed the mother’s hand. As the three of them walked together, what remained were only beautiful memories.

Birds are flying in the sky, fish are swimming in the water, everything is so beautiful. The husband is proud of having a wife and son; the wife is childish and solemn because of her husband's great mind and obedient children; and the children are naturally beautiful because they have a wonderful family.

A piece of scenery stands by the river. It is a beautiful scenery of father, mother and children. When your parents are older, my child, please remember the beautiful scenery of your childhood.

2. Because there is true love in life, it looks sunny

Look, those children on the roadside who stop passers-by come out to deceive people at a young age. They are all talking about it. This child had a subtitle on the ground: "Due to various reasons..." A passerby came in, looked at the subtitle, and gave the child 300 yuan. The child excitedly pulled passerby's trouser leg, and passerby turned his head. I looked at the child and helped the child up from the ground. My child, I believe you are not a liar. Go home quickly and find your family. The people around him all cast a strange light on the passerby. What kind of light was it? Maybe it was telling him, "This kid is a liar!"

Dozens of days passed, and passerby A received 600 yuan, that was money sent by a child. I believe that true love exists in the world, so people imagine the world to be so beautiful. The bright sunshine shines on the earth, the spring flowers wave to you, and the saplings on the roadside greet you. Smile, helping others is equivalent to helping yourself. May the world be filled with beauty. Don't forget those who have helped you, because that is a debt you will never pay off in your lifetime.

3. Because there are feelings in life, it is unforgettable

“Let’s break up!” the girl said

“Why!” the boy said

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"Don't ask too many questions, I don't want to do this either," the girl said

The boy felt that the sky was slowly falling down, everything around him was no longer so dazzling, and the flowers followed. Withered, the leaves also fell quietly. The boy looked at the girl walking away, with crystal tears in his eyes.

Decades have passed, and the boy and girl met. (Thanksgiving) They hugged each other and cried, because they never let go of each other, so they got married and divorced. Only when they got older did they think of finding each other.

Boy, please cherish the girl who treats you well, because no one in the world will treat you like this to her again, even if she occasionally makes mistakes, even if she occasionally goes overboard, even if she..., please remember This is her acting coquettishly to you, because no girl will ever treat you like this to her.

Girl, please cherish the boy who treats you well, because no one in the world will treat you like this again. A warm heart is to tolerate your occasional mistakes, and a broad mind is for The place where you lie when you cry, with such a vast mind in the world, he will only be open to you, because he only has you in his heart.

Cherish the boys (girls) around you, because he (she) has naturalized you into his life. Whoever leaves you in the world will still live, but he (she, because of you, That’s why life is so brilliant.

Remember the promises you made when he (she) accompanied you through the most difficult days.

4 , Because there is forgiveness in life, it is dazzling

"How could you do this?" The boss said to the employee, but the employee did not raise his head, he was waiting for what the boss said.

< p> One day passed, and the boss did not come up to say a word to the employees.

The next day came, and the boss walked up to the employees and said, "Come on, this should be like this, and that should be like that." The boss said with a smile. , as if what happened yesterday didn’t happen. The employee lowered his head and said yes. After the boss was about to leave, he turned around and said, "By the way, you go back to eat. I'll ask your brother to boil an egg for you." "I'll have some when I get back." Eat outside!" the employee replied. The boss walked up to the employee and said, "I asked your brother to prepare the meal. Just go back and eat. Okay, just change it. Yesterday's..." . The boss left, and the employees shed tears.

Cherish all the people around you, because those people have given you a helping hand, even if they have not been kind to you, even if they are no longer good to you. Bad, even if he..., please cherish him, because he makes you understand that there is love, hate, sorrow and sadness in this world

There is true love in the world, it depends on whether you truly understand life, please Be grateful to this world, because it gives you the space to show yourself.

If's Life Insights 4

If you are my forever person, please give me a 100% sense of security and trust!

If you are my forever person, I hope you can regard me as very important and not let me suffer any harm, especially the harm you have brought to me is more serious than anyone else!

If you are my forever person, you must promise to treat me with 100% sincerity!

If you are my forever person, I hope you can be the first person to say good morning to me every day. Even if no one says a word to me except you all day long, there will always be someone who says good morning to me. You and I won't feel alone!

If you are my forever person, I hope you can only say good night to me every day, and only say "good" to others!

If you are my forever person, I hope you can watch me fall asleep every day and sleep peacefully!

If you are my forever person, I hope you will never be willing to close my video or hang up my phone!

If you are my forever one, I hope you can take care of me when I am sick!

If you are my forever one, I hope you can stay with me when I am lonely and helpless!

If you are my forever person, I hope you will never let me shed tears and hold me tightly when I cry!

If you are my forever person, I hope you can clearly tell me your relationship with every other girl! Don't do anything detrimental to our relationship behind my back!

If you are my forever person, I hope you will learn how to coax me, know how to care for me, and bring me more care and touch in life, so that I can truly feel it. Your love for me!

If you are my forever one, I hope you can always pamper me and tolerate me!

If you are my forever person, please don’t get angry with me, don’t scold me, don’t be mean to me!

If you are my forever person, you don’t have to be handsome, as long as I like it, then you will be the most handsome in my eyes, better than anyone else!

If you are my forever person, I hope you can see more of my kindness to you and feel more of my love and care for you!

If you are my forever person, you don’t have to be rich, but at least I don’t have to worry about whether you will have no money to spend and whether you will live a good life every day!

If you are my forever person, please be motivated, filial, and responsible, and you will always be responsible for me and our family!

If you are my forever person, please treat my friends equally and not favor that person just because he or she looks better!

If you are my forever person, you don’t have to be with me 24 hours a day, but you must be with me for at least a little while every day, and when I miss you, I will send you a message. You can respond immediately. If something makes me misunderstand you, you can give me a reasonable explanation!

If you are my forever person, please allow me to do some "excessive" things, but the starting point of those things is just because I care about you and don't want to lose you!

If you are my forever person, please first empty your heart and leave me alone! No matter how much unforgettable or casual past we have with each other, you must ensure that we treat each other sincerely from the beginning. We may make each other jealous and unhappy, but we can understand each other better!

If you are my forever person, please don’t give up on me no matter what. Even if we quarrel, you will still be reluctant to give up. There will be thousands of reasons to fall in love with each other again and let the future Let’s continue and let each other understand love better! If’s Life Insights 5

Hey~ Let’s play an irresponsible game

Remember to ask after the second phone call with you

I said this

The first time I met you, I didn’t feel anything, you were just a person I wanted to get along with in the future

The first time you met me, you thought I was a very strange person

This is the first time I heard someone use the word "詷" to describe myself

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We had a good chat over tea for the first time

I just don’t understand why you suddenly asked me to stay with you in the park after you said you were going home

Let’s chat

A text message asked me if I could call

Yes

I received your call

Next I received the problem you gave me

A game played behind your girlfriend’s back

A game played by people who have boyfriends and girlfriends with each other

It's a pity that I can't afford to play with you

But I played with you

More or less revengeful mentality

You should be responsible for this attitude Point of responsibility

Although I will think of your footprints in a certain corner

But it is just a corner

An inconspicuous touch point

I have also sacrificed memories that I shouldn’t have sacrificed for this period

How are you doing

I still continue to ask the people around me

Do you want to play an irresponsible game? What if life insights 6

Xiao Zhang is Xiao Wang’s girlfriend, and the two often have conflicts over money issues. Finally one day, Xiao Zhang and Xiao Wang had a huge quarrel. At that time, they were just getting ready to get married.

Xiao Wang slammed the door and left. Xiao Zhang's last words to Xiao Wang were: "If you are a man, don't knock on this door again!"

The angry Xiao Wang decided He would never visit Xiao Zhang again, but after thinking about it again and again, he decided to apologize to Xiao Zhang. However, when he walked to the door of his girlfriend's dormitory, he hesitated. After thinking for a long time, he rang the doorbell. But the door didn't open, and Xiao Wang knew that Xiao Zhang was hiding in the house. He rang the doorbell a second time, but Xiao Zhang still didn't open the door. Xiao Wang decided to knock on the door for the third time. If Xiao Zhang didn't open the door again, he would stay away from the door completely. The doorbell was rang by Xiao Wang for the third time, but the door still did not open. Xiao Wang left sadly and never came back.

Many years passed, and when the two met again, Xiao Wang had become a husband and Xiao Zhang had also gotten married. However, the scene of that year was still fresh in the memories of both parties. Xiao Wang asked Xiao Zhang: "Why didn't you open the door when I pressed the doorbell three times?"

Xiao Zhang said: "When I heard the first doorbell, At that time, I had not yet decided to forgive you. When I heard the second doorbell, I was about to forgive you. When I heard the third doorbell, I had already walked to the door and waited for you to ring the fourth doorbell. At that time, I thought, if you ring. If you ring the doorbell for the fourth time, I will forgive you completely. But I didn’t expect you to give up like this.”

Xiao Wang said to Xiao Zhang: “If I ring the doorbell for the fourth time, you will really forgive me.” Will you forgive me? If you forgive me, will we get married now? What if..." There is no room for what-ifs in life. The same goes for love. Why not cherish it when you have it? And wait until you lose it before fantasizing about the impossible? Why don't you persevere when doing things, but give up easily, letting it become a lifelong regret, and in the end you can only cowardly imagine beautiful things with what-ifs? If's life insights 7

In the mountains in the early morning, a river flows quietly.

There was a fly hovering above the river, just a few centimeters away from the surface. There is a small fish under the water, and it thinks that if the fly flies down another two centimeters, I can jump up and eat it. There was a bear lurking on the shore, thinking that if the fly flew down another two centimeters, the little fish would jump up and eat it, and I could rush over and enjoy a good meal. Near the river, a hunter was hiding in the tall grass. He watched this scene quietly, thinking that if the fly dropped another two centimeters, the small fish would jump up and eat it, and the bear would run over and catch the fish. , and I could hit the bear with one shot.

There was a mouse at the entrance of a hole on the shore. It thought that if the fly dropped another two centimeters, the small fish would jump up and eat it, and the bear would run over and catch the fish. The hunter would step up and shoot the bear, and I would have enough time to get the cheese from his bag. At this time, a cat squatted on a nearby tree. The cat thought that if the fly dropped another two centimeters, the small fish would jump up and eat it, the bear would run over and catch the fish, and the hunter would Stand up and shoot the bear, and the rat will come out and steal the cheese, so I can catch the rat quickly.

Everyone is very happy and full of expectations. Suddenly, the fly dropped two centimeters, and they immediately acted as planned: the fish jumped up and ate the fly, the bear rushed out and swallowed the fish in one mouthful, and the hunter stood up and shot the bear. However, a gunshot broke all the tranquility. The mouse was frightened by the gunshot and forgot about the cheese. The cat was also frightened and suddenly lost its balance and fell from the tree.

When we stare closely at the temptations of life and make what we think is a perfect plan in our hearts, we often forget the series of panic caused by a "gunshot". If I could be the moon, I would never compete with the sun during the day. If I could be the stars, I would rather choose to be with the night, so peaceful.

I still remember that time. On that day, when I was a freshman, I participated in the school performance for the first time, put on makeup for the first time, and prepared for a long time alone in the audience. . With this countless first time... I have been looking forward to the performance for a long time. With my heart filled with joy, this wonderful day finally came as promised.

The scenes of the performance and the pictures were deeply imprinted in my heart. Gradually, it was our turn to play. The moment I was about to enter the field, I suddenly discovered that there was an extra person in the originally harmonious team. In fact, this has nothing to do with me, because it is always someone else who makes the arrangements, and they also make the number of people on the stage. Finally, I chose to leave and left silently.

Sometimes participation is courage, and sometimes excess is just imperfection!

Everyone likes perfection, and so do I. Everyone doesn’t want to have any shortcomings, and I feel the same way. Although this is my first time on stage; although this is the first time I have worked so hard to do something; even though I have worked harder than others off the stage; even though I always believe that there is no place on the stage. Who is more suitable than me. But when these things collided with choices and commitments, I chose to fulfill them. Some things cannot be fought for; some things need someone to fulfill them; some things need someone to pay for them.

Finally, I returned to the stage. I left a few perfect photos of my first time and then turned around and left silently. I think from the beginning to the end, no one noticed that anyone had left. I think everyone felt that it was a perfect ending that day! The sky that day blurred my eyes, and the sky that day was just like my mood. That night, no one understood my mood. While everyone was celebrating on the stage, I was alone outside to relieve my sorrow. That night, no one knew how long I had been drinking. That night, no one cared about me drinking. How much!

In the early morning of the next day, when the first ray of sunshine shone into my house, I realized that today’s sky was exceptionally blue, today’s clouds were exceptionally light, and today’s air was exceptionally fresh. It turns out that I understand me best. If not, I would not choose to leave.

Suddenly, I seemed to understand something, but I didn’t quite understand it.

Every time, always at the most dazzling moment, I choose to be behind the stage, maybe it is out of some kind of love for the group in my heart, maybe it is out of the glory of the group, maybe it is just the helplessness of being a supporting role. . The most glorious moments are always left to others, but I am willing to stand behind the stage, in a forgotten corner; the most amazing moments are always willing to dedicate all my youth to irrelevant people, and I always struggle in the remaining spring and autumn; when I am the most lonely, I always choose to walk away; I always go out at the most gorgeous moments and share with others; I always retreat when I am the most lonely, and live alone in the world. .

In the ups and downs of life, I am always looking for something, the belonging of my heart, and the journey of my dreams. Wandering in the world of mortals, I am always forgetting something, forgetting what I have never remembered, and forgetting what I thought I remembered.

When you are happy, you always forget that you are alone. When you are sad, you still remember that you are alone.

Some brilliance needs to be shared, some drifting does not require time, and some endurance needs to be hidden. Although there is no gorgeous ending, although there is no perfect turn, although no one knows everything, I know that my own heart understands better than anyone else, knows better than anyone else, and knows how to comfort myself better than anyone else. She knows what I want and what I don’t want, she understands me, what I should do and what I shouldn’t do.

I think for so many years, perhaps it is this belief that has supported me through countless years.

If every life must have a supporting role to appear perfect, then I would rather have so many shortcomings in life; if every fireworks must have a dark night as a background, it will be perfect. It looks particularly dazzling, so I would rather shine in the dark night. Even if it is a lonely star, even if it is insignificant.

Sometimes, blindly retreating and making concessions is not a good thing, it will slowly wear away our aggressiveness. I am also a human being. If I could choose, I would like to be the protagonist next time. If's life insights 9

If you grew up in an ordinary family;

If your parents are still alive; whether you live with them or not;

< p> If one day, you find that your mother’s kitchen is no longer as clean as before;

If one day, you find that the dishes and chopsticks at home are not clean;

If One day, you find that your mother's pots are no longer shiny;

If one day, you find that your father's flowers, plants and trees have gradually become deserted;

If one day, you find that the floor cabinets at home are Often covered with dust;

If one day, you find that the food cooked by your mother is too salty and unpalatable;

If one day, you find that your parents often forget to turn off the gas;

If one day, you find that some of the habits of your parents are no longer habits..., just like when they no longer want to take a shower every day...

If one day, you find that your parents No longer like eating crisp fruits and vegetables;

If one day, you find that your parents like to eat overcooked vegetables;

If one day, you find that your parents like to eat porridge;

If one day, you find that they are slow to react when crossing the road;

If one day, you find that they keep coughing during meal time, don’t miss it Think they have a cold or a cold (that is a phenomenon of aging swallowing nerves);

If one day, you find that they no longer like to go out...

I want to tell you, you have to Be aware that your parents are really old and their organs have deteriorated to the point where they need to be taken care of by others. If you are unable to take care of them, please find someone to take care of them, and please visit them frequently to avoid making them feel abandoned.

Everyone will grow old, and our parents will grow old before us. We need to take care of them with a role-reversal attitude, so that we can be patient and not complain. When parents cannot take care of themselves, children should be alert. They may become incontinent and may not be able to do many things well. If there is a smell in the room, they may not be able to smell it themselves. Please do not think that he is dirty or disgusted with him. , children can only help him clean up, and please maintain their self-esteem.

When they no longer like bathing, please take the time to wash their bodies regularly, because even if they wash themselves, they may not be able to wash them cleanly. When we are enjoying food, please prepare a small bowl for them that is appropriately sized and easy to chew, because if they don’t like to eat, their teeth may not be able to bite.

From the time we were born, we have been fed and changed diapers, taken care of around the clock when we are sick, taught us basic life skills, provided with reading, food, drink, entertainment and tutoring. Their care and action never stop.

If one day, they really can’t move, shouldn’t the roles be reversed? As children, you must remember that looking at your parents means looking at your own future, and filial piety must be timely.

If one day you are as old as them, how would you like to live?

Now, are you a single parasite, a married couple or a polysexual parasite? Have you ever paid attention to your parents? Please care and pay attention to their aging process, and don’t forget to spend more time with your parents...take care of them. If's life insights 10

An old lady has two daughters and one son. Her husband passed away a few years ago, and she bought a building for her son with her life savings. A few years later, she finally lost the years of struggle with her daughter-in-law and was forced to move into her younger daughter's home. The youngest daughter's family was in dire straits, so the family of three rented a room (a room in a house). The room was small and messy. The son and eldest daughter were given 300 yuan a month, and the younger daughter was responsible for taking care of them. The old lady rented another room next to the younger daughter, and finally rented a simple two-bedroom apartment. The old lady and her 14-year-old grandson share a room, and the younger daughter and her son-in-law share a room.

The old lady always talks about the bitterness of the past sixty years, complaining that her wife spent all the money to buy a house for her son, but the son did not support her. The old lady always sheds tears and said that if she didn't have this disease, she would find an old man from the countryside who could give her a bite of food. The old lady was aggrieved, saying that she had been the master of the family all her life, but now she had to live her life depending on her little daughter's face. The old lady always hopes that one day she will have her own house, which will provide shelter from the wind and rain.

This old lady is 68 years old, born in the year of the Rooster, and is the daughter-in-law of my mother’s adoptive father’s younger brother. I grew up in her house when I was a child and called her grandma. When I was five and a half months old, because my mother played mahjong too seriously, I fell off the kang several times and fell to the ground. My family decided to find someone to take care of me. By chance, the old lady was promoted to grandma when she was forty-two or thirteen years old, and she began to take care of me. In the early days, my mother spent a lot of money, and her living expenses of fifty yuan a month could support a large family. Then, the nature of my parents as businessmen came out. They didn’t provide me with living expenses on time, and they wouldn’t even buy milk. My grandparents couldn’t afford expensive milk powder. I started eating porridge and noodles when I was less than one year old. Enjoyable life.

I remember when I was in elementary school, I spent every holiday at my grandma’s house. I couldn’t even get home when school started. Sometimes it was a week after school started, and I was still lying on the kang at my grandma’s house. Refuse to leave. I wrote a letter of guarantee every holiday, went home early, and was beaten several times at the beginning of each school year before I could be dragged home. I refused to sleep at that time for fear of being thrown into the car and taken home in my sleep. Such tragedies did happen. When I woke up, I found that I was no longer on the fire bed, but at home. It was common to cry for a week.

For me, my grandma’s home is heaven and my own home is hell, even though I didn’t know what heaven and hell were at that time. But now, my grandma told me that she has no one to rely on. Every time I go back, I pack big bags to buy things and give her some money. She is reluctant to spend it, so I give it to my aunt to buy things for my grandma. But none of these solved the fundamental problem. I told her, why not come to Beijing and live with me, and I will support you. The old lady cried and said, I don't want you to support me, you are not one of me, my own son doesn't support me, so I don't want you to support me. I see so many children, but you are the only one who has a conscience. My own son has no conscience...

Crying.

If one day, I will be homeless.