The most miserable person in the world, the walking dead

As far as appearance is concerned, some people around me are also ugly. My female classmate in junior high school, her father is the principal, and she is nicknamed: X Daya. I heard that her mother is very beautiful, but she looks like her father, with an ugly long face, small eyes and big teeth. However, she didn't care about this. When she was mingling with boys, she could always hear her happy laughter. I heard that she got married soon after graduating from college, and her husband was very handsome.

There was a male classmate in high school who had encephalitis as a child. His front teeth were missing and his eyes were bulging and crooked. He didn't like taking pictures at first, but later he became the organizing committee member of the class and organized everyone's activities. We all respected him. He also travels and takes photos with us. After graduating from college and working, he quit his job and opened a restaurant. His classmates always went to his place for gatherings. I saw him smiling brightly while drinking.

There is a female classmate in college who is not ugly. But the teeth are tetracycline teeth, which are black and yellow. She always smiled with her mouth wide open, showing her black and yellow teeth, and never covered her mouth with her hands. He also said: "Knowing that I have big black teeth still makes me laugh, haha." After graduation, she worked in a bank and became a shareholder of a company. She has a happy marriage and family, and her husband has a successful career. When I met her, she still had black and yellow teeth, and she had not replaced them with porcelain ones. It didn't affect everyone calling her beautiful.

My sister has a male classmate who was born with a harelip. After the stitching, there were obvious scars and the mouth was pulled crookedly. Coupled with a big face and swollen eyelids, it is a typical ugly and weird look. This person of honor actually dared to chase the school beauties, and finally married a female doctor who was both talented and beautiful. After he resigned from the research institute, he applied for a sales job at a foreign company. He was just an undergraduate from a key university. Most of his competitors were graduate students from prestigious universities. The last step was the interview with the boss in person. His ugliness and confidence formed a sharp contrast, which left an impression on people. It was so profound that it made him stand out from 186 competitors!

A female colleague of mine has a square face, swollen eyebrows, and a big mouth. But she wrote in her QQ signature: "Others say I'm ugly, but in fact I'm just not that obviously beautiful."

Tell me more about me!

I have some similar experiences as you. I have been neglected since I was a child. My mother doesn’t know how to dress up, so she dresses me in ugly ways: she wears her long clothes without changing them. I am tall and have long legs, so I wear her pants with hanging legs. I bought them to save money. My classmates all gathered around me and laughed because of my large shoes. I have low self-esteem. After work, some male colleagues also said that the more I dressed up, the uglier I became. At that time, beauty had nothing to do with me. I didn’t expect that when I reached middle age, I would turn old and yellow, and I would receive many compliments on my clothes. Some people actually say that I am a beauty, especially my former classmates who say that I have changed when we meet. Although it is an award, it is inseparable from my confidence in temperament and my study and study of dressing. In addition, my voice condition is very poor. I can’t sing in high or low notes and it doesn’t sound good. I dare not sing if others laugh at me. Until I was almost 40 years old, I didn't give up. I found my characteristics and practiced singing songs that were not difficult but beautiful that suited me. As a result, I won another round of applause during karaoke. ...

I have mentioned so many examples, just to make you realize: no one is perfect, everyone has flaws, which constitute their own characteristics. If you can't be a pine on the top of the mountain, then be an unknown grass, which can still bring the beauty of spring. We can't change many things, but we can change ourselves. Accept what we can't change and change what we can.

Let me tell you another story:

Little Girl’s Bow

In a small town there was a very poor girl who lost her father. He and his mother depended on each other and made a living by doing handicrafts. She has very low self-esteem because she has never worn beautiful clothes or jewelry. In such an extremely poor life, she grew up to the age of eighteen.

At Christmas when she was eighteen years old, her mother gave her an unprecedented twenty dollars and asked her to use the money to buy herself a Christmas gift.

She was overjoyed, but she didn't have the courage to walk openly on the road. Holding the money in hand, she avoided the crowd and walked toward the store close to the corner.

Along the way, she saw that everyone's life was better than hers, and she thought with regret that I was the most humble and humble girl in this town.

When she saw the young man she particularly liked, she thought sourly, who would be his partner at the grand dance tonight?

She muttered all the way to the store while avoiding the crowd.

As soon as she entered the door, she felt her eyes sting. She saw a batch of particularly beautiful satin headbands and hair accessories on the counter.

While she was standing there in a daze, the salesperson said to her, little girl, your flaxen hair is so beautiful! If paired with a light green head flower, it will definitely be beautiful.

When she saw the price tag saying sixteen dollars, she said I couldn’t afford it and decided not to try it. But by this time the salesperson had already put the flower on her head.

The salesperson picked up the mirror and asked her to look at herself. When the girl saw herself in the mirror, she was suddenly shocked. She had never seen herself like this before. She felt that this flower on her head made her look as radiant as an angel!

She no longer hesitated and took out the money to buy the flower. She was extremely intoxicated and excited. After taking the four dollars given by the salesperson, she turned around and ran out. As a result, she bumped into an old gentleman who had just entered the door.

She seemed to hear the old man calling her, but she no longer cared about it and just ran forward in a wandering way.

She ran to the main road in the middle of the town without knowing it. She saw everyone looking at her in surprise. She heard people talking about it, she didn’t expect that in this town. There is such a beautiful girl, whose child is she?

She once again met the boy she secretly liked, and the boy actually stopped her and said: I wonder if I would be honored to ask you to be my partner at the Christmas ball tonight?

This girl is absolutely delighted! She thought I should just be extravagant and use the remaining four dollars to go back and buy something for myself. So she walked all the way back to the shop in a daze.

As soon as she entered the door, the old gentleman smiled and said to her, child, I knew you would come back. When you bumped into me just now, the flower on your head also fell off. Waiting for you to pick it up.

This story is over. Is it really the flower on the head that makes up for the shortcomings in this girl's life? In fact, what made up for the shortcomings was the return of her self-confidence.

Where does a person’s self-confidence come from? It comes from inner calmness and calmness.

It is inevitable for everyone to have shortcomings in life, so the mentality to deal with such shortcomings is very important. A different mentality may bring about a completely different living and learning state. ...

I understand that self-confidence is a kind of beauty. Your beauty does not lie in whether you wear a bow on your head, but in whether you have a "bow" in your heart.