Small games on how to communicate effectively with children

1. Children's song: "Open the Door"

"If you open the first door, you can't get in; if you open the second door, you can't get in; if you open the third door, you can't get in; if you open the fourth door, you can't get in." If you can't come in, please open the five doors and come in!"

Preparatory action: open the ten fingers and make the two fingertips correspond to each other in the shape of a mountain. Actions for the first four sentences: separate the thumb, index finger, middle finger, and four fingers in sequence. Action in sentence 5: First spread your hands and then clap three times to express welcome.

2. Children's song: "All are asleep"

"The eldest brother is asleep, the second brother is asleep, the third brother is asleep, the fourth brother is asleep, the little brother is asleep, we They all fell asleep."

Action: Open the five fingers and bend them in sequence for the first five sentences. In the last sentence, put your hands together and put them next to your face as if sleeping.

Tip: There are many changes to this game. Young children can be helped by their parents to break their fingers or they can use one hand to do it with the other hand. Older children can do it with both hands, and they can also play the game in reverse: "Big brother is awake..." Girls can also change it to "Big sister is asleep." Smart parents can use their ingenuity. .

3. Children's Rhyme: "Golden Pot Lid"

"Golden Pot Lid, Silver Pot Lid, don't blame whichever one you catch."

Tip: Adults stretch their hands Hold out one hand, palm downward, forming an umbrella shape, and the baby stretches out his index finger to hold the umbrella. When the children's song is finished, the adults should quickly clench their fists, while the baby should quickly remove their fingers. The characters can be exchanged to play, and the children's song can also be changed into the song "London Bridge is Falling Down", and the gameplay is the same.

4. Children's Song: "Finger Song"

"Thumb Song, Second Finger Brother, Middle Sanniang, Fourth Brother, Little Niuniu, come to watch the show. The back of the palm is the pearl in the palm. ”

Tip: In the first five sentences, tap the five fingers in sequence, in the sixth sentence make a looking gesture, in the seventh sentence spread your hands with the palms pointing up first and then down, and in the last sentence you can hug the baby to show closeness. .

After completing these few games, how do you parents feel? Just imagine if you talk and play with your children, will you get closer to each other? Moreover, this kind of finger games do not require complicated props and can be played anytime and anywhere, which means that you and your children can enjoy happy parent-child time anytime and anywhere. I think it doesn’t take more than twice a week, and your child will have endless topics to talk to you about.