Long-distance love for 6 years, it took two years to know that we broke up. I love you, but I can live without you.

I have been with my boyfriend for six years, including four years in college, but I have never thought of giving up. At that time, we were not in the same city, and sometimes we didn't meet once every six months. The sisters in the same dormitory are busy dating except studying every day, so I have to carry my schoolbag to the library and pretend to study by myself.

Even so, I have never complained. I think as long as it is true love, I can be as happy even if I chat on WeChat every day.

I graduated in a blink of an eye, and I thought I could finally share joys and sorrows. Who knows, nature makes people, we are north and south, and the distance of torture continues.

Although love produces beauty in different places, sometimes it is not necessarily so.

In order to stick to the love in my heart, I have refused the pursuit of one boy after another since I went to work, but I am more and more uneasy about him who is getting colder and colder.

Every time I chat with him to say goodbye, I worry that I will never see him again one day.

02

Worry comes to worry, and what should come is still coming.

Two years after graduation, I received his break-up message. The content is as warm as ever: long-distance love is too bitter, and I can't bear for you to suffer so much for me.

The moment I received the message, I understood. I didn't try to keep it, because I wanted to leave my last face to myself and this love that lasted for 6 years.

The day we just broke up was the saddest day in my life. I dare not be alone, because bits and pieces of the past always jump into my mind inadvertently. Recalling the past has become my sweetest moment, but after each memory, it is also my most heartbreaking time.

I still can't believe the fact of breaking up, but the fact is that I did break up. Besides, I don't even know the real reason for breaking up. If you have to say yes, it's because the place is different.

It took me a whole year to get out of the pain and begin to accept it.

03

This year's suffering made me understand a truth: the pain of lovelorn love is not necessarily because of losing each other, but because I feel that once I lose each other, all my painstaking efforts will be in vain.

Therefore, in the face of breaking up, more pain comes not from the other side, but from yourself.

In fact, no one can live without anyone.

Now I'm relieved. The longer two people spend together, the more I feel indebted to myself and the more painful I feel after breaking up. Because you don't give up on each other, but you give up on yourself and the years and true feelings you have invested.

Life is like this. If someone comes, someone will leave. Some people meet and fall in love inadvertently, and some people just walk away. Everyone is nourishing our lives, including him, but not the only one.

So, if you love, please love deeply; If you break up, tell him generously: I love you, but I can live without you!