Let me tell you about the pits I stepped on when I was growing up.

On the road of growing up these years, I have encountered too many pits, some of which are pedaling after this month and next month, some of which are pedaling instead of sports. In short, all kinds of traps have changed their tricks to abuse me.

traps have abused me thousands of times, and I treat them like first love.

Let's talk about the experience of "love" in these years.

1 The more I want to get it, the slower I get.

As I get older, I see that people around me are getting better and better, and I keep exaggerating the monthly income of 1, on the Internet.

I'm in such a hurry. Even young people earn 1, yuan a month. What can I do?

So I signed up for many classes and bought many books, but the more I studied, the more anxious I became, and the more I learned, the greater the gap.

why did I study hard, but I still got nothing?

Fast is because there is accumulation and a deep foundation, but all these accumulations take time. Just thinking fast is like building a castle in the air, which may collapse when the wind blows a little.

2 I always want to find my dream and try again

Ma Yun said: There must always be a dream. What if it comes true?

It is written in many books that people should find their own dreams, which will bring goals and motivation for continuous growth.

what if I don't have a dream as an ordinary person?

then find it. how can I succeed if I don't find my dream?

So every day, I am confused, idle, and drifting with the tide, which is euphemistically called because I have no dreams.

I still don't have a dream, but I know that reading, exercising and doing what I should do every day may lead to no dream for the rest of my life. So what?

3 If you have a group of people, you can go far.

If you grow up too hard and tired, it will be better to join a group with others.

People around you will really set an example for themselves by working hard and struggling.

but there is a saying: you can't wake a person who is pretending to sleep.

others are working hard and desperately. If you haven't changed, it has nothing to do with you.

if you want to grow and make progress, you must make up your mind and keep on acting.

4 After watching this video, I will try to

There are too many temptations outside, especially the various apps are trying to attract your attention and occupy your time.

So we can't stop brushing Tik Tok and watching videos.

it's really hard to fight against human nature.

I was going to exercise, but I thought I would come back after watching three vibrato videos. I didn't expect two hours to pass after a brush.

I was going to study, thinking of reading after watching an episode of video, but I didn't expect it to be 12 o'clock in the middle of the night.

We always want to relax ourselves, have a rest and get ready to do something important.

We always overestimate our willpower and self-control, and underestimate the temptation of the outside world.

5 staring at the target is full of fear

I want to become a six-pack abdominal muscle, which is my goal.

But it requires continuous heavy exercise training and a lot of anaerobic and aerobic exercise.

When preparing for exercise, I think that I will do 2 sets of belly rolls today, and my heart is empty. This is too tired. I think reading is more important, so I'd better not go.

When I do belly roll, I think there are 18 groups left, so I'm sure I can't stick to it, and it may not be effective after I finish it. Just stop practicing, and it's almost enough.

To achieve the goal, we need small accumulation day by day, and the mountain is also stepped up step by step.

if we stare at that mountain every day, we really feel desperate.

when we set goals, we should turn ourselves into dreamers, and when we act, we should turn ourselves into realists.

6 I feel very fulfilled when I learn a lot

It's really a great sense of accomplishment to see others read 1 books every year and send them to friends.

it's really amazing to see others taking many classes.

I think I should read 1 books and take 1 courses every year, so that I can live up to my life.

So I study hard every day and study hard every day. I really feel very fulfilled.

But when someone asked me one day what the book you read was about and what problems it solved, I was stupid.

I seem to have read that book, and I have forgotten everything about it. I don't know what problems I can solve.

I usually live a full life, but it's useless.

I haven't changed myself or solved the problem. My life hasn't changed at all.

as I grow, I step on the pit and fill it.

Fortunately, some pits are not filled so deep that they can get up immediately after falling, and the frequency of falling into pits is also reduced.

I think only such a bumpy road, full of traps, is the real road to growth.

I hope these pits I stepped on are helpful to you. I hope we can step on the pits together and make progress together.