Would it be better for a 56-year-old divorced woman to find a wife or live alone?

Isn’t this the wish of every middle-aged and elderly friend to have a companion by his side when he is old? With the progress of the times, people's ideas have gradually opened up, and marriage and divorce have become very common, especially for the elderly. After raising their children all their lives, they are still alone. After divorce, the elderly There was not even a single person around to ask for help. There was not even a person to bring tea or water when there was an illness or itch in my body. As a junior, I think it is better to find a wife. Maybe many people will disagree, so let’s talk about this topic! 1. A 56-year-old divorced woman really needs someone to take care of her.

1. Physical need: Regardless of whether we are a man or a woman, if you are divorced in your fifties, you will inevitably feel lonely when you live alone. , lonely and helpless, as the saying goes, in old age, a wife will be by your side, you will have support in life, and you will have psychological sustenance. And if your body becomes abnormal, at least there will be someone around to bring you tea and water. A person who cares about one's well-being.

2. Many children cannot take care of themselves and do not know how to take care of the elderly: Today’s society is a fast-paced society. Many children are busy making money to support the family and educating their children, and have no time to take care of the elderly. Some even threw the elderly people directly into nursing homes without caring. What do the elderly need? After going through all kinds of hardships to bring up the children, they are still alone. If her children are not around yet, she is divorced and she has no wife, how miserable will a divorced woman be in the next few decades? She will be lonely and have no one around her to talk to!

3. As times progress, people’s ideas are also changing, and it is normal for the elderly to remarry: In the past, the remarriage of the elderly might have been scolded by the people around them, but as the times progress, the remarriage of the elderly, Falling in love at sunset has become extremely normal, and children will not blindly oppose the old man's remarriage. Some children will even actively encourage the old man to go out, and bring the old man to talk with them to enhance friendship.

Second, after talking about the advantages of divorced elderly people remarrying, let’s talk about the disadvantages of living alone

A 56-year-old man may be in good health for his age and can still go up and down alone. It is not difficult to live alone by buying groceries and cooking, but as time goes by, I get older and my body aches and pains begin to increase. I wonder if I can still live alone? Maybe it’s better to live with your children, but what if you live alone? As you get older, buying groceries, cooking, washing, and dispensing medicines becomes a problem. Is it really possible to hire a nanny or send her to a nursing home?

Friendly reminder: It is good to find your other half, but you still have to keep your eyes open, find the right one, and truly be with you forever. You must know that there are still many scammers, and you must be cautious when choosing a spouse. You must also divide your property in advance to avoid entanglements over property after marriage. In short, it is also a trend of social progress for the elderly to remarry and find a wife. Finding a good wife, growing old together and becoming mutual support is the most important thing!

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