Friends say you are too naive and have low emotional intelligence. What should you do?

Friends say you are too naive and have low emotional intelligence. What should you do?

First of all, I think if you think what your friend said is unreasonable, then you should stick to yourself. Because 100 people have 100 people in their eyes, some people may think that you are naive, and some people think that your emotional intelligence is low. Are you responsible for what others think of you? You should remember that you have lived for you all your life, and you don't need to be wronged for others. If this is your character, then you should publicize your character. Because this is the real you, you may not be such a character, then you may become ignorant of yourself, you are like an imitation, and even lose your original appearance. You should also have confidence in yourself, because you are the closest person to yourself and the most trustworthy person. Besides, I think if you think what your friend said is reasonable, you don't have to pay too much attention. You must adjust your mentality. Many times, friends point out our own shortcomings for our own good. If you also think that what he said is your shortcomings and you need to correct them, you should pay attention to it in your later life, let him urge you, and the two of you will help you slowly change these shortcomings. You don't need to care that your friends will leave you because of your shortcomings, because people who leave you will never be true friends. Only true friends will point out your own shortcomings, and strangers will not tell you because of who you are. Finally, I think maybe naivety and low emotional intelligence are shortcomings in the eyes of some people, but they may be advantages in the eyes of people who like you. Because people who like you want to protect your innocence, don't want you to be infected by some darkness of this society, and don't want you to grow up, because they think you don't need to grow up with them. If your emotional intelligence is low, then your other half will not have to worry about being taken away by others in the future, because you can't get what others want to express to you with low emotional intelligence. Moreover, I think low EQ can be cultivated slowly in the later stage. A person has experienced many things, and his EQ will gradually get higher, but there is really no way to lower his IQ.