When did you start dating, and you stopped chatting on WeChat?

My colleague recently fell in love with a Sagittarius boy.

Boys are tall and have big eyes. A good job and a good family background. We all think that our colleagues have found the treasure this time.

But who knows, we broke up after talking for less than three months.

We had dinner together at noon that day, during which we talked about this topic. I asked her why she broke up with him, and she only said five words: we can't talk anymore.

Colleagues say that shooter man is good at everything except his bad personality, and he always likes to refute her point of view.

For example, the night before yesterday, she said she wanted to go to Disneyland. I heard that the tickets have been reduced. He said, Oh, Disneyland, what's so funny? It's so childish.

For example, she heard good music and shared it with him on WeChat. Finally, he said, how can you share this song with me? I've been listening for a long time.

For another example, she talked to him about things that bothered her at work. Instead of comforting him, he seriously criticized and educated her, making her sad and wronged.

I said, this shooter man's speech is so disappointing, how can he answer the words like this?

Yes, talking to him is really minutes. I really can't talk to him. Colleagues said.

Sometimes, I just want to create some * * * topics to close the distance between us, but he doesn't understand at all and always douses my enthusiasm. I feel there is no tacit understanding between us.

I nodded and ate a mouthful of rice silently, thinking: Well, that's good. Such people are lonely.

Tell me about my little cousin.

My little cousin is now a junior in a university of political science and law. Because she is smart and lovely, there are many people chasing her.

We haven't been in touch for a long time. One night, she suddenly sent me two photos on WeChat and asked me which of the people in the photos was better. I looked at it carefully. Oh, it's all small fresh meat. After a fierce ideological struggle, I told her that I thought the person in the second photo might look better.

She greeted me.

I said, huh? What's the reaction?

She said, cousin, you don't know, these two people are chasing me, and I do have feelings for the person in the second photo, but ... but I don't seem to get along with him ...

Not getting along well? What happened?

He has no idea what I'm talking about.

Cousin said that her biggest hobby at ordinary times is visiting bookstores and buying books. He likes playing. What a nice picnic, camping, rock climbing and bungee jumping. Every time I talk to him about famous books, literature, legal system and historical facts, he looks puzzled. He also likes to skip classes and behave badly in class. I failed in three courses last semester and failed in the make-up exam …

What about the other one? I said, what about the person in the first photo?

He-he just talked to me. For example, I told him that ostrovsky would never be confused with Tchaikovsky. I said that I like reading sad novels, so he secretly bought me the complete works of Zhang Ailing's novels. I always feel that we have endless topics. From current politics to history, from history to military affairs, it will not be boring at all.

After a pause, my cousin said, unfortunately … not as handsome as him. It would be perfect if he were more handsome.

Silly girl, there are no perfect people in the world. Usually this way, not that way. I said, have you heard Huang Xiaohu's songs?

Which song?

"It's not that simple, you can find someone to chat with ..."

I just sing it. Oh, it's this song. I've heard of it. Do you understand what I mean?

After a long time, she sent me this passage: Cousin, I see. Nothing can be flashy, and feelings are the same. I think I still want to fall in love with someone I can talk to. In that case, every minute together will be interesting and unforgettable.

The fate between people is mostly based on conversation.

Some people, you talk to him for more than half a sentence, and after several exchanges, you don't want to talk to him anymore.

Some people, just a few words can cause a curse, so you can't help but want to get close.

I still remember going to eat Huang Huangji with Mr. Z at the beginning of my love. I was on a whim, too. I asked casually, I said, why are you with me?

He looked up at me and said with a smile, because I can talk to you. You see, we even have amazing similar tastes.

I have a look of "You are right, but I am speechless". Then I thought, yeah, chatting is really important.

You will feel comfortable getting along with someone you can talk to; When you fall in love with someone to talk to, you will feel very happy.

You don't have to go to great lengths to please him, and you don't have to go to great lengths to explain, just to continue chatting with each other.

People who can talk to you can naturally have a tacit understanding with you. He can understand what you are saying, and he can also understand your small thoughts. It's no trouble to be with such a person.

When you are in love, you should find someone you like, and among those you like, you should find someone to talk to.

Life is so long, we still have a lot to say. Right?