Mother-in-law took the initiative to let her son wash underwear for her daughter-in-law: a good mother-in-law is at someone else's house.

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I saw a joke on the Internet:

Daughter-in-law said, honey, shall we buy a mini washing machine to wash my underwear?

The son replied: Yes, yes!

Mother-in-law interjected: Why spend that money? My son is your exclusive washing machine.

Is this style of painting particularly harmonious and happy? The daughter-in-law is clever, the son loves his wife, and the mother-in-law is exquisite.

It is estimated that this daughter-in-law wants to be lazy, and her husband usually washes underwear, so I heard that men are more willing to buy washing machines than anyone else.

Although the mother-in-law loves her son dearly, she is especially diligent and thrifty. She wastes money on the washing machine and a lot of water and electricity every day.

In order to save money, the mother-in-law took the initiative to push her son out and continue to be a wife slave. Who told him to listen to his wife? It's worth the effort.

This mother-in-law is not only sophisticated, but also knows many boundaries and appropriate limits.

If she loves her son dearly and insists on washing her daughter-in-law's underwear, all three of them will be embarrassed and prone to conflicts.

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This joke reminds me of reader Xiao Wang's experience in dealing with her mother-in-law. Xiao Wang and her husband are both at work, and her mother-in-law helps to look after the children. As long as the husband and wife are at home, they take their children to do housework and let their mother-in-law have a good rest.

In housework, Xiao Wang and her husband have a general division of labor. Her husband is in charge of cooking and she is in charge of washing dishes.

The most angry thing is that sometimes she doesn't eat at home because of something in the evening, but she still has to wash the dishes when she gets home. She knows that this is a moth deliberately made by her mother-in-law, but it is also caused by her husband's unclear position.

To this end, the husband and wife quarreled several times, and the family atmosphere was not as good as before.

Xiao Wang's mother-in-law is very thrifty. In order to save 50 cents, she walked for half an hour regardless of the wind and the sun, and shuttled to several supermarkets every day just to snap up discounted vegetables.

Caught the weakness of her mother-in-law. When eating, Xiao Wang put his mobile phone in front of her husband.

Honey, look at this discounted dishwasher. The original price is more than ten thousand. You can buy it for 5 thousand now Let's buy one, so that mom won't have to work so hard.

Honey, although the dishwasher is a bit expensive, with it, I can save 200 yuan of hand cream every month, which is quite cost-effective.

"It's good for you to be your own master, and you can buy it if you like." The greatest advantage of this man is that he never cares about his wife's failure.

"Then I'll place an order later." Xiao Wang deliberately raised his voice for fear that his mother-in-law could not hear him.

"You go and play games with your children. Let my son wash these bowls. It is right for a big man to do more housework. " For the first time, my mother-in-law took the initiative not to let Xiao Wang wash the dishes.

When Xiao Wang was sitting on the sofa with her son, her mother-in-law sat next to her and began to discuss buying a dishwasher.

"The money in my bank card is not enough. I will buy it when I get paid in two days. "

In fact, as far as their kitchen is concerned, it is usually difficult to move their buttocks, and there is no room for a dishwasher!

"How to clean the dishwasher? I think your husband is very fat in middle age. You should let him do more work, which can protect his wife's hands and exercise. "

Mother-in-law has a good grasp of the "appropriate limits" and will not directly contradict things that are highly consistent with the young couple.

It's done.

Since then, the mother-in-law has taken the initiative to let her son take on more housework. Xiao Wang is still very distressed by her husband and will take the initiative to help. The most important thing is that she will be late for something, and there will be no more bowls waiting for her to brush in the sink, so she will be happy.

If you are in a good mood, you can better understand and tolerate others. Only by relying on each other and working hard in one place can a harmonious circle be formed.

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As we all know, a good mother-in-law is really hard to find, and her husband is the one who lives alone for life. As long as the relationship between husband and wife is good, everything else can be ignored.

But there is a saying that is easier said than done! I know everything, but I still can't get along with my mother-in-law

Take buying a washing machine for example. The painting style of many families is like this:

Daughter-in-law: Honey, shall we buy a mini washing machine to wash my underwear?

The mother-in-law grabbed her son in front of her and replied, why don't you go to heaven? Being lazy all day, my son can't afford to raise a living Buddha.

There is a mother-in-law who is so outspoken. It must be her son's usual acquiescence. Even if she is not Ma Bao, she is a muddling family. It seems that neither side is offended, but in fact she is incapable of handling it.

The quarrel between the couple was inevitable, but fortunately it didn't end in divorce.

In fact, this is a very small thing in itself. If the economy is fine and the balcony is big enough to satisfy the daughter-in-law, the husband can brush his mobile phone with peace of mind and everyone is happy.

If the balcony itself has no place to move her ass, the mother-in-law can let her son talk to her daughter-in-law and let her know the reality clearly, so that she won't be sad and wronged.

In short, a clever mother-in-law will pretend to be deaf and dumb, and a son can accommodate his wife. It's no big deal to be a wife and a slave. It's hard to buy him a thousand dollars.

The biggest problem is that some couples have a good relationship, and the husband can't blame the mother-in-law, otherwise the mother-in-law will think that his daughter-in-law has forgotten her mother, which will increase contradictions.

What should we do?

Finding a mother-in-law's weakness is like pinching a poisonous snake's seven inches. No matter how poisonous things are, they can only be easily overcome.

Last year, a male reader told me that because of the discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, chickens fly and dogs jump at home all the year round, which made him particularly headache.

A man can tell who is right or wrong between his mother and his wife. When his wife was wrong, he said at least he wouldn't refute it, but his mother wouldn't tolerate any criticism from him, which would only be counterproductive.

My advice to him is to find out my mother's weakness and then find someone my mother trusts most as a mediator. This person can be menstruating or my mother's niece. The key is to have a correct world outlook.

He found his uncle's daughter, his eldest cousin is about the same age as his mother, and his aunt and nephew have a good relationship and often contact each other.

The first cousin listened to her aunt, and then asked several questions:

Do you want your cousin to divorce him?

If he wants a divorce, I won't stop him.

Do you want to lose your grandchildren? If they divorce, the children are more likely to follow their mother.

They are all my treasures, and no one can take them away.

At that time, the court has the final say, and the chances of such a small child being awarded to the mother will be much greater, and whoever the child follows may get the house.

I never wanted them to get divorced.

Mother-in-law is a little panicked. If you give your divorced grandson's family to your daughter-in-law, it's not a loss of wife and soldiers.

Since you don't want them to divorce, you always speak ill of his wife in front of your cousin. What do you want him to do?

Cousin deserves great wisdom. She found her mother-in-law's weakness at once, and then helped her analyze it with emotion and reason.

The old lady is very picky about her daughter-in-law, and always feels that it is not difficult to find another one even if she is divorced with her son's conditions.

But she never thought about losing her grandchildren, nor could she let her son hand over the house he had worked so hard to buy.

Although the mother-in-law has no education, she is not confused. After weighing the pros and cons, she seldom sow discord in front of her son.

As soon as the son relaxes, he will coax his wife to please his mother-in-law. When the mother-in-law is in a good mood, she will see her daughter-in-law much more pleasing to the eye, and the family will get together more and more harmoniously.

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According to the latest divorce data of Taiwan Province Province, divorce caused by the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law ranks first among divorce cases in Taiwan Province Province.

I have a deep understanding that although mother-in-law is not the most important person in marriage, it is definitely the most important factor affecting the quality of marriage.

People live to solve problems one by one, retreat when they encounter problems, and have a bad life.

I can't swim myself. Can I change to a swimming pool?

Yes, drown and die!

Marriage is a big swimming pool. Only by learning to swim can we solve the problem fundamentally, so we can swim in shallow water and deep water.

When you are at home, you will find a good mother-in-law around you.