I was so angry when I was told it tasted bad when I was sweating.

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On a hot day, I’m so hot that I’m sweating after finishing a meal. Even if I’m not grateful, I’m still being criticized for not being delicious. I’m so angry!

Three days later, Sister Hui was still indignant when she mentioned the trivial family matters of the day before yesterday.

That day she went out to buy vegetables early in the morning and came back to wash the clothes for the first day. After drying, she started to choose and wash vegetables to prepare the ingredients for lunch.

After working hard for a long time, at 12 noon, she brought the food to the table with great expectations. She thought she would be praised by her family. Who knows, the daughter poked her chopsticks and muttered in a low voice: It’s really difficult. eat!

My husband quickly took a bite, and then said with a queasy look on his face, it was indeed not delicious.

Sister Hui suddenly exploded. She has been busy for more than two hours. There is no credit but hard work. Not a single good word is left, and she is disliked by you two. It tastes bad, I’ll do it myself later!

Sister Hui was tired and aggrieved. She dropped her apron and went into the bedroom to sulk.

The family broke up unhappy.

Sister Hui said that it often happens that people who cook are disliked and taste bad, and they are always disliked by the people closest to them, so who can be in a good mood?

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Everyone has their own preferences for radish and cabbage, and it is common sense that everyone can disagree.

This kind of fireworks is a common thing in every house. Maybe a dish cooked on a certain day does not taste right. For example, there is too much salt, too little sugar, too greasy, or the color Ugly, etc., to name a few.

However, some family members do not say it, or they do not mind if they say it. Living at home, we are all ordinary housewives without professional training or guidance from chefs. We only eat simple meals with meat and vegetables, and only oil and salt are enough. Who can guarantee that we will have delicious food every day and eat delicious food every time.

However, Sister Hui’s husband and daughter are so straightforward. They think that there is no need for a family to hide things. If you have something to say, you have to say it in person. And Sister Hui particularly cares about her family’s feedback on her cooking skills, so the three of them I was unhappy every day because of such trivial matters as eating.

Sometimes I laugh at her, why are you being so serious? We are all a family, just say what you say, it’s not delicious, and he and his wife didn’t miss a meal, and they were fed by you. Are you fat and healthy?

Sister Hui retorted, why can't they be like other people, who keep saying: "It's delicious, it's really delicious" while the food is dripping with oil. Although it may not necessarily be from the bottom of my heart, hearing such praise is at least an encouragement to me. I am tired and energetic.

Sister Hui is very stubborn and insists on her stubbornness.

In fact, her requirements are not too high, and her hard work should be rewarded.

3.

Three women and one drama. After work, my colleagues and I often talk about family and food. There are complaints about eating, drinking, and diarrhea almost every day. They talk about it endlessly, and I am very familiar with it.

To be honest, I am not a very competent housewife. I don’t know how to cook some well-known dishes. All I can cook is home-cooked meals, such as hot and sour potato shreds and cabbage stewed vermicelli. But in our family Displeasure caused by eating is rare.

Voltaire said that it is not the mountains in the distance that make people tired, but the grain of sand in their shoes.

Life is hard enough. If we still dwell on trivial matters, wouldn’t we be asking for trouble?

Whenever Sister Hui complains about her cooking skills, five words come to my mind: That’s nothing.

First, adjust your mentality.

There is a saying that what really hurts you is never the ability of things, but your view of things.

I told Sister Hui, think about it, your husband and daughter are not outsiders, and there is absolutely no malicious intention to make things difficult or deliberate accusations. They just told the truth, and your expectations are too high and you cannot accept the truth. The first thing you have to do is to change your mentality. With a change of mind, the world becomes wider.

Secondly, it doesn’t matter if you are not good at cooking, just study hard.

Nowadays, the Internet is so developed that if you want to learn any skill, you only need a mobile phone and can learn it in minutes by turning on the Internet. Theory and practice, once you learn it, you will learn it twice. If you do it three times, don’t ask the master. I don’t believe you can’t learn it.

I am an example. If you want to eat something, open the food tutorial and prepare the ingredients according to its requirements, from the dishes, quantity, knife skills, to accessories, and finally put it on the plate. Learn and cook as you go, usually three or five times. That's pretty much it.

Finally, ask your family members to comment and provide valuable opinions. Don't be afraid of listening to the truth, be afraid of being ignorant and face it bravely. In the worst case, if you fail and start over, you will always succeed.

My approach is to put the food on the table, let them take a few bites, then comment, and finally rate it from three aspects: color, aroma, and taste.

Under normal circumstances, there is not much difference in the scores given by the two men.

Sometimes, my son will say seriously that the taste of today's dish is a bit poor. I'm sorry, I can only give 60 points. You have to work hard.

Sometimes, my son's eyes will light up and he will say jokingly, "Well, this dish is not bad. It is both beautiful and delicious. I give you 80 points, but don't be proud and complacent. There is still a lot of room for improvement."

Sometimes, the two of us would argue fiercely with half-truths and half-falsehoods because of disagreements...

Whether it is harsh advice or useful flattery, I will give both good and bad reviews. Accept it cheerfully: Okay, okay, I will definitely continue to work hard.

Just talking, laughing, eating and having fun, eating three meals a day, the four seasons reincarnate, time goes by, and before you know it, you are middle-aged.

To this day, my cooking skills have not improved much. Sometimes I am excellent, but often I fail. Once I actually made a whole fish into fish residue, and my son actually praised it and said it was delicious.

However, whether it tastes good or not is not the most important thing.

The most important thing is that a family that is usually busy with work and study can eat and chat at the dinner table, relaxed and happy, which not only activates the atmosphere, keeps the body healthy, but also harmonizes the intimate relationship. , achieve multiple things with one stone, why not?

Making a fuss out of a molehill and tit-for-tat will only make family relationships worse and worse and more tense, which is not conducive to family harmony and harmful to physical and mental health.

Although Sister Hui’s anger is related to the way her family communicates, things have never changed. Sometimes when you look at the problem from another angle, you will find that there are so many things that are not just troubles. ?

We are busy shopping for groceries and cooking every day, not to get angry with our family, to argue about winning or losing, and to argue about right and wrong. Eating well, drinking well, and being in a good mood is the original intention of making soup, right?

Have a good attitude, study hard, and don’t take things too seriously. These are my three-character kitchen tips. Maybe they can be a little inspiration to Sister Hui.

A small kitchen is a big stage, and cooking at home is also exciting. May we all be able to work in the hall and kitchen, do a good job in the rear of the family, and live happily and prosperously!