It's natural for a boyfriend to spend money on his girlfriend?

Since ancient times, beauty has smelled incense, and the poor have half a month's food.

The poor have no money, and the wife is around the stove.

Girls who love beauty always like to buy from buy buy, including an Armani red tube 300 soft sister paper, a cpb isolation 500 soft sister paper, a bottle of Jinshui 300+ soft sister paper, and a Chanel bag of tens of thousands of soft sister paper. What if ........................................................................................................... is not enough? Boyfriend to gather together?

What would you think if your boyfriend didn't give you money to spend or buy things? Do you think this man does not love you? Do you think this man is not worthy of your love? Do you think: you like my beauty, but you don't like my spending money, so go to the "aunt" next door.

A few days ago, I had dinner with Laojin, and several buddies at the dinner table could not help making irresponsible remarks. A buddy said, "My girlfriend is very virtuous. I don't have to worry about anything I can make my own money and spend my own money. " Laojin sighed deeply and said, "My girlfriend wants me to pay for everything she buys, even if she buys clothes and cosmetics herself. But I have to pay for every light bulb and plug-in in the company, so I don't understand. Her friend borrowed money from her, and she in turn wanted to borrow money from me to lend it to her friend ... "Laojin poured a lot of bitterness. Xiao Min comforted: "Give your girlfriend money, as long as it is not much, just accept it honestly, and communicate if it is more." Yes, girls always think it is natural for their boyfriends to spend money on themselves. But boys don't think so. Just like Xiao Min said: As long as it is not excessive, accept her spending your money, so what is not excessive? There is no clear boundary. A thousand dollars? Ten thousand dollars? A hundred thousand dollars?

I still remember a message in the circle of friends on the "Girls' Day" a few days ago: My girlfriend asked her boyfriend for 300 yuan to buy an Armani clarinet lip glaze as a gift, and as a result, her boyfriend swept over her face and scolded her: "Are you sick?" "Of course, it is conceivable that two people are unhappy because of this. In fact, as a boyfriend with a slightly higher emotional intelligence, she should be reimbursed generously at this time, or negotiate to reimburse her half. After all, you let her choose her own gift. You should swallow the blood lying in your heart. It's a pity that this man's emotional intelligence is not high and he doesn't understand gender communication. It takes not only time, emotion and energy, but also money. Public opinion is naturally one-sided, and everyone is drooling over the boy and sympathizing with the girl. Among them, including many people who don't understand it, all think it's worth spending 300 yuan to "change" a boyfriend (don't worry, people may have a good relationship). 300 yuan may not be money at all for people with high salaries, but it may be a week or two for people with low salaries.

In the past two days, I read an article "We judge people by their appearance, but not cruel" shared by Mr. Xiong on the app, and expounded the benefits of high face value relative to low face value. Among them, someone commented in the comment area: What would you think if your wife went for plastic surgery? Teacher Xiong replied humorously: it doesn't cost me money. Whether this sentence is true or joking. Obviously, basically every man doesn't like his girlfriend or wife to spend their hard-earned money. However, the reality is cruel. Girls always think: If his money is not for me, is it for other women? In fact, we have no right to ask our boyfriend's money to be spent on us, and there is no such provision in law (except that husband and wife have property). Therefore, girls should stop doing nothing and improve their economic level. Spend more if you have money, spend less if you have no money, and then try to make money.

Let's look at it from another angle. What would you think if your boyfriend asked you for money? This man is brazen? Or is this person eating soft rice? Or why should I give him money to spend? Congratulations, if that's what you think, that's right. You don't want to give money to the other party, so why should the other party give it to you? Feelings are what you want, but whether I should always give you money is another matter.

Many girls always flaunt themselves as "vulnerable groups" in their feelings. I am a girl, he is a boy, and besides, he is my boyfriend. Isn't it natural for him to give me money? Girl, are you sure you are looking for a boyfriend instead of a "dad"? You are too shy to ask for money in front of your father. How can you be righteous in front of your boyfriend?

Do you really think it's natural for a boyfriend to spend money on his girlfriend?

Don't be silly, I'm just your boyfriend, friend, friend now. He is not your father, mother, nor your husband. People have no obligation to give you money when they make it. Girl, the economic level is for yourself, not for others. As the saying goes, if you lean against a tree, it will fall; Depending on the mountain, the mountain will collapse. Of course, this is what he said. A man who doesn't want to spend a dime for you should also consider whether it is necessary to go on, but you shouldn't ask your boyfriend's money to be your money. It doesn't matter if you spend it casually. Wake up, this is delusion.

Although I am not an expert in gender communication, I know that gender communication needs mutual respect, mutual understanding, mutual tolerance and mutual contribution. Don't ask the other party to give and the other party to enjoy.

Many people think that I have a big heart, so it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter if your boyfriend doesn't give you money to spend? Sorry, my heart is neither wide nor big, only the size of a fist. I only know how to be myself. As the sage said, don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you. I don't force others to do things I don't like. I am a woman with strong self-esteem. I have money to spend but no money to make money. I can feed my desires and my soul.

There is a goddess in the circle. We all call her the Statue of Liberty, which is an old friend. Work for yourself, economic freedom, personal freedom. All year round, in addition to work, I fly all over the world and play everywhere, which is envied by friends in the circle. She also has a boyfriend, a job and various expenses. But she said that she never asked her boyfriend for a penny. In her own words: I have a job, I will make money, and I can be financially independent. Why should I spend other people's money? I can afford Armani, Chanel and Taobao. I have money to spend but no money to make money. Why should I rely on others to spend money?

Look, girl, this is the gap between you and others. Your own financial strength determines your own living standard, so why ask your boyfriend for money in a painful or aggressive way? Does he owe you or does he owe you? The level of a love is linked to your self-esteem and economic strength, so why don't you try to be independent?

So, girls, wake up. Your boyfriend is not your father, your mother or your husband. Just your boyfriend, friend, friend. It can be said that you are the most familiar strangers and don't know where each other will be next. Instead of thinking too much, it is better to improve your economic ability, make yourself more mature and excellent, spend your own money, live your own beautiful life and make yourself more beautiful and moving. Is this not good?