My wife hates my mother's laziness and inability to clean. Now she looks like an enemy! What should I do?

This is the pain of being a man, suffering at both ends.

1: live separately, out of sight, out of mind, and go their separate ways. After all, old people and young people have different mentalities.

2. Divorce, in my eyes, no matter whose parents, women who don't respect their parents can't have it.

3: Both sides please, both ends are fair. Talk more about your mother's goodness in front of your wife, and talk more about your wife's goodness in front of you. Everything has advantages and disadvantages: it is quiet to live separately, but parents can't help take care of their children. Remind your mother to clean up. After all, the rural elderly should not be so lazy in my eyes. After a hard day's work, it is normal for my wife to go home and clean. After work, my wife will share some housework for her, pinch her shoulder and hit her back. Do more when you have time. Who made you so incompetent?

Tell your mother about taking care of the children. No woman will be happy whether her grandson is in charge of her grandson or not. Contradictions need to be eased by both sides. If you refuse to give in, there will only be an increasingly fierce ending. As a man in the family, you must tune both sides! Don't worry, she's over there. Tell your mother. Pension depends on you, and your brother-in-law won't care about her.