The truth of a 35-year-old divorced woman: did you marry the right person, and you will know when you return to your mother's house in the New Year?

"Marry the right person, and you will know when you return to your mother's house in the New Year." It is really a very reasonable sentence. I can't help but say that the voice of this 35-year-old divorced woman tells the truth about marriage under certain circumstances.

A man who really loves you will treat your family as his own and treat them sincerely. Giving you enough face in front of the person you love is careful and caring.

And some men with low quality, even if they accompany their wives back to their parents' homes, still yell at their wives and drink four cups, lacking respect and patience for their wives and family. The bride's family shook their heads silently, and the wife was even more sad. After a hearty meal, I was in a hurry to go home, but I couldn't understand my wife's feeling of going back to her relatives' house and wanting to talk and stay for a while.

There are quite a few such men.

I have two cousins who went back to their parents' home with their husbands and children during the Chinese New Year.

My sister's husband in the lobby has a good job and belongs to the rich. Cousin takes care of children at home and belongs to the proletariat. So their relationship is somewhat similar to that of superiors and subordinates.

When I went back to my parents' house, my cousin was caring and attentive to my parents. My husband just smiled and sat and chatted for a while, but when he talked too much, he was absent-minded. Later, when waiting for dinner, my brother-in-law simply hid in his room to play mobile phones and watch movies, regardless of Pepsi.

At the dinner table, a group of relatives pushed cups for a change, and the atmosphere was also harmonious. After drinking too much wine, my brother-in-law began to talk nonsense, bragging about how capable he was, and my cousin supported herself. Being rich and arrogant is really annoying.

Afterwards, I heard that on my way home, my brother-in-law couldn't drive because he had drunk, so he asked my cousin to drive. As a result, in the process of driving, because my cousin was unfamiliar with the route, she took the wrong road and was wasted by her brother-in-law. Cousin cried at that time.

My little cousin and her husband are colleagues in the same unit and both belong to the working class. They are not particularly rich, but their lives are also very moist.

As soon as they got home, the young lady cooked and helped her mother-in-law. My little cousin just helps chat.

At the dinner table, we are polite and considerate to the elderly, our wives and relatives. My parents-in-law look beaming. The family spent the Spring Festival happily.

My brother-in-law and his wife stayed at her parents' house for one night and left the next day. Many days after leaving, the old man at home talked about this son-in-law and immediately smiled.

Two husbands, two people, gave their wives two different lives.

The couple can really see a lot when they return to their parents' home in the New Year. The so-called, details see character.

The truth of a 35-year-old divorced woman: whether she married the right person or not will be known when she returns to her mother's house in the New Year. For this proposition, many people may not understand why. Spring Festival reunion is a tradition of the Chinese nation. Going home during the Spring Festival, every child's wish is not only a son, but also a "woman".

I have been working for a year and have been working hard outside. No matter I succeeded, I cried and laughed, I was tired and wanted to give up, but I finally persisted. Beneath the glamorous appearance, there is a fragile heart. The Spring Festival is coming, and I want to go home and relax. What I want most is to go back to my parents, see the familiar smiling faces of my loved ones and take a few breaths freely. The most relaxed place, the most tired place, is nothing more than the eyes of relatives.

In fact, in traditional families, it doesn't matter how to go back to your parents' house after marriage, but you must stay at your husband's house for the New Year and eat the New Year's Eve at the man's house. The old people said that on the evening of the 30th, the ancestors should count. The man is a family heirloom, and it seems understandable to go back to his home for the New Year. However, for a daughter-in-law, no matter how good her mother-in-law is to herself, she is not as good as her mother; No matter how loving a husband and wife are, they can't replace the love of their biological parents. It has nothing to do with love, morality and customs. Parents are irreplaceable for everyone, especially for women, a perceptual animal.

During the Chinese New Year, it is rare for her husband to accompany her back to her family, which is worth cherishing. This is not a post-1989 problem at all, especially the only child in first-and second-tier cities. I have also read reports that a man was cheated to his wife's house for the New Year for various reasons after being married for more than ten years. However, in rural areas and traditional families, such opportunities are rare.

In another case, I accompanied my wife back to her family about the year before last. A man who can handle new year's goods for his father-in-law is also worth cherishing. On the second day of the first month of the New Year in China, it is a traditional day to visit my parents-in-law. Daughter-in-law accompany her, buy a few bottles of wine or tea for her father-in-law, buy some nutrition for her mother-in-law, and send lucky money to the children of relatives, all of which are the warmest moves. Accept her and love everything she loves, whether poor or happy.

In the matter of going back to your parents' home after marriage, a man who doesn't love you will never see your grievances and pains, as long as the immediate interests and calculations are perfunctory with excuses. If you meet such a person, you are marrying the wrong person. A man who does not honor your parents, but in turn asks you to obey his parents, is not worth marrying.

The man who really loves you will definitely consider the problem from your perspective and won't let you be swayed by considerations of gain and loss. He will also accompany you back to your mother's house, respecting and filial to your parents as much as you do to your own. As long as you marry such a man, you really marry the right person. So, marry the right person and go back to your mother's house.

I don't quite understand what this topic means. Now that I'm divorced, I must not have married the right person. Why didn't I know until I went back to my parents' home for the New Year?

Besides, I don't think there is any dispute about who to go back to during the Spring Festival. My understanding is so traditional and a bit obscene: I think if the man's family gives the bride price money at the market price when getting married, and the woman's family accepts it, it means that she is married to each other. As the bride price is passed in the same way as the market and tradition, China New Year is no exception. If your mother-in-law asks you to go home for the New Year, you can go home and take time to go back to your mother's house after the New Year.

However, if it is a naked marriage or the bride's family doesn't take the money from the man's family, and everyone just marries on an equal footing, it is another matter, at least one family takes turns every year. At this time, if the mother-in-law dares to come out and let you go back to her home for the New Year every year, she will decisively let her know the reality; If a man still asks you to go back to his home for the New Year at this time of year, I just want to say that this man is shameless.

The above only represents personal views, please make a detour if you don't like it!

Don't worry about every Chinese New Year holiday. My husband buys everything, food and clothing, and they are unwilling to give them money, so the more things you buy, the better. Thank you husband! From the way you treat my family, you can also see my position in your heart.

Yes, the person who loves you hurts you, and your face is his face. My ex-husband used to go back to my mother's house with me, just as he had a grudge against my mother's house. He ignored me. Now my husband and my grandson and family have dinner together. Although I also earned a few words, I understand that this will be long live.

If you marry the wrong person, happiness and unhappiness on your face will be written on your face. Have you ever seen a woman surrounded by love? I haven't seen it, but I can imagine it. It's really beautiful.

Couples or lovers can exercise G- tightness, and men's healthy exercise will improve after a week, and women can also exercise to improve tightness. Prevent postpartum relaxation from causing disharmony in husband and wife's sexual life.

This topic is actually beyond D's power, but the tradition is reversed. Nowadays, young talents in China are in a dilemma.

Very meaningful, unless experienced, otherwise can't understand! It's really a trip back to my parents' house! ! ! Love me, love my dog!

Chinese New Year has nothing to do with divorce. If you are divorced, you must not have married the right person. Otherwise, how could you get divorced? In fact, if the marriage is well managed, there is no need to celebrate the New Year. As long as you get married for a month or two, you will know that men will respect you, and many things will ask your advice, discuss things and communicate with you when you have some questions. Similarly, your position in your husband's family determines her husband's attitude towards your parents, and she loves her parents. Therefore, the husband of a smart woman will definitely respect her parents-in-law. Whose family will celebrate the New Year?