We have a successful career, but my husband eloped with mistress behind my back. Should I divorce or choose to stay?

"My husband and I have known each other for 8 years, been in love for 5 years and got married for a year and a half. From the beginning, I was poor and white, and now I have achieved little in my career, and I have a lovely baby. This ending should be satisfactory, but as far as I am concerned, it is really painful. Last year, we got married, and then we had children. We live somewhere else. At that time, his parents, including him, wanted to go back to their hometown to have children, so I went back to my hometown to have children when I was seven months pregnant. At first, we contacted each other every day to talk about the baby and career, but slowly we found that he seemed to be busy every day and didn't have time to talk to me. The baby was born a month premature and returned to Shenzhen after giving birth. The nightmare finally began. Every episode comes home late, always saying that he is busy, and it slowly develops into cold violence. Finally, one day I broke out, and my sixth sense told me that he was cheating. Now I think of a scene where a person is taking care of the children at home. In the dark, I was awakened by freezing, and the baby next to me was cold all over, so cold in my heart. At first, I went home in the middle of the night, and gradually it became an all-night stay. What is exasperating is that his parents know what he has done, and they are even more stupid. They don't mean to blame me. On the contrary, they always say that I am unreasonable.

Finally, one day, he eloped with Xiao San and disappeared. On the third day, he came home and told me that he was sorry that he couldn't give me what I wanted and wanted a divorce. Where are the children? Have you thought about it? He is only three months old and doesn't want to have children yet. How cruel it is. We have been together for six years, and I choose divorce and fulfillment. The next day, he said he didn't want a divorce, and he couldn't live without me and my children. I relented and accepted.

The reality is, repeatedly cheating, secretly contacting, opening a house, helping three girls open a studio, giving money, saying that they can't be heartless people. I want to laugh. I sent my children back to my hometown and started working to earn money myself. He always says I don't trust him, but every time I choose to believe, I get cheated. A week ago, I checked in again. It turns out that San Xiao has openly moved to the opposite side of my community, hehe. It's been a week since I eloped. I don't want a career, children or family. He said he loved her, and she was a virgin, so I just wanted to laugh. That girl is a salesman in our company, and she is very coquettish with customers at ordinary times. She has been out of society for so many years and actually said that she is a virgin and that she only loves him, not because of money. However, when we were not married, why didn't we pursue him? Why did you just say you love him when you first went to work in our company? It's not money, but why does my brother need my husband's financial support to buy a car? My husband has been away from home for a week, but my husband's family can contact him. I really don't want to contact him. I chose to divorce and take my 1 1 month-old child with me, and now my husband-in-law has come to cheat me to rob the child. Choose the best time to be with him, in exchange for pregnancy derailment, betrayal, how not to hate! Being a man is a bit of a responsibility, but being a woman should love yourself! What do you suggest I do? "

My advice: Your husband is too involved. He can let San Xiao openly move across from your community and help him open a studio, which shows that he is ready for a divorce. I suggest you do a good job in economic rights and interests and strive for the maximization of material interests after divorce.