Live your life the way you like.

There is a popular saying recently: There is only one success in this world, and that is to live your life in the way you like. I believe this is also the common wish of many people.

However, the reality is this.

If the way you like and pursue success is just recognized and encouraged by the mainstream society, congratulations, you are one of the lucky people, your life will have more sense of value and happiness, and you can easily live in the way you like.

But if what you pursue and insist on is contrary to the mainstream of society, then you have to figure out what you are about to face.

First of all: you have to figure out what kind of life you really want.

Everyone comes to this world to experience life, but in the end some people live colorful and prosperous lives, while others are too low to bloom in the dust.

The reality is that more people don't know what they want all their lives, so when we know what we want, we must grasp this persistence and act quickly to enhance our sense of value and happiness in life.

No matter what era we are in, we have the ability to choose to change our current lifestyle and get close to the life we expect, that is, work hard every day, buy a house and a car, and win self-esteem satisfaction; Or as long as you have enough to eat and drink, live a happy life, and go sightseeing as long as you have time; Or just save a lot of savings to find inner security.

Secondly: What kind of problems are you going to face and how do you deal with them?

0 1. Does the family support it?

We may be different, we may become very lonely and difficult to be understood by others. At this time, we can't do without the company and support of our families. When we encounter setbacks, or when we gain something, the most important thing is to share it with our families. So your attitude and ideas about life are closely related to your family. If you don't have the recognition and support of your family, just insist on doing one thing, you can imagine what this road will be like.

02. Is it recognized by the mainstream society?

In today's society, we must constantly challenge the complexity of this world. You can't do anything without people's participation. If colleagues and friends around you treat your attitude towards life with a negative and hesitant attitude, are you different in the eyes of others? If others don't agree with what you do, will you feel lonely?

03. Imagine if you really do it in your own way, whether it really makes you happy.

I am lucky to have my own lifestyle. I can love my family and live in harmony. There are few quarrels and differences in our lives. I think life is full of fun. This is my favorite way of life.

There are many existing postures in life, and it is difficult for you to judge which posture is the most perfect. If you want to live a colorful life, you must stick to it. Maybe you stick to the problem that others despise, so we can't always live in other people's judgment standards. When others are skeptical or negative about your persistence, don't care, because you are not the same person, you can't always live in the framework given to you by others.