Understanding how to advance and retreat

The waves hit the rocks, and the boats traveled all over the river. When it was flat, it advanced, and when it was rough, it retreated. People, why aren't they like this? When facing life, you must have your own unique insights in all aspects in order to make the right decision when encountering problems. For example: The opening of a flower does not mean that it is moving forward. It can also be said that it is retreating. It mainly depends on which aspect you understand. If you think about its life course, then it is advancing towards aging; if you think about its open energy, then it is constantly retreating, and finally withers. Besides, in life, when it encounters difficulties, whether you retreat or advance depends entirely on the difference in your thoughts. If you have the courage to challenge, then you are moving forward; if you are frustrated and helpless, then you are retreating. How to choose depends on what you value and what you are willing to pay. When a person encounters something, his first reaction is to retreat, because this is a natural reaction. However, when you get out of this difficulty, you will find that the more you avoid and retreat from some things, the deeper you will sink and the more painful your life will be. Life does not require regression, life requires progress. Only by constantly seeking reasons in failure can we finally move to the edge of success. Maybe you don't understand why you have to move forward and then retreat. Many times, we don’t understand why a good person has to choose between moving forward and retreating. For example, if you meet your enemy, you know that he is equally matched with you, but he is a person who refuses to admit defeat and cannot afford to lose, so you can only learn to give in, whether you lose on purpose or really lose. It doesn't matter, don't care too much about the result, because the other party has already understood what you meant. Even if he doesn't understand, no one will respect him anymore, even if he wins the final victory. Sometimes, winning or losing is not important. What is important is that you are active, happy and have the feeling of your own home in this game of chess. Then everything else is irrelevant. Life is not about deliberateness, but Let nature take its course, winning or losing is just a formality, and unity is the common future for us Chinese sons and daughters. To know how to advance and retreat, start with me! Author: Artist-Chen Xiong