Put aside your troubles and be a strong man in life.

1, look at people, don't look with your eyes, it's easy to divert your attention, let alone listen with your ears, because it's all a lie. As long as you take the time and feel it with your heart, you really can't pretend it, and you can't pretend it.

2. People suffer because they pursue the wrong things. If you don't give yourself trouble, others will never give you trouble. Because of my heart, I can't let go. Discipline yourself and leave others alone. -Lu Yao's Ordinary World

If a person can't control his emotions, even if he gives you the whole world, you will destroy everything sooner or later. If you can't be the master of your thoughts, you will be the slave of your emotions. Please remember: temper should never be greater than skill.

4. What protects you and what is restricted can give you shelter from the wind and rain and also let you see the sunshine.

When you are constantly worried, it means that you need to go out and see the world. See different scenery, meet different people and things, and you will know that your fault is to think too much.

6. Keep yourself busy, so busy that you have no time to think about unimportant things, so many things are quietly forgotten. Time may not prove many things, but it can certainly see through many things. Believe in your choice, be firm, run hard, and tomorrow will be better.

7, don't be so sensitive, don't be so soft-hearted, too sensitive and too soft-hearted, certainly unhappy, others casually say, you have to think all day. Maybe people who are too emotional will not have a good life after all, and you will be abused every minute.

8, the road of life, stop and go is a kind of leisure, walking and watching is an elegance, walking and forgetting is an open-mindedness.

9. The most beautiful thing is not to keep time, but to keep memories. True strength is not to forgive others, but to let go of yourself.

10, life is only a few decades, and popularity lies not in how many people know you, but in how many people are willing to help you; Networking is not how many people you use, but how many people you help; Popularity is not how many people flatter you in front of you, but how many people praise you behind your back.

Good morning, with pictures: the real power is not to forgive others, but to let go of yourself.

1, if you are bullied when you are young, you will always hate to think that you must get ahead in the future, so that people will sit up and take notice. But when there is such a day, I don't remember to hate. It turns out that the real strength is tolerance, not forgiving others, but letting yourself go. Good morning ~

In the wilderness of time, among thousands of people, it is a rare fate to meet a person's lover. More often, we just miss each other all the time. It is unpredictable that the world has such restrictions and hidden taboos. We can't help looking back, maybe we will miss our whole life. Many years later, I will understand all the struggles and efforts, and I can't resist a joke played by fate. Good morning ~

When you are young, don't think about nothing and don't think too much. Thinking too much will ruin you. I believe that on the road to success, the saddest thing is to be able to stand loneliness and endure loneliness. There is always a way for you to go alone. You are strong and brave. Maybe this process will last for a long time, but if you survive, the final success belongs to you.

4, the same is busy, some people are busy; A wise man is busy step by step, that is, he is busy but not busy. People who know how to take time out of their busy lives have leisure moments even when they are busy. They are not so busy that they hate life and busyness, but they love busyness. They just feel the fullness of life from busyness. You are so busy that life will be meaningful. Good morning ~

5, love, like a child who doesn't grow up, once a love was called maturity. In fact, it was not love, but a habit determined by time. After love, there is no initial touch, no initial obscurity, no initial inseparable, and it pushes away that preciousness in a form called possession. Good morning ~

6. If you want it, you must strive for it. If you can't get it, you must be willing to accept your fate. Everything in the world is enjoyed by the world. If you want to enjoy this beauty, you must be willing to try it first. There are dreams and pursuits, and life is always full of hope. No one can cover the sky with one hand and belong to oneself. Don't let go easily. Put down what shouldn't belong to you. It is a kind of sorrow to drag others to death and not pursue themselves. Pursuit is a belief, and letting go is a realm.

7. Women can be single-minded, affectionate and persistent, but cherish your efforts, not the more you pay, the better, and have your own principle bottom line. You have to live a wonderful life. Don't treat men as your days. Paying too much and losing yourself will make men look down on you. Self-respect and self-love, self-reliance, and relaxation can keep your sky from raining. Even if it rains, you have a small umbrella in your hand.

8. Some things, once lost, can never come back. However, when calculating the gains and losses, have we ever thought that you may never know what you have lost? If you don't leave who you used to be, you will never know that you can find a better love.

9. Time can't reduce our injuries, but it can make us less afraid of them. Time will not help us solve problems, but will only make problems that we can't figure out at all unimportant.

10, some people say that they are unlucky and can't find a good job; Some people say that if love is not smooth, there will always be scum; Some people say that parents can't afford to buy a house; I have seen too many people who have changed their lives by their own efforts, and too many people who have squandered their original superior conditions and eventually become waste in life. You can't choose your birth, but you can choose your future destiny. What kind of person you want to be depends on yourself.

What is really terrible is not the strength of others, but your own weakness.

What is really terrible is not the strength of others, but your own weakness/self-righteousness, not necessarily; You don't have to think you're right. The way to progress is to deny yourself, not others.

It is better to forgive yourself than to blame yourself.

Parents are too self-centered and live very carefully all day. Children are too self-centered. They worry a lot all day and live very tired. In fact, people can't just live for others, lose themselves and gain social significance; You can't just live for yourself, regardless of others, and get self-satisfaction. Who can exist in isolation from others and society? The essence of life is to deal with the relationship between oneself and others, internal and external.

Treat people and things with righteousness as the top, reason as the center and benefit as the bottom. The so-called righteousness refers to morality, truth and social outlook, the so-called reason refers to jurisprudence, responsibility and outlook on life, and the so-called benefit refers to fame and fortune, status and outlook on honor and disgrace. In today's society, there is no need to separate righteousness, reason and benefit. It is wise to take justice, reason and profit, and it is understandable. If you give up righteousness and forget reason, your purpose is too strong and direct, and you can only keep people away.

Make friends, treat each other with sincerity, have the same or similar ideas and values, and can achieve something. You can make friends if you are reasonable, like-minded, and have similar thoughts and likes and dislikes. Give profit to profit, there is mutual demand, the price and profit are economical, and business can be concluded. It is best to have a career, friends and business at the same time.

It doesn't matter whether people can speak, what matters is that they have talents in their hearts; It doesn't matter whether you are a friend or not, what matters is being kind to others; It doesn't matter whether the skill is big or not, what matters is that it is useful to others; It doesn't matter whether your position is high or not, what matters is that you are important to others. The poorest situation in life is not nothing, but nothing; The richest wealth in life is not a rich family property, but a beautiful mind!

Ability is important, character is important. It is not difficult to know people, but it is difficult to know people's faces. Listen to his words and deeds, see his spirit for details. You can know human nature from the attitude towards subordinates. You can know servility from your attitude towards your superiors. You can know your conscience from your attitude towards the poor. From the attitude towards the weak, we can know kindness. From the attitude towards interests, we know that they are greedy. From the attitude towards honor, we can know its ambition. Peeking at a leopard in a tube, Ye Zhiqiu.

Duplicity, duplicity, people are not traitors.

Pay special attention to the weak psychology in interpersonal communication. In front of the strong, there is no need to feel ashamed, dwarfed, humble and inferior. You know, different positions, the same personality, loss of psychology, no respect. In the face of the weak, there is no need for condescension, disdain, arrogance and oppression. You know, if you don't respect others, you don't deserve their respect. Fear is not respect. Don't let cowardice become a villain's mentality.

Weak psychology: 1. Inferiority. 2. vanity, 3. No criticism. 4. Reject dissidents. 5. Overjoyed, bluffing. 6. Be shorter than others. 7. Conservative and afraid of change. I like to flatter and show off my ancestors. 9. Low personality, willing to be a slave. 10. Hope people are poor, fear people are rich, laugh at the poor and bully the weak, and gloat.

Some people are kind people, comfortable for themselves and comfortable for others. Some people, when dealing with others, only make others comfortable, but they are uncomfortable. This is a noble man. Some people are selfish people who only care about their own comfort, regardless of whether others are comfortable or not. Some people feel inferior because they are uncomfortable when dealing with others.

If you feel inferior too much, you will feel inferior. If you feel inferior too much, you will feel inferior. If you feel inferior too much, you will abuse yourself. If you abuse yourself too much, you will commit suicide. If you are overconfident, you will be conceited; If you are overconfident, you will be arrogant; If you are overconfident, you will destroy yourself. Therefore, people can't blindly feel inferior, nor can they blindly be confident. Know small and modest, know strong and forge ahead.

If you need to tell others that you are, then you are not! If you need to say hello to others, you are not good.

1. What is really terrible is not the strength of others, but your own weakness. 2. The strong are only role models to learn, and failure is the real teacher. 3. Friends make people warm, and only enemies can make people really awake. 4. When possession may become loss, loss is the real possession. Any special relationship will be short-lived, and only a normal relationship can be truly long-lasting. 6. Making yourself strong is not strong, but making people around you strong is really strong.

Learn from others and be insatiable; Do your own thing and make continuous progress. Understand the difficulties of others and put yourself in their shoes; Solve obstacles by yourself and use your head. Be tolerant of others' shortcomings; Reduce your own shortcomings and introspect. Happy to see the success of others, and celebrate with your forehead; Face your own failure and be reborn. Be calm when attacked by others; Take responsibility for yourself and do the right thing.

Who is a fan of # 1? Be an expert fan and find a life coach. 2. Be a fan of successful people and learn from experience. 3. Be a fan of philosophers and be clear-headed. 4. Be a fan of life experts and live a good life. 5. Be a fan of literati and be cheerful. 6. Be a fan of a religious person and have a peaceful mind. 7. Be a fan of young people and be energetic. 8. Be a fan of experts and scholars and learn knowledge at any time.

Confucius said: In a threesome, there must be a teacher. In real life, everyone can be a teacher. Beggars in Lu Yu You Yue know that people who don't work can't eat, and when they visit the sick, they know that health is the foundation of life. Only by helping the weak and helping the poor can we know kindness and compassion; People who think hard often know how to be grateful and respectful; Compassion for losers can teach you lessons and tolerance; People who learn wisdom can learn philosophy and mind; Admire successful people, and you will know perseverance and forge ahead. Everyone can be a teacher and everyone can be a mirror.

There are many kinds of friends, including soul friends, liver and gall friends, career friends, knowledge friends, moral friends, emotional friends, interested friends, fair-weather friends and evil friends. As the saying goes, birds of a feather flock together. Fish looks for fish, shrimp looks for shrimp, and tortoise loves tortoise. Making friends must be better than yourself, as if it were better than nothing.

Man, you must walk with the help of others, walk by yourself, and walk with the help of others. Only in this way can we walk calmly.

1. What life needs most is an understanding heart and hands. Everyone has a heart that longs to be appreciated and loved in a hard shell. The best medicine for treating trauma is love. The easiest way to make people beautiful is to smile. Suffering is the best teacher to teach people to be strong. 6. The shortcut to growth is to have high people around you. 7. The accumulation of trivial things is a wonderful life. 8. The scenery is on the way, but you can see it more clearly from a height.

⊙ Accidental feeling: 1. There is no way out in life, so we will die and live later. When everything goes wrong, there must be something wrong with yourself. You are well, and everything will be fine. 3. A conceited person, like a container without space, is hard to be approached and even harder to be accepted. Conceit without strength is even sadder. If you give the hope of happiness to others, there is no hope of happiness. Everyone wants to mix like a person, and when they mix, they find that they are not human.

Tolerance is a quality, a character, a mind, a virtue, a wisdom and a strategy. Treat people who are embarrassed politely, forgive those who know their mistakes, sympathize with the weak, care for those who are in trouble, encourage those who feel inferior, pay attention to the humble, respect those who work hard, integrate those who are wronged, be kind to the upright and enlighten those who are narrow-minded. Learn to be tolerant, tolerance is great.

What is a person's greatest weakness? Not selfish, everyone is selfish. It's not ignorance. No one is born. Not a lack of education. Education can be acquired through practice. The biggest and most difficult defect of people is narrowness. Narrow-minded, no room for people, losing talent is the greatest wealth, and having talent is the inevitable result of success. Narrow-minded, short-sighted, no vision, no vision, no realm.

⊙ 1. Think of others more, and you will be broad-minded. 2. Think more about the beauty of others, and your heart will light up. 3. Think more about the good of others, and your personality will be noble. 4. Think more about others' efforts, and your mind will be smooth. Think more about other people's strengths, and wisdom will grow. 6. Think more about other people's misfortunes, and you will be kind.

The greatest desire in people's hearts is to be affirmed, the greatest pain is to be misunderstood, and the greatest loss is to lose trust.

Is it human nature to seek common ground while reserving differences? If others agree, you should agree with yourself; If you object yourself, others will object; What others like should be liked; What you hate, others will hate. If you agree with yourself, you are a friend; If you don't obey yourself, you are the enemy; Those who obey themselves prosper, but those who disobey them perish. Why not be different? Cats, dogs, chickens and ducks live in peace, why can't people be compatible? A gentleman is harmonious but different. How many people are gentlemen?

A gentleman is harmonious but different, and a villain is not harmonious. Harmony without dispute, although calm, is a stagnant pool. There is no harmonious struggle, although the smoke is filled, it is full of vitality. Modern society strives for harmony, neutrality, handling affairs according to law, honesty, interdependence and grandeur.

Everyone likes to listen to the same or similar views as himself, and some people prefer to listen to echo, flatter and praise. This is the basic expression of human vanity and convergence. Smart people know how to seek common ground while reserving differences, and smart people are good at seeking differences and innovating. Differences include subjective differences such as interest and purpose, and objective differences such as levels and perspectives. We can see what we can't see in our differences and know what we don't know. The same person can be a current, and different people can be teachers.

⊙ Flowers bloom in various ways, and spring is gorgeous. Everyone is different from me, and life is colorful. People who are higher than me give me ability, and those who are stronger than me strengthen my will. Smarter than me and increase my intelligence. People who are deeper than me enlighten my understanding. People smarter than me are thicker than me. Weaker than me, rich in my kindness. Teach me to be smarter than my traitor. Those who are worse than me have strengthened my body. Without losing soil, the mountain can become bigger. God is intentional, high and low, and strong and weak can be teachers.

Where is the root of being a man? Believe in it. Where is the root of being a man? The virtue of integrity and kindness. Where is the root of being a man? With an indifferent and peaceful mind. Where is the root of being a man? With an aboveboard personality. Where is the root of being a man? In rich and profound knowledge. Where is the root of being a man? In hard work and dedication. Fame and fortune, morality, intelligence and diligence are fundamental. Do things for people, don't forget the basics.

Conscience is a mirror. It can not only see its own heart, but also see the mutual projection between others and the outside world and its own heart. With this mirror, my heart will light up. Unfortunately, some people's mirrors are full of dust, and everything they see is vague and even dirty; Someone's mirror is broken, and the image he sees is only an incomplete fragment; Someone completely abandoned the mirror, except fame and fortune, there is no boundary between right and wrong.

What is the biggest difficulty in life? Not that you are hungry, cold, naked and hungry. It doesn't mean that in adversity, it shouldn't be called bad weather. It's not that you are used to it, but that you are not smart and insensitive to it. It's not that you have no money, no power, no name and no power. It's that you can resist temptation and overcome desire. Desire can be divided into legal and illegal. The just one is himself, an angel, and the unjust one is the enemy and the devil. Once controlled by improper desires, people will go to destruction.

The world never lacks beauty, what it lacks is the eyes that find beauty. Where do the eyes that discover beauty come from? From a beautiful heart. It is better to wipe away the dust in your heart than to protect your eyes. With people who understand and love beauty, a beautiful mind will illuminate and nourish more hearts.

The kindest beauty is a smile, the most reliable beauty is the soul, the most precious beauty is morality, the most dazzling beauty is wisdom, the greatest beauty is maternal love, the most lasting beauty is love, the purest beauty is innocence, and the softest beauty is kindness.

Where the heart is, the scenery is there, and the beauty of the heart is the beauty of the scenery; How far the heart is, how far the road is and how wide the heart is.

Knowledge is not equal to quality, and education does not represent character. Poor quality is more terrible than no knowledge, and poor character is more terrible than no education. In the relationship between virtue and talent, virtue embodies the difference between man and beast, is the basis of harmonious coexistence between people, and only embodies the difference between people, and is a tool for making a living. Even though he is a mediocre man with virtue but no talent, he is still a good man. The stronger he is, the stronger he is, and the more destructive and harmful he is.

Judging right or wrong, knowledge is not important, and choosing a position is the most important. There are differences between private and public positions and between oneself and others. When judging the public interest, we should express our opinions from our own standpoint. Most private interests are public interests. When judging personal problems, we should stand in the position of public interest and not conflict with it. To judge whether your relationship with others is strong, you should consider the problem from the other side's position as much as possible, taking the benefit of others and self-interest as the premise.

Ignorance is not terrible, not knowing your ignorance is terrible, and thinking you know everything is even more terrible. It's not terrible to be incompetent, it's terrible not to know that you are incompetent, and it's even more terrible to be cocky everywhere. It's not terrible to be unscrupulous, it's terrible not to know that you have no talent, and it's even more terrible to be complacent and unscrupulous. It's not terrible to be shameless, it's terrible not to know that you are shameless, and it's even more terrible not to be ashamed but to be proud.

You can lose wealth, but you can't lose virtue; Can lose power, can't lose conscience; You can lose your reputation, but not your love. You can lose everything, but you can't lose your integrity. The biggest loss in life is losing the trust of the closest and most important person.

# Faith and Faith # Faith is the lamp that lights the soul, and faith is the oil that keeps this lamp burning. Light the lamp in our hearts, no matter how dark it is, we will never get lost; Full of oil of life, even in severe winter, we will not be cold; There is light in the heart, no matter how rough the road is, warmth and happiness will accompany us.

Without faith, there is no direction, spiritual support, spiritual light, emotional warmth and life value.

People without faith are people without spiritual sustenance, people without faith are people without soul, and countries without faith are countries without strong hope. Faith is the principle, direction and goal to follow, yearn for and pursue, and it is the universal value in the outlook on life, nationality and world. Outlook on life, nationality and world outlook cannot be substituted for each other, nor can political beliefs, religious beliefs and life beliefs.

A tree can flourish only if it has deep roots; People can live in the world only if they have faith. Catkin has no roots, it can only dance wildly with the wind for a while, and eventually it will inevitably return to dust; Without faith, even if the rainbow is praised, it will inevitably drift with the tide. In a person's life, food and clothing are the body and faith is the soul.

As the saying goes, the stones in the river can only go far if they are rounded. Seeing the world of mortals rolling, listening to the tide and thinking about the past and the present, it seems that this statement is reasonable. However, if you think about it carefully, you will find that if everyone grinds the stones round and goes far, there will be no boulders along the river, and there will be no empty mountains and rivers. It can be seen that the direction and goal of life are different, and the meaning and value are different.

The loveliness of idealists is that they don't like society when they go out and are dissatisfied with their wives when they go home. After a lifetime of hard work, I found that the ideal does not exist. The loveliness of realists lies in: during the day, the sun is still that sun; At night, the moon is still the same. I have worked hard all my life and found that no ideal is mediocre.

Growing up is not equal to adulthood, being rich is not equal to being rich, having achievements is not equal to success, and having status is not equal to nobility. Kindness is greater than human nature, wealth is greater than love, merit is greater than virtue, and preciousness is greater than character.

Without vision, there is no realm; without realm, there is no mind; without mind, it is difficult to accommodate the world. Without kindness, there is no sympathy, no pity, no tolerance, and it is difficult to tolerate others without tolerance. Without wisdom, people have no understanding, and without understanding, people have no intelligence. Without wisdom, how can they have morality? Take people as friends, and everyone can be friends; Take man as an enemy, everyone can be an enemy. To be kind to others is to be kind to yourself; If you make friends with others, you will make friends with yourself. Take advantage of others, you will last longer; Seeing people's shortcomings will make them shorter.

Cowardly and afraid of the wind, guilty and afraid of ghosts.

Power and prestige: Some people think that power is prestige and power is prestige. It is common for some leaders to be overbearing, imposing, domineering and bossing around, that is, to abuse power for personal gain. In fact, power is not equal to power, and power is not equal to power. Power is given by the position, and Weinai is given by the people. Those who live up to expectations have prestige, and those who don't break their promises have prestige. Respected and respected, the strong are loyal. Respected, powerful, popular and authoritative.

Some people say there is a Fang Youwei. Someone said there was a place for you. It varies from person to person whether to strike first or to strike first. For young people who have just entered the workplace, there are places for them and places for them to strive for. For experienced professional managers, there is a Fang Youwei supported by a position. Therefore, on the road of life, the accumulation of personality, knowledge, qualifications, experience and word of mouth is more important than anything else.

Don't feel that everything is used less and less. The more knowledge is used, the more knowledge is applied, which is not only a test of existing knowledge, but also a process of learning new knowledge. The more experience you use, the more you use existing experience to judge and solve problems. This is the process of accumulating new experience. The more you use your ability, the stronger your ability will be, which can only be honed and improved in practice. The more wisdom is used, the higher the knowledge, experience and ability, and it can only be transformed into wisdom in use. Don't be stingy with your spiritual wealth.

202 1 complete stories suitable for curing lovelorn: to forgive others is to let go of yourself.

1, there are some things we don't have to remember. Even if you don't remember, I don't remember the time, and I will remember it for us.

I am happy, because no one is happier than me.

I really like you. I closed my eyes and thought I could forget, but the tears I shed didn't deceive myself.

No matter how strong a person is, there is always his weak side.

5. Memory is the secret of maturity. If you want to mature, you must read them.

6. Maybe I have been persistent in vain, only to know the later free and easy.

7. For whom time exists, let us forget the fleeting time.

8. Being angry is to punish yourself with other people's mistakes. To forgive others is to let yourself go.

9. Simple me, if you don't want it, then I am shrewd. Have you ever fought?

10, the unhealthy young people in my parents' mouth, I took my life to protect their brothers.

1 1, you are lucky, because you can choose to love me or not, and I can only choose to love you or love you more.

12 and what was the fuse of the May 4th Movement? God replied: only three days off on May Day.

13. If we don't love it very much, what can we do to impress it?

14, one day, I will point to my heart and proudly tell you that there is a substitution here.

15, why should I explain what you don't understand?