What makes your boyfriend think you are very advanced? Can you talk about it?

I want to get along with my boyfriend in a more advanced way and make him think that you have a senior person. Remember a core, three increases and two decreases. This core is not only mastered in getting along with boyfriends, but also able to get along with people more freely in daily life.

The first is to increase the energy devoted to your advantage. To put it bluntly, everyone has advantages and disadvantages. Don't focus more on how to make up or increase your own shortcomings, but focus all your energy on your own advantages. Really outstanding girls will follow the principle of strength, put all their energy on their own advantages, enlarge their own advantages and make themselves more brilliant.

Second, increase your knowledge. Be sure to let yourself see more good things, especially in feelings. If you stand on the 10 floor and your boyfriend stands on the 9th floor, dare you ask him to buy a ladder on the 10 floor, dare you ask him the conditions. He will see the same scenery as you. You are also relaxed with him, so you will have a sense of high class and won't feel humble. How to improve your knowledge, three aspects. First, external. Second, I like it in my heart. If you spend 40% of your time entertaining, please spare 20% of your time to study and improve your internal knowledge.

Third, career, take out the opportunity to go abroad at least once a year, meet new people, know new things and see a new world. Only in this way can we gain insight. Is to increase your financial ability and your reserves, no matter how good this man is to you, don't give up his earning ability and his own coffers, because it proves your social value, affirms your ability, and more importantly, gives you confidence to live. Always remember one sentence: Only when you become more and more valuable in this world will a man not leave you, because he doesn't want to find something better than you.

Fourth, the style is minimalist. In other words, if you buy this thing, such as clothes, try to buy a suit, save time to match it, it will always be a hundred times more attractive than cute, and the interior of your home should be as simple as possible, so how can you sweep the world without sweeping a room? This sentence is correct. In a messy environment, you won't make the right decision, which will greatly affect your thinking.

Fifth, it is to reduce the emotionalization of speaking and doing things. Linguistically speaking, if you talk too much, it will be gone. What you said is not only that you don't understand your emotions, but also that you are most likely to do something wrong and regret. So think clearly before you speak, point to the core, don't exaggerate too much, and don't be emotional. Mastering these points will make your life and yourself feel very advanced.