My wife helps my mother-in-law cook.

When it comes to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, sometimes I have a headache. My husband and I have been married for three years, and the relationship with my mother-in-law has been very tense. I really didn't think this was a problem before I got married, but it became my biggest worry after I got married. At that time, when we were still in love, we were urged to get married quickly, and then we were urged to have children when we got married. But we are usually very busy at work, and now we are working hard while we are young, so we have never wanted children. Our mother-in-law's urging makes us very helpless, and sometimes her mother-in-law will give us a look. This is my mother-in-law's birthday. Originally, I wanted to show off, but then I began to eat after hard work. While eating, I helped my nephew with vegetables. My mother-in-law said, you need one right away, or you don't want it. This sentence makes me feel ashamed in front of so many people.

Women can never escape this topic.

When you are in love, you always feel that two people are happy, but this is not the case after marriage. There are all kinds of things that bother you at home. My mother-in-law really wants to have grandchildren early, but it's really because we are too busy at work to think about it. For the mother-in-law, they don't understand that marrying a daughter-in-law is to carry on the family line. Because of this, my mother-in-law always despises me sometimes. For anything at work, he also holds a negative state, saying that women are always busy, just take care of their families and have children.

Sometimes the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really difficult to measure.

My mother-in-law sometimes makes things difficult for me because I didn't give him grandchildren. It's really annoying to think about it when looking for it, but if the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is stiff, there will be no way to meet each other later, so I have always been in a state of patience, and sometimes my husband will persuade me to make more concessions. At the thought of being so old, I let go, and sometimes I endure it myself. However, I found myself a little tempted recently, because it is always hard not to vent my emotions at a certain point. Fortunately, I have a husband who is very kind to me and sometimes helps me sort out my emotions.

What would you do if such a thing happened to you?

I've been worried about this, but women always have to face the problem of having children. Sometimes I think, I am getting old bit by bit. If I wanted to, I would be earlier. But for a woman, career is not easy. The time when I gave birth will definitely have a certain impact on my career. Sometimes life really can't have it both ways. I don't know if this problem happened to you, what would you choose? For me, it's really tangled. Let's discuss whether we want a career or children.