I have been dating my girlfriend for more than a year, and I feel that she has always regarded me as a spare tire, because I feel that I have always been paying, whether it is money or feelings.

Know how to invest in love and learn how to invest correctly, and you will surely become a winner. Why don't you have confidence in your own redemption? It is because you feel that you have not become a type that others can't refuse.

The word investment is familiar to all brothers, right? Stocks and funds, you know, love is an investment.

Want to save you, let me ask you two questions first:

1, have you ever wondered why you love her so much that you can't let her go?

2. Have you ever thought about what love is?

Love is based on feelings, that is, you spend a lot of energy and time doing something you like very much, and you have feelings because of your investment.

You love her because you put in more than her.

Love is an interactive love investment between people.

Nowadays, many people say that there is no atmosphere for Chinese New Year in 2008, but Christmas in the West is gradually integrating into our lives. Do you know why? Some people say that our younger generation has not kept the tradition.

Let me put it this way, it's about investment. Think about it. When I was a child, my family made rice cakes, glutinous rice balls, pasted blessings, couplets, cleaned up and so on. Have we invested a lot in the new year? So whenever it comes to the first day of the lunar new year, we are very excited, especially when we are children, we can put on new clothes.

Nowadays, people's living standards are getting higher and higher, and many things can be bought off-the-shelf, without hands-on, without investment, and so are new clothes, without the atmosphere of the New Year.

Why can Christmas go up? Because businesses want to make money, all shopping malls hang beautiful Christmas lights at Christmas for everyone to take pictures. This is not just about promoting everyone's consumption, giving Christmas gifts, shopping to boost the economy, eating, drinking and having fun. Therefore, with the investment of merchants, young people have begun to yearn for this festival.

This is an investment, and so are feelings. If your relationship is as rare as new clothes, she will definitely lose interest in you. The way to keep each other's interest is to invest in love correctly.

Love her three points, love yourself seven points, how to distribute? Her three points are appearance, connotation and background, and her seven points are appearance, connotation, background, cultivation, interest, work and family.

Please divide your love into ten points. If you want others to love you, you must first have the capital to be loved.

Your preciousness lies in your proper investment, which is not easy to get. If she is stronger, you should try to shorten the gap between you.

Breaking up sometimes it's not that she hurts you, but that you hurt yourself.

Here are the three most wrong ways to invest:

1, betting on wealth

Put all your bets on her. Needless to say, you must be nervous. The more you do this, the more your opponent's resistance will rise. The more you want to win, the less you get.

People who can't afford to lose are likely to be too depressed to stand up in the future, or leave serious sequelae, no longer believe in love and can't extricate themselves. Many people who do stupid things after breaking up are unable to bear it because of such investment.

2. Sticky

Spending all your time with the same person is more painful than losing money, because if you lose money, you can earn it back. If you lose time, you will lose it.

So why the longer you love, the more painful it will be after breaking up. On the one hand, it is time investment, on the other hand, it is mutual habit.

3, fully enclosed

After falling in love, there are no friends. Take back the network, and she will be the only one left in the world. Once you break up, your world collapses.

A healthy relationship lies in a good investment. Only by knowing how to invest in love can we cope with all kinds of problems, not be afraid of wind and rain, and always adjust ourselves to the best state.