Everything is over (but when everything is over)

1. Your face is so calm and calm that no one knows how tightly you are clenching your teeth. You walk with the wind, and no one knows that you still have bruises on your knees from the fall. You laugh heartlessly, and no one knows that you can only cry silently when you cry. To make people feel effortless, you can only work extremely hard behind the scenes.

2. One day you will know: People's hearts cannot be exchanged for people's hearts, and seriousness cannot be exchanged for deep love. In this world, there are always ungrateful people and ungrateful hearts. Not everyone can be trusted, and not everyone is willing to be sincere.

3. Later, I got used to living alone, I got used to not showing sadness anymore, I got used to not telling my heart anymore, and I got used to you not loving me anymore.

4. Later I learned that those who really want to leave are so stingy that even saying goodbye feels like a waste of time. And those people who shout, "Hey, I'm leaving, but turn back three times, just want you to say, can you stay?"

5. You said you wanted to be with me forever, but I forgot to ask which life.

6. I once gave you the trust to close your eyes and cover your ears. Even if the whole world says you are wrong, as long as you deny it, I will believe it. But you failed it.

7. Sadness is not because love is over, but because when everything is over, love is still there.

8. Maturity means that I used to be sentimental about big things, but now I can handle it alone even if there are thousands of mountains and rivers. Some roads, you have to walk alone, this is not loneliness, but choice...

9. In fact, some words hidden in the heart are not deliberately hidden, but not all pain , you can shout.

10. My feelings for you end here. I have nothing to wish you well. My words against my will are not pretty enough. I just hope that you will go your own way and never provoke me again. .

11. People's hearts are relative, exchange truth for truth; feelings are mutual, warm your heart with your heart! Good fate means not being separated; true love means being together. If you look at people with your eyes, your eyes will wander; if you feel them with your heart, you will be true.

12. You can ask yourself to be nice to others, but you cannot expect others to be nice to you. How you treat others does not mean how they will treat you. If you cannot see through this, you will only cause unnecessary troubles.

13. Do you know what I worry about the most? That is when we quarrel and have conflicts, others will take advantage of it to comfort you, make you happy, and then make you think you have met someone better than me. Good people.

14. Cheap things are only happy the moment you buy them, but you will never be happy when you use them. Good quality items make you feel distressed the moment you give them money, and you feel happy every day when you use them. It feels very worthwhile.

15. Everyone who does not understand love will meet someone who understands love, and then experience a heart-breaking love, and then separate. Later, people who didn't understand love gradually understood, and people who understood love didn't dare to love anymore.

16. To be honest, the scariest thing about relationships is that when you survive the dark time after that person leaves and finally hide all the grievances and sadness in your heart, he appears again. In your world, say he still loves you, and then your heart will move again.

17. I used to be ignorant, and I would always talk to some unreasonable people and work hard. Now I understand that it doesn’t make much sense to communicate with someone who is not on the same frequency, even if you forgive him tens of thousands of times a minute. After all, people who don’t want to understand you can’t explain it, but people who understand you will naturally understand.

18. In the past, when I listened to songs, I listened to the melody. Then, when I listened to songs, I listened to the lyrics. Later, when I listened to songs, I listened to the story. Now when I listen to songs, I listen to myself.

19. A truly strong person will not spend too much thought on useless things. The so-called circles and resources are just derivatives. The most important thing is to improve your internal strength. If you are a phoenix tree, only the phoenix will come to live there; if you are the sea, then all the rivers will come to converge.

20. I haven’t forgotten anything, but some things are only suitable for collection. You can't talk about it, you can't think about it, but you can't forget it either.

21. Later, I gradually learned to accept rather than give. Even if I met someone I was attracted to, I would shake my head and say forget it. When you have accumulated enough disappointment, let it go. Not disturbing is my last tenderness.

22. Later, I stopped digging my heart out when I met people. I began to care about whether my efforts and rewards were directly proportional, and whether that person was worth it. In the eyes of many people, I became very mature. It’s also selfish. The good news is that I’ve learned to love myself. The bad news is that it’s hard for me to love others anymore.