Tell me how I became addicted to cigarettes.

One weekend afternoon, the sun was just right and the breeze was not impetuous.

Lao Wang sat comfortably on the balcony. For over a year, he has been thinking about one thing. At the moment, he felt that the time had come. He moved another chair and called his third-grade son. They sat face to face.

Xiao Wang, 14 years old, only child. Good grades, very sensible, and good relationship with parents. There is no obvious adolescent rebellion.

First, I talked about some school things and family trips after the senior high school entrance examination. Then, Lao Wang asked, "Son, tell me what shortcomings I have and what you and your mother don't like."

Xiao Wang paused, a little dull. "In fact, you are quite good, but smoking is very bad. There is a smell of smoke at home, which makes my mother and I smoke secondhand smoke, which is even worse for our health. "

Lao Wang said, "Yes, this is really a big problem for me. Intellectually speaking, how can I not know the disadvantages of smoking? I have tried to quit smoking many times, but I have never succeeded. People can control their behavior and thinking, but they can't control their blood and endocrine.

"I started smoking when I was a teenager. Some substances in smoke have been integrated into my body, and I am addicted to it. My body is like an alarm clock, secreting something to remind me to smoke regularly. If I don't smoke, I will be very uncomfortable. "

Xiao Wang said, "I understand how you feel. However, I still hope that you can continue to reduce smoking, and it is best to quit. "

"Son, I know you care about me, and I will work hard in this direction. In fact, I'm talking to you today because I hope you don't get addicted to cigarettes at a very young age like me. There are many ways to quit smoking, but the most effective one is not to smoke, not to smoke in the first place.

"You are in adolescence and are curious about everything. Maybe some of your classmates smoke. If you play together, you may start smoking if you are not careful. After I went to college, I was far away from us and free. If I continue to smoke, I will smoke all my life. "

"Dad, don't worry, I promise not to smoke one. No matter who gave it, I resolutely refused. "

"So your mother and I are relieved. Be a man and do things, don't make mistakes at the beginning, always go right. Whatever the reason, don't make mistakes on purpose, and don't think that you will have a chance to correct them later.

Of course, some things are not so easy to do right at first, but things that are obviously harmful to body and mind like smoking are indisputable. "

Xiao Wang pondered for a while. He said, "Dad, why didn't Grandpa tell you this at first?" When you were a teenager, you just started to learn to smoke. Why didn't grandpa stop you? "

Lao Wang smiled wryly and said, "My father, that is, your grandfather, knew that I was learning to smoke at that time, but he turned a blind eye. He smokes himself. Once he drank too much and said to your grandmother, what happened to your son smoking? If he doesn't smoke, who will buy cigarettes to honor me in the future? "