Who will hold the portrait at the funeral?

When the old man died, it was the dutiful son holding the urn and the wise grandson holding the portrait.

At the funeral, the eldest son smashed the tile and walked in front with the urn, the eldest daughter-in-law walked in the second with the oil drum, and the eldest grandson walked in the third with the portrait of the old man. Followed by filial daughters, nieces and granddaughters. Pay attention to the children before and after, and the funeral should focus on the son. Although the son-in-law also has the obligation to honor his parents in law, he generally does not need to accompany the spirit at the funeral, and his children are not considered relatives. The sons are ranked according to their generations, the daughter-in-law is ranked behind, and even the eldest daughter should stand behind the daughter-in-law.

For an old man who died without a son, his nephew held his ashes and his grandnephew held his portrait.