It's often just a casual remark.

Do you have such people around you? I'm always complaining to others, but I'm also working hard in secret. As the saying goes: others just talk casually, but you take it seriously.

Colleague A is a promising young girl. It is said that as soon as she graduated, she came to the international school where we are now as a teacher of Chinese as a foreign language. It's a little ashamed to say that I'm one year older than her, but I'm a whole year younger than her.

When I first came, I was in a dormitory with her, and there was a big sister in the dormitory. Colleague A is so enthusiastic and worldly, I can't believe that this girl who is much taller than me is one year younger than me.

As a rookie, I came here to work with great expectations, but the first night I lived in the dormitory, I heard a lot of negative information, including extremely low salary, extremely tired work, and not treating teachers as human beings. When I first heard this, I never cared. Anyway, I didn't come here to work because of my salary. I am working hard for my dream-teaching Chinese as a foreign language. I am not tired on the road of chasing my dreams. So I don't care much.

Later, I found that my colleague A always said it was not good here, but she worked harder than anyone else and was very self-disciplined.

Every night, colleague A will exercise for half an hour after finishing the work at hand, never stopping, and even do some stretching exercises during menstruation. Of course, you will still tell me from time to time that this school is too shameless. Working more than 12 hours a day leads to low salary, no bonus, no welfare and so on. I laugh it off every time I hear it.

During the summer camp this year, due to some unexpected situations, my colleague A and I stayed up for two days in a row, because we had to have normal classes during the day, but we had to solve this thorny situation at night. It can be said that for two whole days, we didn't rest for more than an hour, and the whole person became pale. Nearly a week later, the whole thing finally came to a complete conclusion. During this period, colleague A's necessary homework is to tell me about the unreasonable salary of school leaders and schools as soon as he has time. To be selfish, our school may not be as perfect as imagined. Every time something happens, the teacher takes care of it first. In addition, the workload of teachers is much higher than that of other schools, but teachers don't deserve honor, because our teaching objects are foreigners, and they don't care about the dignity of teachers. In their eyes, teachers are paid to do things.

In this way, after hearing more negative information, I sometimes doubt my original choice So that I naturally vomited with my colleague A later, and I didn't feel guilty. I've even been thinking about changing my job.

Until this morning, my colleague A once again complained to me about lack of sleep every day. I have to get up at 5: 40 in the morning, and it's already twelve o'clock after the evening study. I feel old. Standing for too long yesterday was a bit bad for my lumbar spine. This time, after listening, my brain suddenly exploded, and I didn't keep up with her complaint. On the contrary, I suddenly found that although she complained every day, her work didn't fall behind at all, and she did it well. When I realized this, my heart was in chaos.

There are all kinds of people in our life. People who always pass on negative energy to others, but work very hard themselves, can easily lead others astray inadvertently. Their unintentional complaints may cause some unclear people and even get lost in them, but they have no influence on themselves. They continue to work hard every day to make themselves better and better. Only one person is stupid from beginning to end.

It can be seen that sometimes, others just talk casually, but you take it seriously!