What are the people in the group chat like?

Chatting with friends the other day, I found that two strangers suddenly quarreled. The scene was so embarrassing that everyone didn't know what to say to ease the atmosphere. Those who accidentally stop fighting will become cannon fodder.

Such things seem to happen from time to time in life, and many times we can see a person's character clearly under such circumstances. I believe that quite a few people, like me, are the kind of people who don't talk to each other in private. Most people only like to add WeChat, which is a topic of diving in any group.

Because of this, I usually watch others chatting silently in the group and think about what people in the group are like. In my opinion, language is an important way for people to express their wishes, thoughts and feelings, which can reflect a person's moral quality and cultural accomplishment. Especially, individuals in a group can better see a person's personality.

That day, at the beginning, everyone was discussing hot topics and had a good time. However, a girl suddenly said something subjective, which made her stand out from the crowd. If someone in the group is uncomfortable, just say, will you stop? The girl said, I'm a professional, okay? Don't listen if you don't want to. I didn't force you to accept it. Then, some people thought that the group should be more harmonious, so they came out to stop the fight. The girl immediately pointed to the person who had stopped the fight and said, I don't like you for a long time. What can I do for you? Shut your mouth. The person who stopped the fight was forced by words and instantly backed the pot. Finally, everyone in the group broke up in discord.

After diving in the group for so many days, I found this girl talking in the group every day, complaining about this today and that tomorrow. As long as life doesn't go according to her expectations, it's life's fault. When others are sad, make them stop talking and say what you are complaining about. Her bad temper and selfishness are exposed in every sentence, but she thinks she is straightforward.

As a bystander, I can only say that I refuse to get in touch with such people because we have different views.

Wechat group is a small social group, and chatting with one person is essentially different from chatting with a group of people. No one will know what kind of influence your "casual talk" will bring to others, not to mention that your speech is only your own. Your words may make you comfortable, but will you be comfortable alone? Conversation in group chat can often hide a person's accomplishment. Through your words, others will naturally know what kind of person you are.

Some people always talk about their achievements in the group, for fear that others will not know, even those who want to disturb others' privacy will know. Such people are actually naive, just like children clamoring for candy, trying to attract everyone's attention. Really mature people will only show their charm in a low-key way at critical moments.

Schopenhauer said that showing off one's talents and cleverness is nothing more than laughing at the stupidity and incompetence of others by innuendo. No matter how tolerant and generous people are, they will not pay for your naivety.

Some people think that there is no need to worry so much about doing what they want to do and saying what they want to say. But in fact, you are not qualified to talk to yourself and degrade others in a public group. When you blame others at random in the group, you are embarrassing others. This selfish behavior can only make others see your selfishness.

Many times, everyone has different requirements for privacy. If you can't tell what privacy is, you'd better not say it. There are many people in the group, so it is difficult to protect others. If you really want to talk, please talk in private.

There was an old saying in China: "A gentleman must not lose his position, a villain must not lose his reputation, and a villain must not slip of the tongue". Many times, your mouth can kill people, so don't be a person who just wants to vent his anger at the moment, regardless of the consequences. Look before you leap, and be a conscientious person.