Nanny strangles 83-year-old man: Why do nannies we pay for hurt our relatives quietly?

An 83-year-old man was ill, and his son had no time to take care of her, so he hired a nanny for her.

When the nanny first came, she was very patient, talking to the elderly and massaging them. My son is very pleased to see that he can finally work with peace of mind.

Unexpectedly, in just 8 days, my son received a phone call from the nanny saying that the old man had passed away.

For my son, it was like a bolt from the blue.

After seeing the body of his old mother, he was heartbroken and at a loss.

The kind nanny didn't turn away, but was busy helping him plan things outside:

"Don't panic, I sent a lot of people away.

I know how to handle the aftermath. You take out the shroud, I'll wipe your mother first, and then change clothes. "

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Statistics show that China has become one of the countries with the fastest aging population in the world.

By the end of 20 14, the elderly population in China has reached 2120,000, accounting for 15% of the total population, and is increasing at the rate of10,000 per year.

The problem of providing for the aged has gradually become a major social problem.

There are three modes of providing for the aged in China, one is home-based care, the other is community-based care, and the other is institutional care, with home-based care accounting for the vast majority? About 90%.

People with elderly parents often reach middle age and are suffering from various powerlessness in career, body, spirit and interpersonal relationship. Take care of yourself, let alone the elderly.

So hiring a nanny has become the choice of many people.

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My grandfather had three children, but no one was with him before he left.

A few days before grandpa died, he was in good spirits. Although I spend most of my time in bed, when the weather is fine, I will walk around the yard with the help of my grandmother and eat a little for three meals a day.

When we went back to visit him, he had been able to talk to us clearly for a long time. Everyone thinks that grandpa's life is still very long.

At that time, in order to take care of my nephew, my mother and my brother lived in other places, and so did their menstruation. Whenever my uncle posts something about my grandfather in the WeChat group, they will say, "Come back and see him when we have time.

Life is short, only parents love it.

It is often the moment when they go from illness to old age.

Please give them enough patience and companionship when they need it most. Because, maybe in a blink of an eye, they won't give you another chance to be filial.

Birth, aging, illness and death are natural laws, and we cannot change them.

But in our limited life, we can leave more time and space to our parents and give them spiritual companionship as much as possible.