Do you find it unnatural for young mothers to have their mother-in-law by their side when they are breastfeeding during confinement?

When I first became pregnant, I also felt quite embarrassed. At that time, I made an agreement with my husband not to let them watch me breastfeed.

As a result, when I was in confinement, my breasts were as big as mines because my nipples were inverted and my breasts began to swell on the third day in the hospital.

After returning home, the confinement nurse came and she quickly unclogged my breasts. At that time, I felt heavy and uncomfortable, and it was too late to do anything at that time. My mother-in-law was still asking the confinement sister-in-law how my milk was. The confinement sister-in-law said it was because my breast milk was so good that it was not easy to relieve the pain.

I remember when I was just pregnant, I was relatively lazy, and my mother-in-law told my father-in-law that I would definitely have a girl. My aunt said the same thing, and said that I had no strength to control my blood sugar and protect my fetus, so I must have had a caesarean section. As a result, I gave birth to a boy naturally.

My breast engorgement did not subside, and I got acute mastitis after half a month of confinement. My breasts were a little red and swollen, and I couldn’t wear clothes at all. One of them was that my breasts were so swollen that I couldn’t wear clothes, and the other was that my breasts felt special. hot. Later I became very open-minded, and I was no longer embarrassed to be naked when my mother-in-law was around, as long as I felt comfortable.

Same-sex relationships are okay, it’s that time now, there’s nothing we can’t let go of. When I gave birth to my first child, my baby couldn’t suck or latch on to the nipple, and my mother-in-law even used her hands to help. Put it in the baby's mouth [cover face]

No, my mother-in-law is just like my mother, I'm fine, I don't feel uncomfortable at all

My mother-in-law is fine here, The most annoying thing is my father-in-law. Every time he comes into our house without knocking, I feel like I’m sulking. I don’t understand. Doesn’t he know not to enter Grandma Yue’s room?

If it were me, I would feel unnatural and irritated, but my mother would not. When I was breastfeeding, I couldn't help but get irritated whenever my mother-in-law came in front of me, but my mother didn't care. Maybe it was because I was disgusted with my mother-in-law.

I don’t want to anyway. When I was breastfeeding, in addition to my husband, even my mother and sister would be kicked out.

If you feel uncomfortable, just tell her directly, don’t hold your breath during confinement, it’s not good for your health.

It is definitely unnatural, after all, it is a private part.

But after having a baby, it becomes a feeding tool.

I still remember that on the third day of confinement, my breasts were as heavy as stones. My mother-in-law helped me rub them, but it had no effect. Later, I hired a prolactinologist to get relief.

During the confinement period, my mother-in-law would watch every time the child was fed. Of course, she was not looking at me but the child. The child looked very cute while feeding. I felt very uncomfortable watching it, but I was too embarrassed to say anything. During the entire breastfeeding period, I was the mother of my child during the day, and I was a ruthless feeding machine at night. In the eyes of the children, I am just a big cow [crying]

No, my mother-in-law is also a mother, is it okay?

It’s okay that my mother-in-law is here, but my father-in-law can’t be there

It was super unnatural. My mother-in-law kept watching me while I was breastfeeding, and I wanted to let her go away on her own, but she didn't move. She said she just wanted to see if the baby was eating well. It made it hard for me to say anything, so I finished feeding in such an embarrassing manner...