May you live up to your bed when you sleep, and your heart when you love.

Some people say that time makes people forget pain. I don’t think that time can only make people get used to pain.

When I was young and inexperienced, my father taught me a sentence that I still remember. Whenever you want to criticize anyone, he said to me, just remember that not everyone in this world has had the advantages you have. Fitzgerald, "The Great Gatsby"

When you occasionally find that language has become powerless, you might as well be quiet and let silence speak for you. Li Zelin

Maybe it is true that everyone is lonely, and no one will accompany anyone for a lifetime.

The little prince watered the rose, so the rose became special. He tamed the fox, so the fox became important. Sometimes you can't let go of some people and things, not because the people and things themselves are irreplaceable, but because you spend time and energy on those people and things, which make them important. Gu Nai

The person who can make you live the most like yourself will definitely be the person who loves you the most and who you love the most. Xu Lingzi

I hope you will live up to your bed when you sleep, your stomach when you are hungry, and your heart when you love. May you be brave and fearless even if you are alone in every day from now on. When you are busy, live up to the road; when you love, live up to the people

Introduction: Many mistakes and losses are due to lack of effort, persistence, and retention. Then you tell yourself that everything is fate. Lifelong love is not a vigorous love, nor is it a commitment or a vow. But when everyone abandons you, only he is silently accompanying you. When everyone is admiring you, he is the only one holding your hand and raising the corners of his mouth, as if proudly saying, I knew it.

1. Be a girl with depth, a gangster with temper, and a lady with education.

2. Life only lasts a few decades, so why bother with yourself? You can rest and recover when your body is tired, but it is difficult to recover when your mind is tired. There will always be some helplessness in life. Either you accept it happily, or you bear it depressedly. In fact, it all depends on how you choose.

3. Without sowing, there is no harvest; without hard work, there is no success; without suffering, there is no glory; without setbacks, there is no glory. Even if you are busy, even if you are anxious, you should say "I miss you" in your spare time; even if you are tired, even if you are depressed, you should say good night before going to bed; even if you are angry, even if you quarrel, you should say "I miss you" the next day. Squint your eyes and smile in the morning; we agree that a lifetime is enough.

4. When you are busy, do not let down the road; when you love, do not let down the people.

5. Don’t show off because you don’t feel inferior. Don't worry, because you know how to love. Don't perform a life you're not good at for an audience that doesn't belong to you.

6. Life can be complicated or simple, it depends on what kind of mentality we have. Simple means real, plain means indifferent. To face the complexity and remain joyful. Believe in your own strength, but don’t refuse tears; Believe in the sincerity between people, but don’t accuse hypocrisy; Believe that hard work will succeed, but don’t avoid failure; Believe in the fairness of fate, but don’t forget that when a door closes When the time comes, learn to leave a window for yourself.

7. Live busy every day, ignoring the multiple responsibilities you have. Maybe this is also your mission. Don’t be so dissatisfied, thinking that there are so many people who can’t even maintain their lives, but they are still so strong. Live bravely.

8. Keep yourself busy, so busy that you have no time to think about irrelevant things, and many things will be quietly forgotten. The most annoying thing in a relationship is not the quarrels or cold wars, but the pretending not to care even though you clearly like someone. Love is always tied to self-esteem. But self-esteem is by no means a lofty attitude, but a frank face to oneself. Everyone in the world is used to playing a disdainful and cool persona. The better your acting skills are, the farther away you are from happiness.

9. Many times, a person's change begins with the arrival or departure of another person.

10. If you are in a bad mood, listen to less sad songs. When you are hungry, find food by yourself. If you are afraid of the dark, turn on the light. If you want, just make money and buy it. Even if life gives you all kinds of obstacles, you can still do it. There is no need to use pretense to magnify your own difficulties. The reality is so cruel. How can you pretend to be innocent? Don't pay too much attention to things that you can't change. Try to learn to give up if you can't keep people. Try your best to heal yourself if your heart is hurt. Except for life and death, it's all trivial. Don't embarrass yourself.

11. Try to change your life. When you are tired, please put your heart on the shore; when you make a mistake, don’t think about regrets; only when you suffer, you know how to be satisfied; when you are hurt, you know how to be strong!

12. Ten years from now, I hope that I will still have a friend like this who is not tied down by fame and wealth. He can kick open the door of my home, open my refrigerator and drink from me without even saying hello. He drank Coke, ate my half-eaten cake, made fun of me carelessly, called me an idiot, and finally cleaned up the room for me without asking me how I was doing, and then the two of us laughed together... Such friends , please cherish it.

13. In life, you must be content, ordinary, and grateful, and you can no longer be willful and forceful. Everyone is sad sometimes, and sometimes we are surprised to find that every time you cry when you are sad, there are always only a few people who accompany you when you are sad. They may not appear when you are happy, but when you are sad, they will always appear by your side for the first time. Good friends are a lifelong thing.

14. The first half of your life may belong to others and live in the opinions of others. Give yourself the rest of your life and follow your inner voice.

15. You may be worthless in front of one person, but priceless in front of another person. Remember your worth. This is the reason why people move their lives.

16. People live in the present, and their lives only last once. But different environments breed different people, different scenery affects different moods, and different attitudes will have different endings.

17. Anything can always become simple as long as you are willing. No matter what anyone says, I think my feelings are the right ones. You can stick to things you like, but things you don’t like will never last. Never envy someone else's life, even if that person seems happy and prosperous. Never judge someone else's happiness, even if that person seems lonely and helpless.

18. Many people are not withdrawn, but socialize with principles and choices. You can talk a lot to the person you like, but not a word to other people.

19. I am busy, but I don’t seem to be busy. Time is crushed so much, a gust of wind blows, and everything disappears, so that when I try to recall what I have done this year, , found that he had simply woken up from a coma.

20. I don’t think about whether I can succeed. Since I have chosen a distant place, I only care about the ups and downs.

21. Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, but about learning to dance in the wind and rain.

22. There is no need to argue with fate. Only by letting nature take its course can we be at peace with each other.

23. You can choose to believe in the light, but you cannot deny the existence of darkness; you can choose to move forward bravely, but you cannot ignore the dormant danger; you can choose to remember the past, but you cannot stop the passage of time. Side A is beautiful, side B is cruel, this is life.

24. Growth is: gradually becoming gentle, restrained, simple, not complaining, not asking, not remembering, gradually realizing the magnificence of life in silence.

25. If the heart is simple, the world will be simple, and happiness will grow. If your heart is free, your life will be free, and you will be happy wherever you go.

26. Many people think that lowering the bottom line can give you something in return. In fact, this is not the case. The bottom line determines what you have. Once you lower your principled bottom line, you will soon lose some of what you regard as principles, and then you will lose more. Usually what you get back by lowering your bottom line is no longer what you wanted in the first place. The bottom line can float, but don’t lower it again and again; everyone’s principles are different, but you have to have it.

27. Deep in our souls, we are all lonely, always trying to find warmth from the crowd to resist the coldness of the soul. But in the end, only myself is left in the exhaustion, crying in the laughter, and sad in the joy. As long as our breathing and heartbeat are still there, we have to trudge around, endure the pain, and be numb in the pain. It seems that today it is solid under the feet, but yesterday has already become a cloud. Dreams need wings and can only be cultivated through diligence and hard work.

28. My eyes are making rain for you, but my heart is holding an umbrella for you. Even though I am angry, I still unconsciously want to care about you. Maybe this is true love!

29. I am still stubbornly looking for that feeling of electric shock and longing for the love that a woman has been longing for all her life. I cannot lower this minimum requirement. My friend said: Your requirements are actually very high. There are not many people who can be happy with each other these days, especially in today's materialistic world. This is already a luxury. But I am still waiting for the person who returns on a stormy night with my enthusiasm and yearning.

30. To like someone means to be happy together; to love someone means to want to be together even if you are unhappy.

31. Sometimes, all we need to do is wait; daring to wait is also a kind of confidence.

32. No matter how painful things you experience, you will gradually forget them in the end. Because nothing can beat time.

33. A woman who does not have healthy self-growth, no matter what the circumstances, will definitely look like a "resentful woman" in a few years; a woman with quality should be like bamboo, self-renewal, self-renewal. To grow and complete transformation, no one can help a woman who doesn’t help herself. If you are lucky enough to have an external force that can help you "refresh" your ordinary life, then you must remind yourself: I want to "refresh" too.

34. You value yourself too much, and at the same time you value others' evaluation of you too much. You are frightened by the bluff of others, and you begin to doubt yourself. You do not express opinions, even if you have foresight. You will never dare to take the step of trying until your vision is proven. You were knocked down step by step by yourself. From the day you started to make excuses for your shrinkage, you have slowly begun to look down on you.

35. If you laugh, someone will laugh with you, but it may not be sincere. Just smile and it will be over; if you cry, if someone cries with you, it is naturally true and should be engraved in your heart. () Our mistake is: we regard the same laughter as the same happiness, the same crying as the same sadness, accept the laughter happily, and refuse to cry rashly. As a result, we are intoxicated in the laughter and lost in the cry. Keep a clear mind when you laugh, have a wise heart when you cry, look at the world while laughing, and examine your soul while crying.

36. Life is always a dilemma. No matter how persistent and unwilling you are, you have to learn to accept things that are no longer pure. From crying and accusing, to treating with a smile, in the end, it was just a happy-go-lucky affair.

37. "It is said in the movie that there is no fate between you and me, and it is all up to me to survive. I understand. I used to think that this sentence brought me to tears, but now I feel that, to put it bluntly, loving someone It’s really your own business, and you have to have the same attitude to live your life. As long as you want to continue, you won’t have to cry, and you will have to endure whatever fate is in the world. Love will last as long as you can; love will last as long as you can endure!

38. Why should a person study? Because if you don't study for three days, your language will be boring. If you keep saying the same words, people will be disgusted by them. If you keep saying the same thing and the expression on your face does not change and remains the same, that is called having an abominable face. Some people's appearance is very disgusting, and listening to their words makes them feel boring. One important reason is that they don't study.

39. The most suitable relationship is never to torture each other in the name of love, but to accompany each other and become each other's sunshine.

40. If you are not strong, who will show you your cowardice!

Postscript: A person’s life, whether poor or rich; romantic or coquettish; no matter how you live it, it is a life, but in the end, it will turn into a wisp of smoke and a pile of loess! In this life, none of us can escape fear, surprise, worry, thoughts, sadness, pain, sadness, sadness, joy, anger, and joy; we cannot avoid birth, old age, illness, and death. Therefore, life is the greatest gift given to us by God. Cherish your life, your own health, family affection, friendship, and love! A refreshing healing talk: Live up to the scenery when playing, and live up to the bed when sleeping

1. Everything that fails to defeat you will make you stronger. You want to be a lovely girl, not bothered by worldly things, and full of joy.

2. When nothing you do helps, the only thing you can do is to try your best to live a better life. If you lose it, just lose it, and stop crying.

3. Grow up well and slowly, and believe that one day you will become something you are satisfied with.

4. Sometimes, God doesn’t give you what you want, not because you don’t deserve it, but because you deserve better.

5. Girls should be kind to themselves. Don’t blame yourself when you can blame your boyfriend.

6. The best thing is not the future, but today. The sun is so good, why bother yourself.

7. The passage of time cannot stop the belief in progress. The great waves of time are ultimately no match for the power of the heart. For the rest of your life, don’t give up or give up.

8. Dear past, thank you for all the lessons you gave me. Dear Future, I'm ready.

9. You can be alone, but you are not allowed to be alone. You can be lonely, but you can't be empty. You can be depressed, but you are not allowed to fall. It's okay to be disappointed, but don't give up. Remember, a child without an umbrella must run hard.

10. Live up to your stomach when you eat delicious food, live up to your people when you love, live up to the scenery when you play, and live up to your bed when you sleep. Talk about the mood suitable for girls; live up to the bed when sleeping, and live up to yourself when you are alone

1. One day you will meet such a person, he will make your laughter and tears meaningful , he treats you well and treats you as the most important person in his life.

2. There are too many stories without endings. You have to get used to meeting and parting. Time will remember your gentle and sincere heart.

3. If no one can block the gun for you, then be your own hero. Please be true to yourself and live like the original.

4. Now I don’t blame anyone, don’t laugh at anyone, and don’t envy anyone. The sun is shining brightly, running in the wind and rain, dreaming your own dreams and walking your own path.

5. I used to think that the most beautiful thing in life is meeting. Later I realized that what is actually rare is reunion. If we can meet again after a long absence, I hope you are well.

6. Make yourself better while you are alone, not only to be responsible for yourself, but also to give a good explanation to the person in the future.

7. Just let go of some things and look at them without worrying about them too much. A broad heart is the best gift to yourself.

8. The best people: like children, sincere. Like the sunset, warm. Like the sky, peaceful.

9. Anything that confuses you enough can destroy you. A soft heart is a disease, but deep love is fatal.

10. Don’t let down others when you love, don’t let down the scenery when you play; don’t let down your bed when you sleep, don’t let yourself down when you are alone.