What should you do if your relatives want to borrow 100,000 yuan from you and they will cut off all contact with you from now on?

First of all, borrowing money is your friendship, and not borrowing money is also your right.

This kind of family relationship that cuts off contact because they don’t borrow money often values ??money more than relationships. They may be the kind of relatives who praise others and ignore others.

My dad once said to me, "As long as you decide to lend money to someone, don't be afraid of whether it will come back. This is trust between both parties." My dad often said to me, don't borrow money from others. people want money.

Although I don’t think it’s particularly right, I also think there must be some adult truth.

Relatives are actually strangers who are related by blood.

I saw this sentence in a TV series before.

Relatives are just a little more special than other strangers in terms of blood relationship. Anyone who comes into contact with money and interests will have friction. Therefore, try to minimize such contact between relatives.

One hundred thousand yuan is a big sum for an ordinary family. If you borrow it, even if you are a relative, there will be great risks, so it is understandable not to borrow it.

But it is also unethical for relatives to use "borrowing money or severing the relationship" as a bargaining chip to force them to borrow money. So this unethical approach can also be rejected.

You have no choice but to borrow money from others, but you should also do your best to help. I think you can borrow part of it to show that you have limited funds and can only provide part of it, which can also reduce the risk of not being able to repay the money. Not borrowing money will probably not alleviate the current embarrassing atmosphere. If you don't want to quarrel, then you can have a good talk and borrow a small amount to solve the immediate needs of the relatives and extend some of the friendship between the relatives.