Why are men afraid of chickens and women afraid of sheep? What do you mean?

Friends who have lived in rural areas should be very familiar with rural proverbs. When they are working in the countryside, they can often hear grandparents and grandparents say all kinds of strange idioms. Later, I learned that this is a saying. Many proverbs that appear in our lives are the experiences gained by the old people in their lives and then spoken, and these proverbs are just to warn the next generation.

Do you know what the phrase "men are afraid of chickens and women are afraid of sheep" means? As a famous thinker in the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, Gui Guzi has something to say on this topic. His life left us a lot of ideological and cultural wealth.

In the history of more than 2,000 years, strategists revere him as a saint, strategists revere him as an ancestor, fortune tellers revere him as an ancestor, strategists revere him as an ancestor, famous artists revere him as an ancestor, and Taoism reveres him as the ancestor of Wang Chan.

Compare the topics, don't completely lose Confucius and Mencius!

Even today, thousands of years later, his wisdom is still worth learning and learning from. In particular, Guiguzi's achievements in interpersonal communication are worth learning.

1, let's talk about how men are afraid of chickens. There are two kinds of folk sayings. First of all, in rural areas, the chicken is the only bird in the zodiac. In rural areas, there is a saying that "a golden phoenix flies out of a hen's nest", which is another name for Phoenix, so some people understand that "chicken" is related to Phoenix. As the king of birds, Phoenix is called the national totem of the Chinese nation together with dragons.

As the saying goes, men should be like "flying dragons in the sky", resolute and sunny, which is incompatible with the elegance and personality of the phoenix. It is generally better for girls to be "chickens". After all, in rural areas, people think that "chicken" means phoenix. Secondly, the "chicken" begins to crow very early every day, which shows that the chicken works very early and hard. If a man is a chicken, then this life is definitely a hard life, and he is not blessed to enjoy life. So people mistakenly think that "men are afraid of chickens" is not good.

Secondly, let's talk about what "women are afraid of sheep". In fact, there is a saying in our country that "ten sheep are incomplete", which means that nine out of ten people who belong to sheep are unlucky. This is purely without scientific basis. After all, how can attributes determine the fate of a person's life? However, this statement is very popular. In the folk, many people will not find someone who belongs to the sheep as a wife, because they all think that sheep are unlucky.

Another way of saying it is that sheep and yang are homophonic, and the word "sheep" of women will be more pungent. In the rural society where men were superior to women in the past, the old people thought that women should be gentle and graceful. A woman should be a graceful phoenix; "Yang" is homophonic with the Chinese character "Yang". Masculinity describes men. If a woman has "yang", it will be unbalanced, very uncoordinated and unlucky. Sheep are aggressive and unruly. The older generation thinks that women are not suitable to be sheep, so they also say that "women are afraid to be sheep".

In fact, in my opinion, "men are afraid of chickens and women are afraid of sheep" is only a subjective assumption of the elderly in rural areas, and there is no science at all. After all, people have no right to choose their own animals, and everything should return to nature. Only through our own efforts can we take happiness away from others.

People will not care about these meaningless statements. As modern people, we don't believe these feudal superstitions. Everyone's fate is determined by ourselves. No matter what attributes, there are excellent people and evil people. Therefore, it is absurd to take attributes as a standard to measure a person's life.

In rural areas, people who belong to the family of chickens and sheep are doomed. We all know that chicken looks like a phoenix, and some people say that chicken is another name for phoenix, and men should be like dragons. If a man is a chicken, it sounds like a bad feeling. And ten sheep and nine are incomplete, because Cixi was despised by the people and secretly said her words.

We all know that girls' gentle and elegant personality is similar to that of sheep, but sheep is homophonic with "Yang", and the word Yang is masculine. Therefore, in the eyes of the elderly, if women are too aggressive and competitive in marriage, it will easily affect the relationship between husband and wife and their own lives. So there is such a saying, but there is no scientific basis.