Fight back when it's time to fight back.

If my child is bullied, I will teach Ta to fight back.

Because if you keep telling your child not to fight back and be polite to others, then when Ta is bullied in the future, or when she is bullied badly, she still doesn't dare to fight back, because her mother told Ta not to fight back.

The child who was beaten as shown above just didn't dare to fight back. The child who bullied him sat on him and let him beat him up.

There is an eight-year-old child in a friend's house who looks very shy, but his friend says that his children are always bullied outside. Both older children and younger children beat him.

Every time he comes back crying and tells me that someone beat him, robbed him and beat him, I feel very sad, but what can I do? Because I knew it was wrong to hit people, I told him to swallow his pride and not to hit others. We should be polite.

Whenever he talks about playing ball, he is also very sad. I find it difficult for him to choose.

But I told her a story: I said it was wrong to hit people, but letting him swallow his words from an early age and blindly tolerate them will only make his character weaker and weaker, and won't he be bullied for life? It is obviously wrong to teach children to fight back, but if you don't stop others from bullying yourself, you will only be bullied by others all your life.

Because the child who hits people knows in his heart that it is futile to hit him, because he will not fight back.

When my nephew was beaten in kindergarten, my sister told him not to hit others, but after a while, I found that the problem could not be solved at all because he would be bullied by more children.

My nephew felt so wronged that he even cried in his dreams. So later, we found out that in fact, when you hit me between children and I hit back, my mood had been alleviated.

So I will let my children fight back when they are bullied by other children, because this is also to protect themselves.

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