If your boyfriend said you were naive and asked you to blend in with his friends and talk and laugh with everyone, would you change for him?

I think this problem is also the trouble of many young people in the new era, including those born after 1980s and 1990s. They gradually form a "home" mentality, and communicate less with people around them, which is a serious lack of communication skills. Since your boyfriend raised this point, I think you might as well try to meet more strangers, which is good for both sides, and of course, you should "choose wood to live" less with those who have no morality.