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Friendship has come to an end. Tell me about it.
Although friends are one of the five elements of Confucianism, there is no blood relationship between father and son, no relationship between husband and wife, and even no fame and fortune relationship between monarch and minister or superiors and subordinates. The only thing that can keep their relationship together is a sweet word and a righteous word.
In the Book of Changes, Gan Guwen: Simultaneous Seeking. The same sound is easy to ring, and the same smell is easy to blend with each other. People with similar interests and temperament are easy to make friends.
High mountains and flowing water seek a bosom friend, who can listen to a bosom friend without him? Coke is broken in the sunset, and there is no piano in the world. It is said that Boya is good at drumming and Zhong Ziqi is good at listening. Boya Guqin aims at high mountains. Zhong Ziqi said, "Well, I am as high as Mount Tai." . Determined to manage water, Zhong Ziqi said, OK, like a river. Zhong Ziqi will understand what Boya said. When he died as a child, Boya said that there was no bosom friend in the world, but he broke the piano and never played drums all his life.
"Mountains and Rivers" became a masterpiece. What really makes the world regret is not that the piano music has not been circulated in the world, but that the mutual understanding between Boya and Zhong Ziqi is hard to find.
Bai Juyi has only a handful of bosom friends in his life. I will pick up my pipa, and I will play Jia Dao's bosom friend, whom Meng Haoran hates to listen to. If he doesn't like it, he will return to his hometown. Yue Fei has few intimate friends. Who can listen to a broken string? Wen Tianxiang's mountains and rivers, have to listen to a bosom friend. Everyone is lamenting the depressed mood that it is hard to find a bosom friend and a bosom friend.
The bosom friend is the highest realm of friendship in the spiritual field. I don't have to force it. I'm lucky. I can't. I'm doomed. Those sincere friends around us who are affectionate and righteous, share life and death, and never give up are the priceless treasures we should cherish.
Wen Tianxiang said: Knowing has treated each other with sincerity, and Feng Menglong said: Those who fall in love with kindness are called knowing themselves; A soul mate is called a bosom friend.
True friendship is like the intersection of souls, the marriage of souls, the cohesion of morality and the combination of spirit. From two strange individuals to an inseparable whole, there is * * *, there is life and death. In the world, this kind of friendship is called the difference between life and death.
There is a story in Liu Xiang's Biography of Martyrs in Han Dynasty: During the Warring States Period, Yang Jiaoai, a native of Yan State, made friends with Zuo. When they heard that the king of Chu was a man of virtue and courtesy, they went together to seek the promotion of their official position. When they crossed Liangshan, it happened that the road was closed by heavy snow, and their clothes and shoes were thin and cold. Zuo Tao Bo took off his clothes and gave them to Yang Jiaoai to encourage him to move on, but he was so cold. Yang Jiaoai lived up to expectations and was awarded a doctorate in Chu. Told the king of Chu, and then came back to give Zuo a good burial.
Later, Prince Li Xian mentioned in the annotation of the Book of the Later Han Dynasty that the King of Chu cherished the sages and gave Zuo a deep burial with a clear ceremony. At night, I dreamed that Zuo asked for help, saying that the cemetery was very close to General Jing's cemetery and would fight a decisive battle on the 15th of this month. On that day, I realized that Yin and Yang were separated, so I committed suicide in front of the left tomb to help him.
Therefore, people also call the friendship between Zuo Yang and Zuo Yang a friend who laid down his life, while the intimate friend who has profound friendship and can lay down his life is called Zuo Yang. In the sixth year of Tang Dali, Yan Zhenqing passed the tomb and hung poems.
Feng Menglong, a writer in Ming Dynasty, interpreted this story in the seventh volume of Ancient and Modern Novels. Yang Jiaoai gave his life for everyone and added some branches. At the end of the article, I wrote a poem: in ancient times, benevolence and righteousness overwhelmed the world, only in my heart. The autumn in front of Ershi Temple is crisp, and the soul of the hero is often accompanied by the cold moonlight.
It was Liu Bei, Guan Yu and Zhang Fei who really pushed the friendship between life and death to the peak and were regarded as spiritual leaders by the traditional customs of becoming sworn brothers, brothers and blood alliances during the Three Kingdoms period.
Long before the Romance of the Three Kingdoms appeared, there was a legend that Liu Guan and Zhang Taoyuan became sworn friends.
The history book The History of the Three Kingdoms has recorded the details of Liu's friendship for many times. "Shu Shu Guan Yu Biography" records that when my late master slept with them, they slept together, so they were brothers. The thick people sit wide and stand all day, not avoiding difficulties and obstacles with their ancestors. "Zhang Fei Chuan Shu Shu" records that the young master and Guan Yu are in the front, and they are in charge at a few years old. According to the biography of the Three Kingdoms Shu Shu Fei Yi, when Fei Yi advised Guan Yu, he once said, "It is a blessing or a curse for a monarch to be like a minister and have fun with Hugh." .
In addition, the biography of Guan Yu in Shu records that Cao Cao asked Zhang Liao to test Guan Yu's willingness to stay while Guan Yu was there. Guan Yu said: I know very well that Cao Gong was kind to me, but I was sworn to death by General Liu, and I can't recite it. Although it is not enough to prove that this life and death oath is a taoyuan pledge. However, various scattered historical records have become the source of loyalty in Taoyuan.
Especially according to historical records, after Guan Yu's death, Cao Wei ministers discussed whether Liu Bei would send troops to avenge Guan Yu. Ye Liu said: Guan Yu and Bei treat their father and son with the righteousness of monarch and minister; Feather death can't repay kindness and promote the army, and it's not enough to start and end. Prepare to send troops to attack Wu.
Liu Bei, who is already the head of a country, fulfilled his duty as a half-brother, regardless of the dissuasion of ministers, and crusaded against Wu throughout the country, fulfilling the agreement of swearing to death with * * *, and respecting the spirit of loyalty in Taoyuan for future generations: Qi Xin worked together to help the poor; Serve your country, rest in peace. The basic pattern of not wanting to be born on the same day in the same year, but wanting to die on the same day in the same year left a solid footnote.
Song Dynasty is the peak of folk development of The Tales of Three Kingdoms. During the Northern Song Dynasty, the art of rap rose, with not only the Three Kingdoms Opera, but also experts saying "Three Points". The theme of the story showed an obvious tendency of respecting Liu and belittling Cao. The main outline of Taoyuan Jieyi has been looming.
The Three Kingdoms of Quanxiang Pinghua, published in Yuan Dynasty, began to record that two gentlemen (Liu Bei and Guan Yu) saw Fei Zi and flew to the mansion with him. After that, there is a peach garden with a small pavilion. Fei invited two kiosks to buy wine, and three people enjoyed drinking. In the drinking room, the order of the three people is the same, Degong is the longest, and secondly, the cost is the smallest. From then on, eldest brother and younger brother sacrificed white horses to the sky and black cows to the ground, instead of being born on the same day, they would rather die on the same day. Three people walk together, sit together, sleep together and swear to be brothers.
After the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, people's worship of Taoyuan became more and more popular. Liu Bei, Guan Yu and Zhang Fei became half-brothers, who lived and died together with * * *, sharing weal and woe. The story of establishing the great cause of Shu and Han was almost enthusiastically admired and imitated by people. People with similar interests and similar personalities become brothers and sisters through certain ceremonies, supporting each other in life and career, caring for each other and taking care of each other. Over time, it has evolved into a special social interpersonal relationship that upgraded friendship to affection, and has become a folk custom with a unique China humanistic color.
Liang Qichao's article "On the Relationship between Novels and Group Governance" said: Today, there are outlaws everywhere in China, Taoyuan worship every day, and Liangshan Alliance everywhere.
This is the sublimation of friendship, the freeze of interpersonal relationship, and runs through traditional culture. Two people are United, and their profits are broken. Words of one heart are as bad as blue. The ideological essence of Yi () is to unite scattered and complicated groups and individuals with a kinship of kinship and friendship, and form strong cohesion and centripetal force, so that they can resist foreign aggression and avoid bullying.
Li Zhi, a thinker in the Ming Dynasty, wrote a poem about paying a visit to Sanyi Temple in Taoyuan in Volume 5 of Continued Burning Books. As the poem goes, there is a need for gold to make friends, but not much gold is not deep. Who knows that Taoyuan has three meanings and gold cannot be combined?
The spirit of Taoyuan is like a rough jade wrapped in mud at the foot of Jingshan Mountain. When Bian He was held by the king of Chu, neither the king of Chu nor the jade worker knew its preciousness. The first time they saw a stone, Bian He's left foot was cut off, and the second time they saw a stone, Bian He's right foot was cut off. When Bian He cried at the foot of Jingshan Mountain for three days and three nights, his eyes left loyal and purplish blood, and he really found out that he was a real rare treasure-He Shibi.
True friendship is like this, a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and a friendship between villains is as happy as ever. Make friends with people who are affectionate, righteous and aboveboard, and perhaps have a straightforward temperament, and be brothers with different surnames. On weekdays, they may be ordinary and even have some quarrels. However, when they are in danger, they will step forward and do their best. As the saying goes, the wind knows the grass, and the board swings to know the loyal minister. And make friends with those who are insincere, hypocritical, sweet-talking and flattering all day. Although it looks loyal at ordinary times, good tea and good wine have made many brothers. Why have you ever met someone in a hurry?
In "The Warring States Policy Chu Ce I", it is said that those who pay with money will pay off if they run out of money; People who pay with color fall in love with Chongqing. "Ode to the Zheng Family in Historical Records" said: Those who are in power will be scarce.
There is another story in Historical Records. When Zhai Gong was Ting Wei, guests came to visit. And waste, you can set sparrows outside the door. Zhai Gong was reinstated as Ting Wei, and the guests wanted to go. Zhai Gong, the general manager, said: Friendship is not known until you die. Poverty and wealth are a state of knowing each other. One is expensive and the other is cheap, and friendship can be seen.
Friendship often shows its true value when it is most needed. The spiritual value of Taoyuan Jieyi lies in that although it is not the kinship brought by blood, its profound life and death are similar to * * *, and fate and happiness are similar to blood; Although it is only born out of ordinary friendship, its persistence in treating each other sincerely and till death do us part has already included all the definitions of friendship in the world.
Boccaccio, the pioneer and writer of the Italian Renaissance, said: Friendship is really the most sacred thing, which deserves not only special praise, but also eternal praise. It is the wisest mother of generosity and honor, the sister of gratitude and kindness, and the mortal enemy of hatred and greed; It is always ready to give up for others, and it is completely voluntary and does not need others to beg.
British philosopher Bacon said: People who have no sincere friends are really lonely.
Lebanese poet Ji Bolun said: Friendship is always a sweet responsibility, not an opportunity. May friendship have no other purpose than seeking the deepening of the soul.
Going in and out to be friends, watching each other and calling for their friendly voices are not only the sincere feelings that Chinese children are eagerly looking forward to, but also the true feelings that people all over the world cheer and expect. I hope sincere friendship and Taoyuan spirit can blossom and bear fruit all over the world. In that case, there will be less unnecessary deception, betrayal, bullying and bullying in the world, and only the best warmth, satisfaction, happiness and peace will be replaced. We love each other, know each other and be happy forever.
Qq sadness talks about friendship.
Qq Sad Talk about Dragon Friendship Selection
1. I also want warm love without ink.
2. Scratch your heart and liver as soon as you go to work. .
3. Every time I want to open Oreo, I don't break it with small strength, but with great strength.
4. Yes, that's right. I love exo and walk into life through life!
I finally know how hard it is to forget you.
6. I used to laugh at my parents as frogs in the well and didn't understand my ideal, but I didn't know that their ideal was to let me grow up well.
7. I should be a beauty, but time abruptly changed me.
8. Do you know what it's like to be in a different class with your best friend when school starts?
9. We didn't stop chatting all summer. I seldom surf the Internet after tomorrow. Will you get used to this sudden stop?
10. Sorry,
Qq sad talk about friendship encyclopedia
1.- Don't you understand? Are you so spineless? Interesting.
2.- I don't love you anymore Do you still love me ?
3.- I will wait slowly.
It suddenly occurred to me that I don't even have anyone to miss.
5. Wu Shengdong, I like you!
6. I still like those dazzling advertisements.
7. I don't know if it's right or wrong to meet you, but I know I'm glad to meet you.
8. I am alone
9. It is better to love than to be loved.
10. I will always remember that a respected handsome instructor gave me buttons.
1 1. Flower language of black rose: You are the devil, I own it!
12. Actually, I love the right person. Valentine's Day is celebrated every day!
13. Love is lonely because there is no opponent. . .
14. You always call my name by mistake!
15. I miss you at home during the holiday, and when I see you in my seat at school, my mind is full of-X.
16. [Gradually I can sleep peacefully without anyone's good night. ]
17. There are so many beautiful men in the world that I have never seen them in the street.
18. Today, we broke up with Xia, and we will start a new relationship with Xue.
19. The neighbor's children will live in our hearts forever.
20. Hu Bokai: Sometimes he looks at you and you suddenly know that he doesn't love you.
2 1. Love for the sea is too deep and time is too short!
22. Who can understand my heart?
23. If you are willing to peel my heart layer by layer, you will find that you will be surprised. You are my most repressed secret.
24. You are so beautiful, don't cry, that rose makes it wither.
25. I don't love it, I hate it, I'm tired of it, I know, I just want to hear your voice, even if what I said makes me feel very painful.
26. Bless me and Guo Ruiqi.
I don't want too much. I want someone to walk with me, someone who never leaves, someone who doesn't think my family is poor, and someone who will face difficulties with me.
28. We separated, and he began to have a stomachache again.
29. Eason Chan, he is very light!
We separated, and his stomach began to hurt again.
3 1. Maybe we really came to an end this time, and those unspoken thoughts turned into dark circles.
32. Go, Kai Ko! We have always supported you!
The first thing to prepare for school is not to finish homework, but to adjust the time difference.
I love you, Chen Xiao.
35. There are a thousand words in my heart, but no one can complain. I'm afraid everyone knows that she is here to appreciate each other.
36. Even if you say goodbye cruelly, I think your voice is beautiful.
Don't forget, I will be tired, too.
38. Do you remember meeting for the first time? I remember. I'm still thinking
I know, I'm not good enough
I know you don't love me. Forgive me for liking you for so long.
Let's talk about the sadness of fatigue: friendship that goes too far will turn to ashes. ...
1, I hope you can remember me when you leave. Don't ask whether the changeable world will remain tomorrow.
2, tired, unwilling to move forward, sentimental, no love to find. Unable to save the lost soul, you are the closest person to me, but you have given me the deepest harm. No matter how I imagine her beauty, it will eventually become the most painful time.
When you are tired, you will replace everything with silence. I, I won't ask, I won't mention, I'm sad, my heart is broken, I continue to walk alone, and silence replaces everything. I won't cry or laugh, and I will disappear when I am tired. I know, every road is so difficult. I know my road is doomed to be bumpy. I know, I can't force anyone.
4, perhaps, there are always some things that will stay in the deepest part of life, deep and shallow traces, carefully brushed, no longer feel pain. There is only one kind of numbness. Drinking coffee, the bitter taste, makes me slowly bitter to death.
5. Sad sentences about a tired heart, noisy horns on the road, noisy quarrels around, loud reading sound from school, and a pit of dissatisfaction with the world. I'm used to it
6. You floated into my heart and dominated my world. You make my world dark. Are you tired? Please leave if you are tired!
7. In life, mental fatigue is more than physical fatigue, mental fatigue is more important than physical fatigue, and mental fatigue is trapped in physical fatigue.
8. What makes me so confused? What makes me want to cry? The object that I don't need to listen to has lost the impulse to speak, only the sad heart is broken, and all my energy is quietly exhausted with time.
9. I won't ask, I won't mention, I'm very sad. When my heart aches, I always walk alone, replacing everything with silence.
10, unwilling, too far away, feeling too tired. When love becomes so barren, my heart has nowhere to belong.
1 1, I'm tired, and I want to have a rest. Please float out of my world slowly when I rest, float in the air, quietly disperse under the sunshine, take off all your colors, disperse all your looks, let me have a look at the colors of the sky, let the sunshine enter my world and warm my heart.
12, the worry in the heart is greater than death, and the fatigue is greater than mental fatigue. A person's greatest fatigue is mental fatigue.
13, don't tire yourself! You should learn to be optimistic, learn to look down, learn not to force, and learn to hide.
14. You can't change everything. What a depressing thing it is to do what you want and have what you want. Especially I can't change the people closest to me, how anxious I am, and everything is so helpless. ...
15, sad sentences about mental fatigue, many times, the past is impossible to miss. It's like losing a yellow photo, something that has been preserved for a long time, a withered memory. Reach out and catch nothing.
16, repeated confidence, repeated efforts, repeated losses, the so-called physical and mental exhaustion. ...
17, always sentimental, smiling with a trace of vicissitudes. Is it dull? Still yearning? Still a circle that goes on and on, I struggle in the middle, but I can't get to the end. ...
18, white clouds in the blue sky, that is a faint sadness in my heart; However, my mind is as clear as the sky, because I thought of meeting again soon.
19, parting is tearing at the friendship for many years. We are convinced that the distance between time and space can't stop the distance between hearts, but the blessings from afar can't replace hand in hand.
20, the heart is so tired, how can the scars of the soul be healed, and how can the tears in the corners of the eyes be dried? If you have more injuries and enough pain, your heart will not hurt, because you are numb; It's late at night, in the dark night, I always secretly wipe away the tears in my eyes.
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