My son is afraid of monsters, how to enlighten him?

About three weeks, and my 7-year-old son is still worried. Now he dare not mention the "monster" any more. At night, occasionally when no one is around, he will secretly open the shutters and look outside. I really don't know what's going on in his head.

He was happy every day three weeks ago. When he was hungry, he rummaged around for food. He ate all the bread, biscuits, coke and ham in a few days and searched the refrigerator. After every meal, he will order food and say that he will eat hairtail, roast duck and noodles tomorrow. If he has a good appetite, he is considered a glutton!

Now ask him, he eats nothing, barely eats a few mouthfuls of porridge, and always wakes up in the middle of the night and looks out the window, and the dark circles come out.

He is happy every day except eating and watching TV. Cherry keeps talking.

Cause: I woke up in the middle of the night and kept staring out the window. (I thought about it later. In fact, it was the same for a while before. I always looked out when I woke up in the middle of the night. This time, I woke up nervously and said, "Mom, there is a monster outside the window."

That's the shutter. It doesn't usually close completely. There is a big tree behind the window. You can see the trees and the moon through the cracks at night! I deliberately left some gaps to look out. Who knows what he saw?

I am sleepy and squinting. "Where is what? Nothing, you are wrong! "

The son said nervously, "Really! There are really monsters outside! "

I continued to comfort him. "No, it's a tree. The wind blows on the tree. No , you 're going the wrong way. It's the shadow of the tree. Go to sleep! " "

When my son saw that I didn't believe him, he ran to the next door to wake up his sleeping father and pulled him out of the window.

Of course, his father said no and told him to sleep. He lay beside me and shrank back. His hands are cold, his feet are cold, and he is shaking. He has never done this before. Later, I told his father to sleep with him for two days, and gradually enlightened him and stopped shaking. He was still afraid!

Then I changed rooms to sleep!

After this incident, I was afraid as soon as it got dark, and the whole person was on tenterhooks. At the slightest sign of trouble, I asked, "What's that noise?"

What annoys me most is that I don't eat rice.

I asked him, "Why do you keep looking out?"

He said, "I don't think you adults can see monsters, but I can see them, and I can really see them!" " "

I asked him what the monster looked like.

He said: "big hands, big feet, two mouths on both sides of the face!" " I've been watching it outside for fear that it will come in and eat us all. I'm watching it outside, so I'll call you if it comes in, because you can't see it! "

He also said, "I dare not say anything, but I was beaten by my father last night." His father slapped him in the face and told him not to say such things! )

I said, "It's okay, you can talk to mom again."

He cried and said, "I want to die."

Angry at me! I asked why I thought so.

He said: "I will die first, or be eaten by monsters." I don't want to be eaten by it, and I don't want you to be eaten by it It will eat all of us and our neighbors. I'm worried! I don't want to die! "

When I came back from school, I asked him how he brought a few lunches.

The son said, "Mom, I'm worried. Other children don't know, and I dare not tell them, for fear that they are as scared as I am! " "

We always told him that it was useless without monsters. Instead, I was more worried, so I changed my mind and chatted with my son.

He said, "We saw monsters when we were young, and many children have seen them. You can tell other children or teachers that they all know! " "

Still useless!

So we said, "That monster is good. It is to protect us and help the police uncle catch the bad guys. You see, if it is bad, it will eat us. "

He asked, "Is the monster all right?"

I said, "Yes, everyone has good and bad, and monsters also have good and bad, but its name is monster because it looks strange!" " "

He feels reasonable and relieved!

But I still ask me from time to time, "Mom, is that monster really good?" Is it really to protect me? "

Or, from time to time, looking out of the window, we said to him, "The monster is gone, and he has gone to other places to catch bad guys. Where has he gone to find his aunt!" "

And asked his aunt to call to cooperate with the acting.

The last time we said to him seriously and angrily, "If we don't eat or sleep, we will be angry and ready to hit you. Why don't mom and dad believe everything they say? Boys should be brave. How can you protect your mother and grandmother when you grow up like this? Even if there is a monster, you will kill it as soon as it comes out! "

Now, I'm not so scared at first, but I'm still worried. From time to time, I ask, "Mom, is the monster really gone?"

I have no good appetite either. I love to eat or not!

I discussed it with his father,

If he keeps pestering like this, he will be timid and we will use force. Either soft or hard!

Next, let's see his performance and observe it for a few more days!

In fact, he was so worried when he was 6 years old.

One night, I saw him unhappy and asked him what was wrong.

He said gloomily, "Mom, I'm worried?"

I asked, "What are you worried about?"

"Will the earth explode?"

During that time, he has been watching the video of the galaxy universe, knowing the origin of the nine planets and the earth, and knowing that a star will hit the earth in the future. He knows that the moon is made up of those fragments after the explosion of the earth.

So, he is worried that if another star hits the earth, the earth will explode again!

I said no, isn't there a huge Jupiter in front of the earth? And the moon will protect the earth!

He doesn't trust, but he will still fight!

So his father said, "Fool, it flew here a long time ago. It flew out from the side and did not hit the earth. "

The son took a long breath and said, "Dad explained it to me earlier, so I won't worry!" " "Finally sleep at ease!

I really don't understand what this little brain is thinking day by day.