How can we have noble people to help us in life?

Marry first when you meet a lover, and make a career first when you meet a noble person. Self-reliance has no nobles, and self-cultivation has no lovers.

It means that if you meet the right person, you can get married first, and if you meet a good master, you can work hard and achieve something. If you don't encounter misfortune, try to improve your value first.

Noble people, later generations regard it as a title for those who have helped themselves. If you can meet someone who helps you at some stage in your life, it means that things will go smoothly, and many seemingly difficult things will be solved, even emergencies can be handled well.

They can not only help us materially or spiritually, but also help us clear the immediate obstacles to a certain extent, and influence and change our lives subtly.

So the ancients thought that such an opportunity would never come again. Once you encounter it, you must firmly grasp it and never miss it. At this time, getting married can be put behind, starting a business first and then getting married.

In fact, this sentence also tells people what to do when. For example, many people want to work to earn money during school and go to school when they go to work. They always want to get married before marriage and want to go out to play after marriage, and they are always dissatisfied with the status quo.

In fact, life is about doing what you should do. For example, study hard at school, work hard at work, and manage your marriage after marriage. Don't wait until you lose it to regret it. You know, everything you can catch in front of you belongs to you. Who can be sure what will happen next?

Therefore, the phrase "marry first when you meet a lover, and make a career first when you meet a noble person" is also a warning to people to do what they can catch at present first and talk about it later. Don't lose the watermelon to catch sesame seeds, and turn to it. You can only regret it.