What did your parents do in your life to make you feel desperate?

I think what parents do will make children feel desperate! I want to say that everyone will feel the same way, that is, some parents will always or unconsciously compare their children with other children, so that the superior children will be arrogant, but for some children who are slightly behind, it will be a great blow.

Some parents will expose their children's shortcomings in front of relatives and friends, euphemistically calling them "self-modesty" or praising the advantages of other children, which means "motivation".

I still remember my cousin. When I was young, we went out to play together. She likes singing very much. After being laughed at by her mother as ugly as a duck, she didn't want to sing any more. Many of my friends had a period of self-abandonment, all because my parents scolded me, "You see, people have good grades and are polite, which point can be compared with others!"

"Incentive" based on comparison is always helpful. Do parents love their children? There is no doubt that it is love. Is all love that doesn't know respect really good for children? Respect is not only the law of society, but also the law of family. What kind of parents do children want? I think one thing is very important: always stand on the side of children.

Have you seen the movie Dog Thirteen? Li Wanduo hopes that her father can stand on her side and help her say "children love dogs and don't eat dog meat", so as to be loyal to her "don't eat if you don't want to eat". What we respect and defend is the fun-filled life of children.

When I was a child, I was held by my parents and compared with my neighbor's children. I feel that I have no motivation, getting worse and worse. I don't know why, and I feel very unhappy. I just hope parents and children can understand each other!