"Daughter, you go to work and ask your sister-in-law to resign to serve me." What will you do if your mother-in-law makes trouble without reason?

Most mother-in-law said to their daughter-in-law, "I will feel sorry for you as my own daughter." In fact, that's what my mother-in-law said, which may feel particularly fake. As for the daughter-in-law, who will take the high-sounding words of her mother-in-law to heart? Calling her "mom" is similar to calling her "waiter" in a restaurant.

If one day, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law really get along like mother and daughter, then this title really conforms to the relationship between mother and daughter. However, almost all daughter-in-law are not so lucky. Her mother-in-law will always be her mother-in-law and her mother-in-law will never be her mother.

In the eyes of her mother-in-law, a daughter-in-law is just like a nanny who doesn't spend money. She must take care of the whole family and carry on the family line. The saddest thing is that the daughter-in-law not only can't get a penny's salary, but may also post it backwards.

Obviously, my mother-in-law was not satisfied with the result of posting, so she made waves and made much ado about nothing until her son divorced her daughter-in-law. Is this really what my mother-in-law wants to see?

Husband is Wan Qian's first love. She used to feel lucky and got married at her first love. Many friends around me envy Wan Qian's happiness. They only love one person's feelings all their lives. Who doesn't envy him?

After marriage, Wan Qian lived with her mother-in-law and sister-in-law. As long as she can be with her husband, she doesn't mind. On the contrary, she feels that having one more family member is a kind of stimulation. Wan Qian and her sister-in-law are about the same age and get along well, just like sisters. On the contrary, the mother-in-law thinks that the daughter-in-law has many problems, even if they are all problems.

When the mother-in-law treats her daughter-in-law and daughter, she is completely double-marked. Daughters can eat snacks at any time, but they can't eat their daughters-in-law. So, when Wan Qian wants to eat potato chips and drink milk tea, he either eats outside and then goes home, or hides in her sister-in-law's room to eat together.

In terms of housework, the mother-in-law always asks her daughter-in-law to do it, and her son and daughter can sit on the sofa watching TV and playing games. After supper, Wan Qian must wash the dishes, wipe the floor and wash clothes.

Once my daughter couldn't stand it anymore and said to her mother, "Mom, if one day I meet a mother-in-law like you, do you think I should resist?" Mom's answer is, "What does every child know?"

Wan Qian fell in love with her husband and lived in harmony with her sister-in-law. In the face of her mother-in-law's occasional difficulties, she will not take it to heart. Unexpectedly, my mother-in-law's condition is getting worse and worse. Knowing that Wan Qian's position and salary have gone up, her mother-in-law's first thought is to "kidnap" her daughter-in-law's salary card.

She said she would keep it for the young couple, for fear that they would spend money indiscriminately. Actually, my mother-in-law wants to save some dowry for her daughter. Wan Qian disagreed, and her mother-in-law stayed at home for a few days.

Before long, her mother-in-law forced Wan Qian to have a baby, and it must be a boy. Wan Qian said: "Mom, when I was promoted, I promised my leader that I could not get pregnant within two years."

Mother-in-law's voice suddenly increased several degrees. "What did you say? Have you ever thought about what it's like for me to have no children for two years? Did you ask my permission? If it takes two years and then two years, can the fragrance of our family continue? " This time, Wan Qian couldn't stand it any longer. She packed her things and went back to her family.

But two days later, Wan Qian heard that her mother-in-law was hospitalized because of high blood pressure. Wan Qian discussed with her husband and sister-in-law and didn't know how to solve the present predicament. Finally, I adopted my sister-in-law's coup.

When her sister-in-law went to the hospital to take care of her mother, her mother said, "Daughter, go to work and let your sister-in-law resign to serve me. So that after I leave the hospital, she can have a baby earlier. "

Sister-in-law said, "Mom, my brother is divorced, and our good days are over." Mother heard this sentence and immediately sat up from the hospital bed. "What, why didn't you tell me about the divorce?" ? Oh, it's all my fault. I have nothing to pretend to be sick. Daughter, go through the discharge formalities for me quickly. They can't divorce. "The nephew is not in a hurry." Leave. Anyway, you don't like my sister-in-law. Let my brother find a new sister-in-law. "

Mother said, "What do you know? Wan Qian is so good. She cleaned the house inside and out. She is good to your brother, good to you, and has no complaints about me. Where can such a daughter-in-law be found? " When my sister-in-law heard her mother say this, she knew that she would never be embarrassed by her sister-in-law again. And this result is exactly what they want.

I think: it is said that you can only cherish it if you lose it. It turns out that this principle also applies to mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. In fact, most mothers-in-law are like a mirror in their hearts, knowing that their daughter-in-law is good and that they sometimes just make waves without smoke, but they just enjoy this feeling. It seems that this relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is more interesting, and the future life is more interesting.

If one day, the son and daughter-in-law divorce, the mother-in-law will realize that her previous behavior has gone too far at the moment of loss. So most people will try their best to save their daughter-in-law.

If I had known earlier, why did I do it today? If the mother-in-law had known earlier what her actions would bring to her son's marriage, she might not have done so.

Mothers-in-law always have to go through this experience before they can learn to "stand by and watch." After the son gets married, the mother-in-law will learn to take a back seat and let the young couple live by themselves.

As for my mother-in-law, if she has nothing to do, wouldn't it be much easier to have a small life by dancing in square dance and playing mahjong? The most basic principle for a mother to make her son happy in marriage is to stay away from her daughter-in-law.