Should couples have their own privacy?

I think there should be proper privacy. Let me talk about my reasons.

Do couples need their own privacy? It can only be said that proper privacy can enhance the feelings between husband and wife, but if the privacy space is too large, it is not necessarily a good thing! This is a question of "degree", and this "degree" is not something that ordinary people can grasp well. Now that we are married, husband and wife are the closest relatives! The word "close" cannot be unfamiliar because of privacy! If couples can be honest with each other, a little privacy is ok. But few people can do it at present!

Frankly speaking, marriage is complicated. Many people's marriages are not as simple as you think, not as simple as you think! Don't believe those self-righteous chicken soup, it's all a lie! In modern marriage, "trust" is becoming more and more fragile! And privacy may destroy the trust between husband and wife!

Around us, most couples are suspicious of each other because they cannot be "transparent" to each other. Sometimes a little doubt can become a fuse to hurt feelings and even lead to divorce. A husband rummaged through his wife's mobile phone, which eventually led to divorce. If this wife is open-minded, how can she arouse her husband's suspicion? If nothing is found on my husband's mobile phone, how can I get a divorce?

To be sure, many couples around us have become selfish because they are "too private"! Many people are doing things that hurt marriage quietly under the guise of "privacy". For example, having an affair with others, such as cheating, such as extramarital affairs!

Those extramarital affairs that can be seen everywhere are actually a "privacy" phenomenon. What many people call private space is actually a space for some people to communicate quietly with their lovers! This phenomenon is more and more, some people cheat, being a good father or mother at home, but being someone else's lover outside! Perhaps the other half has discovered the abnormality, but the person who always cheats on the affair uses privacy reasons to prevaricate and has no comment. By the time it can't be hidden, marriage has missed the golden period of the best recovery!

In other words, you must admit that a lot of privacy will delay the future of marriage! For example, many people think that their lover loves them very much, but they are dumbfounded when his lover suddenly asks for a divorce. It turns out that his lover already has a lover. How pathetic! More and more people have realized this problem, and the more privacy in marriage, the better. Sometimes, the privacy that your partner repeatedly emphasizes may be the fact that it hurts your marriage!