How to overcome the feeling of being pregnant with Erbao and sorry for Dabao?

Pay more attention to Dabao, and treat it fairly. Both Erbao and Dabao should have it.

Take a different attitude, Bao Ma. From now on, we should guide Dabao and tell him that another child will come and love each other in the future. Mom's emotional attitude will affect the two children. If you are positive, the whole family will develop in the direction of sunshine. If you feel guilty, Dabao will feel this unbalanced emotion, and he will conform to your guilt and stick to you more and more, making you feel more guilty.

One of my classmates is in the same situation as you. The boss is over two years old. She said that she and her husband are better for the boss with the second child. In fact, I don't think you need to feel indebted. You are looking for a companion for the boss. Think about how happy she will be when you get old and have a close relative in this world.

Although the boss is very young, you should always talk to the boss and tell her that this is her brother or sister, so that she can like this brother and sister.

In fact, our mood is very important. At the beginning of pregnancy, I was ambivalent. I felt that if I had another child, I wouldn't give all my heart to the boss, and sometimes I would cry. My husband called me crazy, and slowly, I moved on. I love both children, and they will protect each other when they grow up. My husband and I will take care of each other when we are old. Now it's nothing to be tired.

I was at first, too. I was afraid that when Erbao came out, Dabao would think that I didn't want her. Since I was pregnant, she has been more attached to me, which will make me feel this way. Since birth, our mother and daughter have been together every day, and both of us are dependent on each other.

Therefore, during the period when you are pregnant with Erbao, you must enlighten Dabao and tell her/him that your younger brother and sister are the ones who will accompany you in this world instead of mom and dad in the future. You must treat him/her well and take care of Dabao's emotions during the period when you are pregnant with Erbao.