What you said was routine, but I took it seriously.

The furthest distance between people is not that you are in Shanghai and I am in Tokyo, but that what you say is routine, but that I am true.

I have a heart-to-heart relationship with you, and you have taught me routines, but the routines that don't take the heart will eventually distract people.

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Last summer vacation, I went to Beijing for training under the arrangement of the school and got to know Xiao. Two people met in the qq group, but it was rare to hit it off, and they really hit it off. Xiao Dan is a self-invited girl, and Xiao Xi's enthusiasm is bright and clear, which makes them become friends soon. During those days in Beijing, two girls had classes together, went out to play together, chatted together, helped each other and talked about everything.

After the training, the two became online friends, but they still had a good chat. Xiao Dan wants to go to Hangzhou directly. Xiao Xi offered to entertain Xiao Dan. I thought Xiao Xi was just talking. Who knows, Xiao actually booked a hotel. At that time, Xiao Dan was really moved, but he was not a person who took advantage of his friends. He tried to transfer the money to Xiao, but Xiao refused again and again. Naturally, Xiao Dan didn't want to refute his friend's face, so he didn't transfer the money.

"I later learned that people only said polite words, and the reason why they treated me so harshly was purposeful." On the day he first arrived in Hangzhou, Xiao Xi asked Xiao Dan about the French course. Xiao Dan didn't think much, saying that the course he bought was very good, and Xiao Xi just wanted to learn. At that time, Xiao Dan said without thinking, everyone can learn from each other, communicate with each other, and members can use it together. During those days in Hangzhou, Xiaoxi was really considerate, taking Xiao Dan to eat, drink and be merry, and insisted on treating himself. Xiao Dan couldn't help it several times, and he kept this feeling in mind.

"I always thought we were very good friends. It turns out that what people say is just a routine, but I am true. " But things are far from as simple as Xiao Dan thought. "The night I came back from Hangzhou, she found me on WeChat and asked me for an account. Because my cell phone just died, I thought I'd go back later and take a shower first. As a result, guess what happened? "

"I came out of the shower and received a lost message on my mobile phone, which was full of abuse. I quickly explained that my mobile phone was dead just now, and I sent the account password at the first time. The other party didn't listen at all, and said it was just a test. Sure enough, what? In short, I can't believe what happened in front of me after saying so many ugly words. "

"I suddenly realized that people never thought I was a friend. Some words are just words. I immediately gave her Alipay money. When I want to say something, I find that the other party has hacked myself, and at the same time, it is insulting and slandering in the circle of friends. I was really cold at that time. Think about it, too. We haven't known each other long. It makes sense not to say anything. This time, I was wrong, but I was too simple. "

From then on, Xiao Dan no longer used other people's language to judge. She is afraid that she will fall into the trap of language.

I have known Xiao Dan for a long time. She has always been a good girl and has a good popularity. She is never greedy for a penny from her friends. We all went out with AA, and she was wrong about it. The mistake is that she talked to each other too early from the beginning. Or the students' thoughts are too simple, which makes them fall into other people's routines. But the little sunrise really didn't mean it. A true friend will never be hacked if he doesn't agree, but will pretend to be innocent in his circle of friends. This scheming bitch doesn't pay.

In this relationship, one person is communicating with routines, and one person believes in the so-called routines. This is that two people are on different tracks from the beginning and are doomed to be unable to intersect. Getting carried away in the Jianghu is the best ending.

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The older generation always tells us that men's sweet words are poison. Whether a person is sincere or not depends not on what he said, but on what he did. Some men are full of routines, girl, don't take it too seriously.

Xiao Xin and Mr w met at a friend's wedding. "In fact, at first, I didn't like him, but getting along bit by bit made me a little tempted. He is too good at chatting and picking up girls. Every sentence is just right. In the WeChat conversation, he chats and sings, and friends circle likes, comments, seconds, and various concerns, you know. "

"He will say, you are an exception in his object. Couples will watch movies, play games, give gifts and other dates, but they will not break paper. I really fell at that time, thinking that he didn't take the initiative, and then he would say that he only regarded me as a friend, but I misunderstood. "

Xiaoxin realized that everyone might be casting a net, just saying. The biggest misunderstanding in this world should be that you used routines and I used my heart. Those so-called love words are just talk, don't take them seriously easily.

People who really like you are not just talking. He will appear in time when you need him, and will give you a sense of security. Confession has always been done by men, as long as he really likes you. Men who like you may use routines, but they will also hand over their sincerity, while those men who just talk will only talk but not do it. For him, you are dispensable and instantly forgotten. After all, in his eyes, you really don't matter at all.

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Routines have won people's hearts since ancient times, but only routines can't keep people's hearts. If I use more routines, I'm afraid even I'm in a trance.

Chen Xiao and Xiao Li are college classmates with similar interests, and they will stay in D City together after graduation. In the company, two people work together, go out for an interview together, and are inseparable on weekdays. In the eyes of others, they are an enviable couple. For a long time, Xiaoli has been hinting at Chen Xiao, but Chen Xiao never accepted it. At first Xiaoli thought he didn't understand. Until one time, Xiaoli overheard Chen Xiao's refusal to admit this relationship in front of other colleagues, which completely chilled her. At the right moment, the leader sent Xiaoli abroad for training, and Xiaoli left without looking back.

A few days after Xiaoli left, Chen Xiao knew about it and had some regrets. You never know regret until you lose it. It turns out that I have been doing the routine for a long time, and I am serious. I thought I had a deep routine, but I was badly beaten by my own routine. Hurt others and missed happiness.

Remember, no matter how much you like a woman, she can't be willing to be ambiguous with you forever, and no matter how deep the routine is, she can't keep her heart.

May the world be less routine and more sincere.