Seven tyrants said: Is the wedding really necessary?

This talk show variety show has been running from the first season to the fourth season.

Every time I watch a program, I feel that my world view will be subverted. Why is this special? !

In the past, Ma Dongdong was in charge of the overall situation, and you never knew what his next words would be. Every time I feel that his summary is very reasonable, advertising implantation comes. (Spread hands and face)

This season, Xu's "Three Visits to the Cottage" was hosted by He Jiong. At first, I thought it was a bit inappropriate for He Jiong to host The Story of Chipa. After all, in my eyes, He Laoshi is still a pure gardenia, but the story of Qipa is too "dirty"!

Let's start with the program itself. This is a debate program. The topic of each issue is called intimate, and you can definitely argue in your heart.

The "exotic flowers" of both sides, especially the old exotic flowers, are "dirty" in their exports. At this time, you will find that I am speechless!

If you think too slowly and can't keep up with their rhythm, every time you stand up and explain your point of view, you will fall down like a swing, feeling completely indecisive. (covering his face and laughing)

Let's talk about the latest issue of the debate competition, which makes me quite touched (in fact, every issue makes me feel a lot).

? Is a wedding really necessary?

First, I asked myself about this debate. I feel that I belong to neutrality.

I summed up the viewpoint of Wonderful Flowers. Come on, let me show you the upside-down atmosphere.

The positive view is that weddings are necessary;

When I was young, all the girls had a bride dream. Do you remember why you put your mother's scarf on your head?

We want a wedding. When a father gives his daughter's hand to another man's, it is a kind of trust and commitment.

The opposing party thinks that the wedding is unnecessary, and most of them are defeated by reality.

The opposing party argues that the wedding is like a large, embarrassing, absurd, contradictory and complacent private temple fair. One day, I participated in "Crosstalk Sketch" and "Quyi Acrobatics".

I think this is a very appropriate summary of the wedding!

Then both sides argued that the wedding was for parents to see, in order to reassure parents.

I want to say that the reality is true. Many parents always say that. If I can't see you enter the marriage hall, I won't be at ease.

Therefore, the wedding is also for those who come to bless.

The day before yesterday, a colleague posted his wedding photo in a circle of friends, and wrote, I have come to receive my blessing ~ and then there is a happy wedding blessing at the bottom. I think her heart is joyful and happy at the moment.

Wedding is a kind of ceremony, and this dreamy ceremony can bring romance, so as to resist the skinny feeling of reality. Weddings are Disney of love.

Opposing arguments always break this romance. At the wedding, you are the protagonist, but in the eyes of someone who doesn't really care about you, you will never be the protagonist.

We have attended many weddings since childhood. Think about it. How many weddings have you really attended? It is really rare, because she/he is not the protagonist in your eyes.

Everyone knows that there is another custom in modern weddings, the gift money. I have to say that the problem of etiquette has really affected the values of the previous generation. Then we are bound by all kinds of rules and customs.

How many "outside news" reports that on the eve of someone's wedding, two families broke up because of the amount of gift money, and the final result was not to get married.

Grasping this point, experts in the three debates say that marriage actually requires more courage than wedding.

Everything is difficult at the beginning, and this is only the first step.

What woman doesn't want romance? Don't want a romantic wedding? There's no comparison at all? In today's words, I want to do it.

The man's promise is to give her a grand wedding and then accompany her to death.

The opposing sides disagree. We want to have a wedding because the environment the day after tomorrow tells us how important it is. All we have to do is learn to break this stereotype. Let the ending of the story end in diversity.

Why did they get married and live happily together after the prince kissed Snow White? The prince kissed the sleeping beauty and they lived happily together? Used in modern society, shouldn't you slap him in the face and call him a hooligan after being awakened by a kiss?

In fact, I think the reason why the two princes were not slapped after kissing the princess was because the princess had just woken up from a big sleep and had no strength. When she had the strength, she found that the prince was too handsome to do it. ......

My favorite part is the tutor's argument. There are four mentors this season. Every time I like to listen to Mr. Cai Kangyong's summary, he speaks very gently and tells you the truth gently.

Teacher Quan Ling, the other tutor, argued that she didn't have a wedding. She thinks that marriage needs our own sense of ceremony, and the wedding is worth remembering because it is sweet. The daily experience of the ceremony is more important than the performance at the wedding. Marriage is not beautiful, and it is useless to have a beautiful wedding. So the daily sweetness can replace the sense of ceremony of the wedding.

Teacher Ma Dong retorted in the conclusion that we can't refuse to hold a wedding just because this marriage is not good in the future, lest we think it is not worth remembering. After all, we don't know what will happen in the future, so this sense of ceremony is necessary.

Why did Huang Lei have two weddings? I think this is a sign of a man's commitment. Wedding is a node in our life, and we use this ceremony to remember our life. Commemorate marriage with ceremony; Witness our love with ceremony.

I am neutral about this debate because I want a wedding and I hate it.

I want to have a wedding, because I think it's a promise of two people. It's a love that my parents agree and your parents don't object to. I just want to announce to the world.

I like western church weddings, but I don't like western wedding vows. Because I don't think it's important. What's important is that even if it really comes to the day of birth, illness and death, the people around you will still be you.

What kind of fool would say no on the wedding vows that day?

Western-style wedding is very simple, and only those who sincerely wish you are present to witness your love, so this is also the reason why I don't like to have a wedding.

There are too many customs and rules for weddings in China. Not just on the wedding day.

Smile at many strangers, some of whom have never even met. They are angry, but keep smiling.

So I like traveling and getting married. After the wedding, I will go with my partner ~

My family is conservative, but I am an exception. So I think my future wedding must be a protracted war.

Finally, is the wedding really necessary? Ask your heart, what does this ceremony mean to you?

As long as you love the right person, Valentine's Day will be celebrated every day. I hope you can do the same.