How to find yourself again?

Only those who can truly find themselves, grasp themselves, and know what kind of person they are can find themselves. For example, I am a boy, and I must bear the burden of the family; I am a girl, and I am no longer a child. If I do something wrong, I must bear it painfully, and it will be fine if I can correct it.

Master hopes that you will get rid of your greed, guard your ordinary heart, open a door in your heart, let your true conscience come out, and let others feel your compassion and kindness. This way your hearts will not turn back. When you treat all sentient beings with conscience and compassion, your heart will not be reversed. Therefore, cultivating the mind is very difficult, too difficult, and extremely rare. Don't think you have troubles, just shave your head and go to the mountain to become a nun or a monk. Master tells you, that will make you even more troubled. If you don't have a thorough enlightenment, you will be even more troubled. Do you understand?

Master teaches everyone to understand that since we have begun cultivation, we must face the reality of the world and find ourselves. I didn't understand things in the past and followed my own destiny. These three years were good, these three years were bad, these three years were terrible, and these three years were very subtle. Now that you have found this path, if you are not diligent yet, then Just asking for trouble. Because you are already on the path of troubles in the human world, you must find a way to get rid of troubles; you have found this way through practicing Buddhism today, and you must move forward bravely and diligently. Anyone who is afraid of facing difficulties is a coward. Are those who are afraid of trouble a coward? We have reached such a painful place in humanity, and we must face it, solve it, help ourselves, and help all sentient beings. It’s been so hard, can you escape? Family conflicts have arisen. Can we escape?

After Master spoke to the scheduled audience today, Master couldn’t hold it in any longer. Master said, “Didn’t the divorce of your parents cause enough harm to you?” When he heard this, He was so stupid, how could he tell Master these things? Master sees it. All of these are what we should have in our lives. How do we keep parents from getting divorced? Even if we ourselves suffer, how can we protect our parents? This is what we need to cultivate and learn.

So don’t just take care of yourself. Just taking care of yourself is practicing Hinayana Buddhism. We also need to consider our brothers, sisters, parents, grandparents, and then in this family, your position of enlightenment will be achieved. Many children are very selfish and only care about themselves throughout their lives, regardless of their brothers and sisters, or their parents; but there are also many children who have known since they were young that they should take care of their parents and brothers and sisters, just like a mother at home. What is this? This is the realm. A person who is afraid of trouble, can he avoid these things? Still have to face it. Only those who can truly find themselves, grasp themselves, and know what kind of person they are can find themselves. For example, I am a boy, and I must bear the burden of the family; I am a girl, and I am no longer a child. If I do something wrong, I must bear it painfully, and it will be fine if I can correct it.

In this life, we must find the true purpose of coming to this world. We must know that the true purpose of coming to this world is to liberate ourselves. If we are still crying, crying, sad, and sad in this world, can you be liberated? You have no liberation, you are suffering one after another. People who cannot understand are suffering, and greed is suffering, but there is no liberation.

Master hopes that you will understand that human life will eventually end, but you must be worthy of yourself, your parents, all living beings, and be worthy of yourself. We often say something like, what have we been busy with in this life? You made other people's money, you harmed their wisdom life, you deceived them, you got some benefits - you harmed your wisdom life! When the day comes to an end, you will be punished, so do everything with your conscience.

Everyone must understand that when we face everything in this world, we always have to think and think about everything in the world. If we have it, aren’t these all temporary? Your house, your money, your children, your parents... everything you own is temporary, don't you understand? In fact, we do not own it. Temporary things cannot become possessions. Therefore, all possessions in the world are temporary. Enemies can become lovers, and lovers can become enemies or enemies. Therefore, if we cannot even control our own destiny in this life, we cannot escape from pain, and we end our lives miserably in the end, then our life will be in vain.

What Master tells you are all principles of the human world. You can think about these principles for yourself, right? We should no longer let individuals in life end so simply and hastily; our hearts can no longer worry about those enemies and lovers in the world. In fact, these are meaningless. Therefore, whoever we have loved or hated in this world, with the loss of our lives, nothing exists and it is meaningless. What are you doing at your lover's house? Why do you hate others? Whatever you like or hate, this is fundamental wisdom.

What is fundamental wisdom? That is to say, if a person is wise, he can temporarily be a little wise and smart, right? Fundamental wisdom means that I have completely understood this world, completely seen through, seen through, and seen through. I know that everything in this world is fake and cannot stay in my heart for a long time. things, then you will slowly obtain the fundamental wisdom, which is the wisdom that people should possess after understanding the fundamentals. Master hopes that when you help others, you can speak out these Buddhist principles and Dharma.

"All conditioned Dharma" means that as long as you think it is something in the Dharma Realm, this world is all a dream. In other words, everything you think exists is actually empty. You think that if you have a child, if you die, the child will no longer be yours and will never be seen or seen; you think that you have lunch today, but after lunch, you will be gone; you think that your life will be gone today. You can live in this world forever, but at a certain time, your life will pass away. Therefore, all conditioned dharma in the world is like a dream. You should study hard and listen well.

Next, Master will tell you that doing good deeds does help all sentient beings, brings happiness and helps others get rid of pain. Understand that when you are helping others, you get great joy. You kids, how many people have you helped? What happiness do you get? When someone gives you soup, soup, and water, do you think they are just for you to drink? When someone makes merit and brings it to everyone to eat, his heart is filled with Dharma joy, and he gains merit. But you who eat other people's food, if you don't do much to help others, you lose merit. To give a simple example, a person with merit is equivalent to having money to treat you to a meal in a restaurant. The money he gives is his merit. You help him eat a lot of things, but the food he makes is merit. If you go there today It's free. You haven't helped others. They've given it to you. Let's talk about it. Is it good for you? The other person is very happy because he gave you something to eat, and you eat the other person’s food. Do you feel ashamed in your heart? There has been a saying in China since ancient times, "No merit will be rewarded without merit". When you use your merit, you do not pay any merit. As time goes by, you will slowly lose your merit.

Only those with a grateful heart can learn Buddhism. You young people just throw things away after eating, don't wipe the table clean, and don't even wash the dishes. Self-discipline is required. People who follow Buddhism must know self-discipline. Therefore, helping others means being happy, making yourself happy, and helping others escape from pain. To give a simple example, this person has a very painful shoulder. If you explain it to him at the side, rub it here, apply a plaster, and drink more water at night, if you explain it to him, he will get rid of a lot of pain. After you finish speaking, people will look at you with very grateful eyes, and you will be blessed and rewarded.

Do you want to help others be happy? Of course you are happy, but more importantly, you must help them find the reason for their happiness. What is Le Yin? It is the cause and condition of happiness. Instead of helping him solve a small problem, you have to help him solve the cause of happiness, which is the cause of happiness. Today he is old and says he is afraid of death. Master helped him find the cause of happiness. As long as he continues to let go, study Buddhism and chant sutras, and be in good health, Bodhisattva will definitely let him live longer and gain eternal life. Once he has obtained this cause of happiness, he knows that as long as he releases his life, as long as he chants sutras and practices Buddhism, and as long as he is a good person, he will live a long life. This is because you helped him find the cause of happiness, and he will always be happy. Thinking about you, you are too impatient to answer the phone. You are really terrible.

You help him find the cause of happiness, and you help him get rid of the cause of suffering. What does it mean to be free from the causes of suffering? Why is he so miserable now? If he can't figure it out, you have to tell him not to be afraid of suffering. This is the cause of his suffering in his previous life. Once he figures it out, he won't be suffering anymore. Isn’t this how Master helps people? Although you can't see his past life, you can tell him this truth. Master can see his past life, and his words will be more powerful, but you can also say: You must remember that the suffering you suffer in this life is the result of your previous lives. If she makes such a fuss with you in this life, you must have owed her something from your previous life. You helped him find the cause of his suffering, wouldn't he be happy too? Doesn't he feel pain?

When we had toothache when we were young, our parents took advantage of the toothache to teach us, "You must brush your teeth. If you don't brush your teeth, your teeth will hurt." Doesn't it hurt a lot now? What to do? When he is in pain, he will do whatever you ask him to do. At that time, our parents told us to hold warm water in our mouths, put some salt in it, drink it with a slurp, then take another sip of salt water, slurp it with it and drink it again. Only when you are in pain will you do whatever He asks you to do. We humans only change ourselves when we are in distress and pain. It's not a bad thing to let yourself suffer a little and suffer a little, do you understand? Only through suffering can you find happiness. How can you find happiness if you don't suffer?

So, we need to help everyone find the causes of happiness and suffering, so that he can change his own destiny, let suffering leave forever, and let his happy heart stay in his heart forever. When I quarrel with my husband, I will think: I owe him this in my previous life. It was the cause of my past life and I will suffer the consequences in this life. If you think about it this way, there will be no more quarrels. Two days later there was another quarrel. Think about it: Why are the quarrels so frequent? Why was I such a bad person in my previous life? You will always condemn yourself, and you will never leave a regretful heart. Once you have this cause, you won’t create this effect, and you won’t quarrel with others anymore. Do you understand? You are so miserable today, your housing is so poor, and you have no money. Many people now understand, why are they poor in this life? That is because he did not do good deeds in his previous life, and he did not know how to give in his previous life. This is a vicious cycle.

You must know how to change yourself and keep happiness in your heart forever. Only by understanding the truth can you keep happiness in your heart forever. If I understand the truth today, I can be happy forever; if I don’t understand the truth, I will never be happy.

Gong Lu Understand the causes of suffering and the causes of happiness