The couple who chose Dink 20 years ago, can you tell us about the present situation of the people who are preparing Dink?

In primitive society, the attribute of marriage is reproduction. With the development of society and the acceleration of human civilization, although the present marriage also has the purpose of reproduction, this attribute has been gradually weakened, so that some anthropologists abroad predict that the marriage system may die out in hundreds of years.

No one can see what happened hundreds of years later. There is no denying that some couples have given up the idea of having children after marriage and just want to be alone.

No matter what the reason, ideological fashion, or not wanting to take the responsibility of raising children, this is their choice and should be respected. As long as they live happily, isn't it a way of life?

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How are the couples who chose Dink 20 years ago doing now? An experienced person tells his life state, and he says he has no regrets at all.

One of my friends is the Dink family. Married for 20 years, still no children. In fact, I've always been curious about their lives.

One day, my computer broke down. Because this friend is proficient in computers, I naturally thought of looking for him. I can't make it clear on the phone, but my friend said video calling would be fine. It's already evening. My friend has just finished dinner and is watching TV with his wife.

While discussing the plot with my wife, my friend told me about the computer and asked me to follow his steps. Although I can't see the picture, I really feel deeply when I hear two people talking and laughing from the heart.

Two people who are almost 50 years old, and their feelings are still so good, which is really enviable. Think of a few friends around him his age. Separated from his wife, those who don't talk don't talk. Their feelings are very painful. Compared with my friend, it's really a world of difference.

At first, I was surprised when my friend told me that he wanted to live Dink's life. I asked him if he had thought it over. Do parents and father-in-law agree? My friend told me that he had discussed it with his wife, but the family certainly didn't want to.

However, this is their life, and they want to make their own decisions. I thought my friend was just impulsive and thought, don't shut up. Two years later, when we all have children and enjoy the fun of a family of three, you will be jealous. Who knows, after all these years, he really lived the life of Dink.

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In order to thank him for helping me solve the computer problem, I invited him to dinner on the third day. At lunch, he asked me, are all my children in high school now? I said yes, if you had children, you would be in high school now. Regret it? He smiled and asked me, what do you regret? My life is not much different from yours, except that I lost a child.

Having children is fun, but it also has many troubles. Having no children doesn't mean having no happiness. What he said left me speechless. It is not unreasonable to think about what he said.

Because there are no children, the economy is much better, and the feelings together are getting better and better. "Every day is like falling in love", a friend summed up his life in these years. He told me that it is said that raising children to prevent old age, but now children can't take care of themselves, and it is good to be old in the future. What can we expect to support the elderly?

Because there are no children, he and his wife cherish their feelings together more. They know that when they get old, only husband and wife will be together. Although there is no family happiness for children, it is also a kind of happiness to live forever. I have to say that my friend has lived the true meaning of life.

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I also have a colleague who is also a Dink family. The couple have no children and have a puppy with them. Because I live in a community, I often see two people walking their dogs together at night and watching them talking and laughing. Who can say that their life is not good?

Some people say that children are the crystallization of love and the bond that keeps the family together. Although there is some truth in this statement, how many couples lose the meaning and happiness of marriage because their children will live together and suffer from each other.

Some people don't understand why others want to live a dink life. They think they are selfish and irresponsible, or they secretly wonder if others have physical problems and can't have children.

I just want to say that everyone has the right to choose their favorite lifestyle, and others have no right to interfere, and there is no need to judge others' motives with malicious speculation. This is a narrow and dark psychology.

Others are well-intentioned and think that the Dink family without children lacks happiness. However, children are not fish, and they know the happiness of fish. As my friend said, each has its own advantages and difficulties. Maybe this is the true nature of life.

What kind of lifestyle you choose, you have to bear what kind of results, both painful and happy. As a philosopher once said, life is varied and there is no better way to live. As long as you don't regret your choice, that is the best choice.

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