Talking about the departure of husband and wife

Nowadays, the post-90 s life is very stressful, and the process of understanding needs to consume too much time and energy, so I am too lazy to think. But occasionally brushing Tik Tok to watch Weibo see others show their love, and suddenly want to find a partner, which has created a lot of flash marriage couples.

It is said that 80% of people who get married in a flash will regret it, and 30% will choose to divorce as soon as they get married.

Today, let's talk about it. What are the problems with divorce just after marriage?

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There is no stable source of income to support marriage.

There used to be a relative at home. When we first met, boys were selling houses in Beijing and girls were the front desk of their company. They meet every day, chat when they are ripe, and find that their hometown is also a place. In the long run, the two people soon got together, both reached marriageable age, and were ready to get married after less than half a year of love.

Both parents are in their hometown. After marriage, both of them stayed in their hometown to work. At that time, the girl didn't listen to her parents' advice and had to marry him.

Because girls think that boys are especially kind to her when they are in love.

The boy's family is very ordinary. After marriage, they lived in poverty. They borrowed money from almost all their relatives as a down payment for buying a house.

After marriage, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, and they have been quarreling. Mother-in-law always thinks that girls spend a lot of money, and in the face of a chicken feather life, obedient men gradually begin to show their true colors.

The two divorced after less than a year of marriage, and the poor couple were really sad.

Friends will love at first sight, and love will love at first sight.

But marriage is a daily necessities sauce vinegar tea. Parents, houses, cars, children's education, and even who sweeps the floor, washes the dishes and cooks will cause quarrels between two people.

These things cannot be supported by so-called "love" alone.

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The two sides have been in love for too short a time and don't know each other very well.

Xiao Ye, a friend, and the blind date have only known each other for three months. After meeting each other for no more than ten times, she got married and got a license.

Xiao Ye said that at that time, she felt old, and her friends and parents kept urging her to have a good impression on the blind date. At that time, every time Xiao Ye saw a blind date, the other person would dress neatly, plan a day's trip in advance, take her out to play, eat delicious food, be gentle and considerate, and take the initiative to bear all the expenses of two people.

His parents also had a good impression on him, but unexpectedly, his temper changed after he got married. He usually throws his clothes on the sofa after work and never washes them. He does all the housework. Even if there is rubbish on the ground, he won't bend down to pick it up and walk over.

Family expenses are seldom borne, but she likes to point fingers at Xiao Ye and thinks that she is not doing well enough.

Xiao Ye separated from him within three months and divorced six months later.

The wrong marriage will hurt you more than you think, and the replacement cost is high. I sincerely suggest that you keep your eyes open when choosing a partner. Three months is not enough time to fully understand a person.

Before you get married, ask yourself, "Are you sure you really want this person to spend the rest of your life with you?" Think carefully before making a decision, don't be impulsive.

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Forced marriage

The last thing I suggest in marriage is to get married under force majeure, which is not only irresponsible for marriage, but also irresponsible for a life.

A cousin of mine talked about a boyfriend in her junior year. At that time, she was ignorant and her cousin didn't know how to protect herself from pregnancy.

At that time, my cousin said that she had miscarried, and the boy cried and begged her to marry him. My cousin is young and her first love. She felt that she had met the true love of her life, and decided to marry that boy despite the opposition and abuse of her family.

The boy dropped out of high school. He used to be a gangster in town. His father died young and there was only one mother in the family. His family conditions are so poor that he can only live on his mother's poor subsidy.

Cousin's marriage means that college must drop out. This incident caused a great uproar at school, and finally she didn't get her diploma. At the same time, the problems of the two people were exposed one by one before the child was born.

Boys are not sensible, often go out to fight, play cards with fair-weather friends, lose half a month's living expenses at every turn, and even treat their cousins violently when they are in a bad mood.

Later, my parents took my cousin home, but unfortunately my cousin was too old. After seven months, the child must be born.

When we don't know what marriage is and what responsibility it is, don't make a decision that our generation will regret.

Nowadays, marriage is no longer a necessity. Don't accept it reluctantly because you have reached the so-called "marriageable age". In the end, it was not worth the loss.