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Five elements of chatting with single fans

Why is it difficult to get close to women in chat?

Many students basically stay in the stage of chatting when they are in contact with women, and find it difficult to narrow the distance with women by chatting. In fact, from a certain point of view, it is normal for women to talk to you at first.

Few women give you a particularly large window at the beginning of chatting with you, because women all know that "it is too easy to get, so men don't cherish it".

Therefore, girls' feelings are slow and need to be screened and tested at different levels. But on the contrary, men produce emotions faster, which forms the biggest difference between men and women.

When women are cold, men are full of enthusiasm. When men are tired, women are in hot water. It is not difficult to see that the more women invest, the more they care. Next, Linger will analyze the five elements of chat for everyone.

Adjust your mentality and don't label each other.

Are you ready? Do a preparatory action first: adjust your mentality and don't label each other. First, don't label women too high, let alone yourself.

Everyone has a common problem. When we meet the appearance of a beautiful thing, we will think about whether other extended aspects are also beautiful. For example, when you see a beautiful woman, most people will think, is she sweet in voice, gentle in character, high in quality and demanding in finding a boyfriend?

It's like a balance. If you take her too seriously, you will easily feel inferior and insecure. Then this balance will never be balanced. Beautiful girls may have bad breath as soon as they open their mouths, so try to look at each other with a discriminating eye.

Next, we began to establish a link to chat with women:

First, give priority to humor and calmness.

Some boys and girls who just met are mainly humorous, which is wrong. At the very least, you should give girls a basic personality classification. Outgoing women should never be too "serious" and introverted women should never be "serious".

Outgoing girls have a large circle of contact, so for men who are boring and unable to stimulate emotions, it is basically a state of passing the customs. Introverted women have a small circle. If you are too glib, she will be more wary of you and be patient with introverted women, because such women can easily protect themselves with a cold attitude towards others.

Tell you a few good chat skills:

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Teasing is not difficult to understand. Try to tease the points that girls can change, such as wearing and making up. If you joke about a girl's height and weight directly, it's strange that she has a bad temper and is not hacked.

2. Praising others is also a kind of learning. You can't let others think that you are flattering, let alone make others think that you are out of thin air. Beautiful girls boast about the inside, while girls with a high degree of internalization boast about the outside, both inside and outside praise the girl's temperament and taste.

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Humorous songs understand the original meaning of a woman's speech, which is the essence of humor, so as long as you can respond quickly enough to YY, even if this woman sends a "hehe", you can misinterpret it as a "mouth"

Yes, I am thirsty. "

Second, grasp the sense of security and connection.

To attract a woman to like it, all you have to do is to establish a sense of connection with her. If a girl doesn't like talking to you, may she like you? So don't rush to expose the sense of demand, attract women quickly, and keep a basic connection first. Women are inherently insecure, so we should work together. The sense of security is mainly based on trust.

For example, the performance mode is: you don't just want to slap her in the face, don't just play, because only if she trusts you and is willing to date you will you have a chance to upgrade your relationship and seduce her, because it is almost impossible to upgrade your relationship without meeting and chatting, unless your hard value is too strong, but in this case, the value of knowing a woman is not high.

Third, the mood * * *

Emotion * * * sounds like a few tall words. In fact, it is not difficult to understand a general formula: the same experience+the same feeling = emotion * * * sound. As the saying goes, people who chat with each other need to achieve emotional harmony with women, so you should also have a basic understanding of her.

For example, this girl likes sadness and loneliness, which means she wants to be emotional. Should she talk about recalling the past, such as the past at school, but try not to talk too much about her feelings, which can also be very popular with girls at school.

If it is positive, try to look forward to the future, for example, you want to have your own career in the future, or what style you like to decorate your home in the future. When a woman is willing to express her thoughts and agrees with you more and more, then your mood has been successful.

Both men and women want to find someone who knows themselves well, and such a person is relatively hard to find. When you find that you have many of the same languages and most of the same ideas, who is willing to give up such people easily and waste energy and time on others?

Fourth, relationship implantation.

There may be many people who don't understand relationship implantation. As the name implies, it is to slowly implant your relationship with girls, but it is definitely not to expose the sense of demand. You can test how girls feel about you first.

For example, describe your buddy's love life and see if she is willing to participate in your topic and discuss it with you. It is absolutely impossible for her to see you. If a woman doesn't behave well, you can implant your relationship with friends or other brothers and sisters, so that she can relax her vigilance and get along with you easily.

If a woman behaves well, you can implant jokes about your relationship with her, such as: baby, mother, etc., assuming that there is a relationship between you, or some topics of sexual tension. Whether flirting or flirting, you can quickly close the relationship between you. A woman's imagination is rich. When women begin to imagine you, they will want to enter your world.

Fifth, pave the way for dating.

The purpose of chatting with women is to invite them to meet, because only meeting can enhance the relationship. A woman is emotional. What she wants is a real face-to-face feeling. First, before an invitation, make a vague invitation to judge whether a woman is willing to date you. The important advantage is to prevent women from being unwilling to talk to you and dating, leading to death or embarrassing atmosphere.

The concept of vague invitation is interpreted as not telling her the exact time and place, but simply saying the content of the appointment. For example, when I take you to a big meal, there is a new hot pot restaurant next to the company, and I take a partner to try it.

If her answer is only about time, place, etc. She is willing to go out with you, for example: Where? What time? What to eat? Wait a minute. At this time, as a man, he should quickly have his own opinion, set a time and place to make an appointment directly, and avoid too long interval between vague invitation and real invitation.

If the girl's answer is perfunctory, such as: I'm a little busy recently, let me look at the time, we'll see, and so on. Prove that she is not interested in you and doesn't want to see you. At this time, stop the invitation quickly, see if there is any problem with her chat or other aspects, or if there is any problem with her screening, find out the reason to improve yourself and then establish a second attraction with her. How to attract depends on the specific situation.

After catching these five elements and girls, the system of chatting with her is obvious. Go to actual combat quickly, and then I will continue to give you happiness myself. No one can help you without practical application. You can ask me questions in actual combat! Louis PUA accosted girls to study.