China men are so popular in Benben. What is the reason?

1. Men in China can give women at least respect and equality.

I often hear some China women say that her husband is a bit "male chauvinistic". In fact, male chauvinism in the eyes of China women is not "overbearing" in the eyes of Japanese women. What's more, the so-called "male chauvinism" of men in China can be ignored, because more men in China can give their wives relative trust and freedom while fighting for their own free space after marriage. Such a move seems to Japanese women.

Secondly, men in China can accept that women refuse to be full-time wives.

In China, whether a woman is a full-time wife is basically a woman's freedom. Only a few men will force her to be a full-time wife. In other words, it is acceptable for women to be the hostess in China. Even more often, her husband will encourage her to leave home and go to the workplace, willing to share housework together. But it is different in Japan, because of the influence of traditional culture, even if women choose to go to work and go home from work, it is inertia and fatigue for Japanese women to undertake all housework, and they dare to be angry and dare not speak. For this reason, Japanese women envy China men for doing housework after work, and appreciate men's attitude of supporting their wives' career.

30% to 80% of China men are willing to be henpecked.

In China, happy marriages are basically * * * in nature, that is, men must be henpecked, not because men in China are really afraid of their wives, but because men in China think it is natural to be patient with their wives. Therefore, many married men in China will coax their wives, care about their wives, love their wives and respect their wives. The tenderness and delicacy of men in China are envied by women in many countries, especially Japanese women who are eager for their husbands' love.

Fourthly, men in China have strong family values. '

For men in China, home is not only to find a companion, nor is it just a family reception, but to share the joys and sorrows of husband and wife. After having children, most people in China will take "creating better material conditions for children" as their lifelong goal. Look at the Spring Festival in China. Basically, people who are eager to go home are walking in a hurry on the road. Thus, China's family concept is so strong that his attachment to the family is actually his attachment to his wife and children.

Most men in China leave their wages to their wives.

From ancient times to the present, the main task of men in China is how to make money hard, but few men know how to manage money, because more men in China think that managing money is a very troublesome thing, and giving money to their wives will give them a minimum sense of security. Therefore, when' wife's financial management' has become a common phenomenon in China families, a few men in China who don't let their wives manage their finances seem a bit' wonderful'. In fact, in the material age, many women want to control their husbands' wages to show their sense of security in marriage. Why don't Japanese women want to?

6. Men in China usually tolerate their wives' bad temper.

When choosing a marriage partner, women in China often say,' He wants others to be good to him and me', which can be interpreted as: only a man with a good temper who can tolerate women's bad temper can make China women comfortable, because China women have formed such a concept of marriage and love, and China men have honed a set of real skills to tolerate women's bad temper in order to get a wife. Therefore, it is a compulsory course for China men to please their wives when they grow up, and Japanese women actually want to enjoy such treatment.

Seven, something, China men tend to rush in front of his wife.

No matter how playboy a China man is, no matter how fragile a China man looks on weekdays, as long as something happens at home, he will show his true colors as a man. The usual way for men in China to love their wives dearly is to swallow the bitter water into their stomachs and share happiness with their wives at the first time. I will silently bear the grievances at work, but my wife will be wronged at work. I will definitely appease my wife first, and even "love me, love my dog" and go to the place where my wife works. That is to say, men in China habitually let their wives treat themselves as' days', and rushing in front of their wives whenever something happens is a conditioned reflex of men in China.

Eight, China men usually don't easily say' divorce' to marriage.

Although the divorce rate in China is still high, more often than not, women can't stand their husbands' bad habits and give up their marriage voluntarily. Because the cost of Chinese married men is too high, China men usually don't take the initiative to ask for divorce, which is one of them. Even though men in China hate their wives, they have deep feelings for their children. So men in China will accommodate their marriages for the sake of their children. In fact, when women in China face divorce, they often say' I can't bear to have children'. Finally, on the issue of' divorce', women are often the first to be cruel. Maybe you squander what others need, or maybe you give up what others want. The popularity of China men in the Japanese marriage market more or less shows the general advantages of China men. What we should reflect on is China women's attitude towards marriage and their consideration of their husbands' kindness.